Hey guys! First off, I'm a Sag woman involved with a Cap man. I think the usual traits: I'm free-spirited, lighthearted and very affectionate. He's reserved, grounded and intense. We're coworkers in a place where gossip runs rampant, so we try to keep things under cover. We both agreed to sex only in the beginning, but the booty calls turned into more of a FWB because we started talking daily, sometimes up to three times a day with lengthy phone calls. He stops by my department every week and talks to my coworker so he could see me without rising suspicion. But more recently he's been reckless in his actions: he wants to go out and do things together publicly, when he stops by my department he hangs over my desk staring into my eyes and tries to hold my hand, which confuses me. Since I've nothing to hide, I'd tell him how some Fri nights I'd go hang out at another coworker's house (male) and a friend of his. Nothing has ever happened between me and the friend (although it has come to light that he likes me), and I assured my guy this as it was a burning question of his. The male friend never mentioned me coming over to my guy (they been estranged lately), and he doesn't even know my guy and I are talking to each other. When I told my guy this, he didn't react, but a week later he hung out with his friend and said the friend was tired of me coming over and drinking all his alcohol! Knowing that his friend liked me, and hearing this, I decided to back off and not hang out over there. I never said anything b/c our relationship was supposed to be a secret. Well, the friend asked me why I was acting so icy, and I told him what my guy said without telling him who said it. Well, the friend declared he never said that! Needless to say, I got into an argument w/my guy, and he's upset with me for saying something he told me in confidence and won't speak to me. I don't know if he's not talking to me b/c I betrayed his trust or if it's possible he lied about what his friend said about me and got caught. I'm wondering if I should contact him or let him contact me... if he even will. It's been almost a week since we spoke, and he hasn't been by my department. I know he can be pretty stubborn, but I want an apology for him hanging up on me during our argument. But to be honest, I'm ready to make up b/c I miss our talks and the awesome sex we had. What should I do?
