Suddenly Insecure?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by scarletvixen on Saturday, August 20, 2016 and has 6 replies.

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@scarletvixen
12 Years

Not sure if this as an astrology sign thing or a guy thing but the guy that I'm 'friends' with is suddenly slightly pessimistic about himself. Because we're long distance, a lot of our conversations revolve around ideas and thoughts. Lately, in a few occasions, he'll say things like his opinions are just similar to many people, or that although he's helped me a lot, I really shouldn't attribute a lot of what I've accomplished to him.

I've tried asking why he thinks that way but he keeps saying that's how he feels.

I'm not too sure what I'm supposed to do about that. Usually I'll logically explain to him why I'm adamant that I trust his opinions but I'm not sure if it's the right thing to do?

Any help will be useful! Thank you!

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@scarletvixen
12 Years

Got it! I'll definitely keep that in mind. Thank you!

I have a strong suspicion he's not doing too well at work but he doesn't want to talk about it. Maybe all these pessimistic thoughts are coming out in response to that.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Could be. Capricorns have a tendency to self identify through our work. It's how we define ourselves.

Of course, I can't speak for all caps. It's a generalized statement.

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@scarletvixen
12 Years

Thanks! This has helped lessen my worries. As long as I know that it's not something terribly abnormal, things should be okay. Thank you again!