What a Capricorn man should do to get a cap girl?

I'm a capricorn man and I have difficulty getting this capricorn girl. We are pretty much similar in our traits and character.
I wouldn't give a shit to people I'm nt interested in. Likewise for her. She is hard for me to communicate with him. Any tips?

How to start up a conversation with her??

I don't think so.. If yes she should at least be enthusiastic to text with me? There are times she took the initiative to ask me out. Or text me, but its like u know, doesn't mean she feels anything for me. We seldom hang out together as we are not working adult. Hope to be able to have some text with her at least though. But seems like she do not like texting

I mean we are now working adult. So she is kinda of busy.

I think we can be difficult to crack with Cap guys sometimes because in my experience, Cap males are probably the most awkward acting....its always been as if I made Cap guys nervous, and that nervous energy throws things off.

Texting sucks. Pick up the phone and call her. Also, not sure if you do this already, but relax and be yourself around her. She'll pick up your anxious energy....so dont rush things. If interest is there on her end it will probably be a slow process to actually know just because you are very similar. I think I could hide my interest from a Cap guy foreve honestly.

Text her on whatsapp. Regarding something that she hold interest in, dirt bike riding. Wanted to show her and wait for her reply so I can ask her along. But she was online and saw my text but no reply 😢 probably no interest on her end at all huh? So rude of her?

What should I actually do instead of only me asking her out/ texting her.. How can I start a conversation with her?

Where do you know her from? Friends? Work? Just start talking to her face to face about something you have a common middle ground in. I suggest face to face first, then you can judge the chemistry, body language, facial expressions and be able to read how you're coming across to her.

Don't be so nervous. Step up and take a risk. I know, I know, not so easy for us caps. But, I've learned in my old age that taking risks on personal matters isn't such a bad thing. Really. What's the worse that can happen? A little rejection. So what. You suck it up and move on. Then you don't have to wonder any more, you just know whether the interest is returned or not. Riiight?

She was my classmate in Uni. Its only occasionally that we managed to meet up. So face to face talk chances are not high.

Then how would you contact her? Phone? Facebook? Text? Just reach out in a friendly, lets-catch-up way.

Usually I send her text via phone. We don't really call each other. Only text. She did sometimes take the initiative to text me or ask me out. But conversation in text dont last.

Why didn't you go out when she took the initiative? Or did you?

You know, as a cap, we will only take the initiative so much before we quit trying...

I did. But maybe is it because I did not act like a challenge? Will it turn her off?

Maybe she decided she didn't like you?

I got my CAP(but im not a CAP) by being consistent. Planting seeds over time & using HUMOR!!!!!!!! If you don't have any sense of humor, Go FIND SOME! plan what your jokes and funny stories will be prior. CAPS love confidence, almost cocky. I'm right there on the edge with both!! My girl LOVES IT. You better have something interesting to talk about when you call. Don't call and say "Hey Whats UP"...silence.... Plan a convo b4 you call. Call and be like "Hey I'm goin here with some friends would love for you and your friends you join us" Or "This blah blah blah is playing this weekend, Lets check that ish out!" I would give my girl options for dates when we were 1st talking. Not just "Hey lets do coffee". Id be, "Do you want to check out this block party this weekend or see So and So at this comedy club?" So it can be a YES or Yes answer hopefully! If your goin to choose the ask her out option, plan that shit out and come legit. 1st & 2nd dates are a BIG Deal!!!! Talk like your a walking carnival and she will want a ticket once she gets to know you...My CAP didn't really initiate much. Prolly because she was fighting Bros off with a stick like most women and had options. You have to make yourself stand out with a CAP. They want that rare breed. Figure out whats makes you a catch and rock that shit like a New Era! Good Luck! 🙂

Hi guys. After texting her she actually suggest to catch up tmr night but she can't make it. But she postpone it to Saturday for lunch..any plan for me?? Other den lunch what should I do? If, she only have couple of hours or: she have the whole noon to spare. I dint ask how many hour is she going to give me. Please advise!

Play it by ear. When yall meet ask how much time she has and plan something to do that's close by. Just start looking around and see what there is to do. Window shopping, a walk in a park, a museum...stuff like that. Or invite her to do something that night. During lunch,start up a conversation about movies that are playing and discover one you'd both like to see and ask if she'd like to go.

Posted by truecap
Play it by ear. When yall meet ask how much time she has and plan something to do that's close by. Just start looking around and see what there is to do. Window shopping, a walk in a park, a museum...stuff like that. Or invite her to do something that night. During lunch,start up a conversation about movies that are playing and discover one you'd both like to see and ask if she'd like to go.

^This. Come up with come cools things to do. Caps love outdoors and nature, walks etc. Try to come up with something a little off the wall. And if she says no. Don't sweat it. Try again at a later date.

I am so man to other girls. Leading the girls like a leader and usually, girls can only make suggestion , I make decision. Hahaha. Typical male chauvinist taking control, but girls just like it. But I think she simply won't like it man.. Cap girls .. Hard!

Cap girls really, really like a take charge man!!!!!! We need someone to put us in our place and keep us from controlling everything. No wimpy guys for us, nope. Not gonna work if you don't take the lead!

You Can Do This!!!

Huh. I tot both caps are hard headed and one have to give in? I'm ready to give in? I thought cap women like to be in control? If I take over the control is that ok?? Will she dislike me for being too control??

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Huh. I tot both caps are hard headed and one have to give in? I'm ready to give in? I thought cap women like to be in control? If I take over the control is that ok?? Will she dislike me for being too control??

I PROMISE you, it will be okay! Take over, she will like you better!!!! I have a feeling this is what she's waiting on.

As far as the control, we will take it (we do like it), BUT, we won't respect a man that lets us take control all the time. We NEED a take charge kind of man. Don't be controlling or a bully or an ass, but take the lead and take charge. We like a strong man.

I'm sure some of the other cappy ladies will concur here. Just look back on some of the old threads, we have said this all over the place.

This may not back up what I'm telling you, but it will be an interesting read for you:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/capricorn-women-preferences-3598003/

Hai. She cancelled the appointment last min .

Dang. Did she say why she cancelled? Did yall reschedule?

Reading this thread you seem so anxious/nervous and eager to please/impress. Theres no need for any of it.

It was supposed to be on Thursday night which she asked for but postpone to Saturday . But some classmates mentioned to have a clas gathering an den she said meet on the class gathering den.