Would you still be a friend—

I posted something on one of my other topics regarding the cap in my life and I learned something regarding caps and it might be a cap trait. Here's a part of it:


Me: "Not that I want to be just friends (I want more than that), but is it that caps don't like the option of friendship when it's someone they're interested in? They have to cut them off right away?"

CapAngel: Wow I do this. I don't know if its a Cap thing but I guess it is lol. If I am attracted to a man and like him for more than a friend, there's NO way I can be JUST his friend. I would always want more and inside I would suffer so I cut them off right away. I'm not friends with exes neither.

Is this also a cap trait? My cap guy threatened never to speak to me again because he wanted more and at the time I was thinking of just wanting to be friends (even he agreed) but he still pursued hoping I'd change my mind (which, in the end, I did).

Guys normally wouldn't do this. I think.

depends, if they know i'm interested, friendship is awkward.