@SpiceNSugar
12 Years1,000+ Posts
Hmm hmm indeed I do
Posted by PVandJellay
Posted by nasha82
This is just a human thing in general lol
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i guess the main thing is, is the idea of IF you're too easy.....then you're not worth getting.
just in a more generalized way of thinking.
I plead neutral. It's not that we want what we can't have, we want what we have to work for. We don't want something that comes easy. For a cap to appreciate it, we have to earn it. We can have anything we want if we work hard enough for it.
It may seem like we can't have it, but we're willing to put in whatever amount of time it takes. Five years, okay, ten years, sure. It is a goal for us and we will keep working until we reach that goal.
Whether you're talking about relationships, people, career, material things.....we can be patient and keep our sites on the end result.
You know I've read in many places that a cap woman knows how to get what she wants. 😉
False, IMO.
Caps are realists.
Wanting what you can't have is about as unrealistic as it gets.
Posted by Everything
There's nothing a cap can't have.
Hence the name everything?
Very false. Want challenge? YES. But if it's clear I can't have it, I move on swiftly. It's actually the easiest way to walk away for me. I get bored real fast when someone's not "mine", or clearly going to be mine sooner or later.
Does a cap can cut off his emotions? Or is that false and it just seems like he is doing that?
And why is it that when the relationship is ended and you don't want to be "friends" with him as he is asking 5 days later he wants to go out with you? I thought that a cap was the kind off person that when he says its over, it is really over....
Posted by Lindaaaatje
Does a cap can cut off his emotions? Or is that false and it just seems like he is doing that?
I can cut them off. It's self preservation.
Posted by Lindaaaatje
And why is it that when the relationship is ended and you don't want to be "friends" with him as he is asking 5 days later he wants to go out with you? I thought that a cap was the kind off person that when he says its over, it is really over....
Are you sure he's not asking you to do things as friends and you're just misinterpreting it as asking you out.
I can be friends, but there has to be some time between the relationship and friendship.
Posted by truecap
Posted by Lindaaaatje
Does a cap can cut off his emotions? Or is that false and it just seems like he is doing that?I can cut them off. It's self preservation.
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I (cancer women) is in a relationship with cap man. But lately he doesn't seem to be interested in me. Not like a month ago. But when i ask what is the matter? He says nothing is wrong. He does'nt say he loves me but when i say i love you he replies " me too". I don't know what to thing off him. Do i let him be and wait until he sends a message or do i let him know that i still care and continue to contact him?
Posted by truecap
Posted by Lindaaaatje
And why is it that when the relationship is ended and you don't want to be "friends" with him as he is asking 5 days later he wants to go out with you? I thought that a cap was the kind off person that when he says its over, it is really over....
Are you sure he's not asking you to do things as friends and you're just misinterpreting it as asking you out.
I can be friends, but there has to be some time between the relationship and friendship.
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We were dating and everything was ok. Then the relationship was over because he could not deal with my emotions around my divorse. Then i didn't contact him for several days and he starts contacting me again and saying he misses me. The relationship continues and now one month later he is silent, more than usual. What to do? Let him take control when he wants to talk to me or see me? Or do i let him know that i still love him and take the first step to talk....
Posted by Gobshite
Sugar and spice, and all things nice...Actually, that's bad for my teeth. Pass!
What do you mean by that?
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