ryu8
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uncomfortable scenario, need insight please.
left a little bit out..
i've expressed my feelings a bit.. to the point where i don't want to over bear her with it. Subtle things here and there, holding her hand, crossing arms, cooking for her, little small things here and there. I don't want to scare her away as I know she doesn't like all that girly girl stuff and has told me she doesn't like guys that are overly attached and smother her. She is single... i'm afraid if i express my feelings towards her too early she may throw her guard up and I may push her away.. i've heard capricorns take a while to figure out if they truly like someone or not and weigh all options?
any information would be nice.. am i over thinking things right now? Ugh.
i've expressed my feelings a bit.. to the point where i don't want to over bear her with it. Subtle things here and there, holding her hand, crossing arms, cooking for her, little small things here and there. I don't want to scare her away as I know she doesn't like all that girly girl stuff and has told me she doesn't like guys that are overly attached and smother her. She is single... i'm afraid if i express my feelings towards her too early she may throw her guard up and I may push her away.. i've heard capricorns take a while to figure out if they truly like someone or not and weigh all options?
any information would be nice.. am i over thinking things right now? Ugh.
I think you're overthinking, but its okay to feel the way you're feeling. She may not really know how you feel about her, so to her this is a fun trip with friends. Your cousin does know how you feel about her but he's going to meet up with her friend. Too bad you couldn't join them.
Do you trust your cousin? This is what is important, here, I think.
It's really not an issue about trusting her, since you're really not in a relationship and you haven't completely told her how you feel. She does know you're interested, but honestly, you're not at the point in your relationship where you have exclusivity, so in her mind, she doesn't owe you any explanations. I hope that makes sense.
Bottom line is, you're going to have to wait and see what happens.
This girl is probably waiting on you to take the lead in the relationship. To get her, you'll have to be confident and take the bull by the horns. We like strong, confident men that are independent and manly.
I hope I helped you.
Do you trust your cousin? This is what is important, here, I think.
It's really not an issue about trusting her, since you're really not in a relationship and you haven't completely told her how you feel. She does know you're interested, but honestly, you're not at the point in your relationship where you have exclusivity, so in her mind, she doesn't owe you any explanations. I hope that makes sense.
Bottom line is, you're going to have to wait and see what happens.
This girl is probably waiting on you to take the lead in the relationship. To get her, you'll have to be confident and take the bull by the horns. We like strong, confident men that are independent and manly.
I hope I helped you.
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so here is the situation and i'm sorry if i start rambling.. i've had a little bit to drink -_-
basically i've known this girl since high school .. which was roughly from 2003-2006. We lost touch after we graduated and then i made the effort to get back in touch w/ her just recently probably about 2 months ago.
Her and I have a nice chemistry and a lot in common emotionally (basically can read each other, and know what each other is thinking and have the same interest and hobbies) same blunt and sarcastic humor as well.
We have hung out on several occasions.. went out to eat dinner.. movies.. clubs/lounges/bars you name it. And have had a good time.
My cousin who is a cancer (also has scorpio as either his moon or ascending, forgot which one...) has also been coming out with us a lot because he knows her as well (dates back to when we hung out in high school)
Scenario: today her and my cousin decided to go somewhere about 1.5 hrs away from here to visit a girl friend of hers he met recently and expressed interest in (last weekend) and they will be basically staying the night down them, just them 3. I was invited but explained i couldn't go because I have work in the morning and can't be drinking/ partying all night. I guess basically i'm quite jealous of what is going on here and wondering if it is a safe situation to be in or am i literally OVERTHINKING the whole thing. I've observed both my cousin and hers interaction and have noticed that she does seem to flirt a little w/ him...from time to time, whether it's subconsciously or not..and only when she drinks. (they will be drinking tonight.. for sure.)
He's a funny guy and has jokes he's quite outgoing.. and i'd even go to say he's a womanizer..to some extent..but he knows where I stand w/ this girl.
I'm more the reserved type, quite introverted, shy, quite blunt, and sarcastic, and tell it how it is type of person..which she gets and understands as she is like that as well...