I've been dating my cappy for awhile now. Me being an aries I love to plan ahead and I need to "see" a greater picture, in order to work ma ass off to get there! Now I asked my cappy about the future and buying a place etc. After 5 minutes he tells me that all he knows is that I'm in his picture and that where and when isn't really important. And that kinda annoys me! I want him to have clear ideas, and "picture" of where and when so I can feel safer and maybe even plan a bit hehe 😛 It's sweet of him to say that I'm in his picture but he's abit older than me so I expect him to have thoughts about the future!!
So am I overreacting (i probably am), should I just wait and see what happends?
Aw, I understand where she is coming from. Missvulcano, it sounds like you are being just a tad pushy but I completely understand wanting to know if the two of you have the same vision and are on the same page.
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I've been dating my cappy for awhile now. Me being an aries I love to plan ahead and I need to "see" a greater picture, in order to work ma ass off to get there! Now I asked my cappy about the future and buying a place etc. After 5 minutes he tells me that all he knows is that I'm in his picture and that where and when isn't really important. And that kinda annoys me! I want him to have clear ideas, and "picture" of where and when so I can feel safer and maybe even plan a bit hehe 😛 It's sweet of him to say that I'm in his picture but he's abit older than me so I expect him to have thoughts about the future!!
So am I overreacting (i probably am), should I just wait and see what happends?