Absolutely, I think it should be about both. Sometimes I wonder though, if it can become such an ego booster for the 'pleaser' that they begin to focus on how it good it makes them feel to 'succeed' at it?! Does that make sense?
Caps just have a high sex drive and when with that special person we enjoy it so much that even if you are climaxed then we will be even more turned on by this,so we are very sexual when in the mood,which is usually all the time,unless we aee close to periods(female caps of course)males are probable the best for the females in the cap sign I think,but havent experienced it.capwomen wants sex just as much as the man cap,so it would definately be a sexual explosion if the pairin exists