@Hemispheres
11 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus
That demands a lot of work dude. Draw a synastry chart.
Looks great. You have to look at the aspects, you can see Sun conjunct rising, Mars opp Mars, Sun square MC obviously,
the other rising is opposite the other sun...
Neptune conj MC...
Moon in cap conj all that other stuff in cap, means meotional connection to their career.
So apparently this woman was terrified I'd run of I knew her real age. She was born in 1970, not 1980.
Updated chart, doesn't look like we're as compatible as originally thought.

Her chart.
Sun in Pisces
Moon in Taurus
Mercury in Pisces
Venus in Aries
Mars in Taurus
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Taurus
Uranus in Libra
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Virgo
Lilith in Leo
Pisces Ascending
Don't know if our opposite Sun moon placements and same ascending sign mean we're more compatible or not.
She doesn't look 45. and she acts even younger.
And yes she lied. She also lied about being married but given the circumstances surrounding her divorce and it being within the last year I'm not holding it against her. it was a very stressful time for her. hopefully someone can look at placements and give a quick interpretation.
The age thing is a turn on honestly.
Anyone? She lied about her ex husband because his son sexually molested her daughter and she lost full custody due to not being home when it happened. She cooperated with CPS and her ex's son got sent to prison. The ex then began to become verbally abusive and it progressed into domestic violence. She filed for divorce as he was in prison.
Didn't believe it at first but I did a search using the ex and his son's name and the story checked out.
I just laughed when she told me her real age. As if I'd just be like "gross" and never talk to her again.
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Anyone? She lied about her ex husband because his son sexually molested her daughter and she lost full custody due to not being home when it happened. She cooperated with CPS and her ex's son got sent to prison. The ex then began to become verbally abusive and it progressed into domestic violence. She filed for divorce as he was in prison.Didn't believe it at first but I did a search using the ex and his son's name and the story checked out.
I just laughed when she told me her real age. As if I'd just be like "gross" and never talk to her again.
Wait.....what? She lost custody because she wasn't home when her child got molested— Did you say that right or was it typed out wrong?
Nothing to do with signs, but that's a LOT of baggage to deal with. You should be extremely slow and cautious with this!
Neither her or the husband were home. Her daughter was only 10 at the time and she got in trouble for leaving her at home alone. The son returned home from work and proceeded to molest the daughter. She told a teacher a couple weeks later.
She has partial custody along with the parents but lives with her parents.
And I'm aware of the baggage. She acts like a bubbly young twenty something so obviously she had metal issues from her past. It's not the only dirtbag she's dated either.
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And I'm aware of the baggage. She acts like a bubbly young twenty something
So she's extremely heavily medicated as well....illegally possibly— That's the only thing that makes sense for what you typed dude.
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Neither her or the husband were home. Her daughter was only 10 at the time and she got in trouble for leaving her at home alone. The son returned home from work and proceeded to molest the daughter. She told a teacher a couple weeks later.She has partial custody along with the parents but lives with her parents.
Why would you want a woman who abandon her child like that?!!!
You are young!! It's too much baggage. Your "relationship " will not survive!
Shit my mother left my sister and I home alone when we were extremely young. 3-4 years old and my sister is 1.5 years older than me. She had no choice, my father was locked up and we lived in section 8 housing so it's not like she could afford to hire babysitter. My sister looked after me until she got home. I guess I should tell my stepdad he needs to leave her due to her baggage and abandoning us.
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And I'm aware of the baggage. She acts like a bubbly young twenty somethingSo she's extremely heavily medicated as well....illegally possibly— That's the only thing that makes sense for what you typed dude.
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She was also abused by a neighbor as a child. Coming from someone who is a survivor of childhood abuse I find it understandable. I have multiple personality disorder among PTSD and manic bi-polar disorder. Sometimes I act my age other times I'm like a hyperactive child. Given she doesn't act childish all the time and has held much better paying jobs than I it's understandable.
And given she's in her mid 40s and overweight from a bad thyroid combined with eating to soothe her pain after her daughter was taken away I don't find her hemorrhoid excuse she used when she cancelled a date to be far fetched. I'm meeting her roommate this Friday as well. She didn't want to introduce me to him because due to all the shitty guys she's dated he's very protective (they've been friends since college) and I've been told he will lecture me and her as well once he finds out we're dating. I can deal with it.
She's 45 and lives with her parents? Did I read that right?
I'm sure you want to fix and help and love her, but no what are you doing?!
No her daughter lives with her parents. She shares a house with her roommate she's known since college.
I don't expect to fix her, issues like hers don't resolve themselves without serious therapy. I learned this the hard way after living most of my life turning down and help and having mental after emotional breakdown trying to hide from my issues and bury my feelings. All I'm saying is I've been in her shoes so I won't pass judgement.
If she becomes manipulative, controlling or abusive I have no issue ending it. Not going to be easy though.... Her pluto is opposite my sun.
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No her daughter lives with her parents. She shares a house with her roommate she's known since college.I don't expect to fix her, issues like hers don't resolve themselves without serious therapy. I learned this the hard way after living most of my life turning down and help and having mental after emotional breakdown trying to hide from my issues and bury my feelings. All I'm saying is I've been in her shoes so I won't pass judgement.
If she becomes manipulative, controlling or abusive I have no issue ending it. Not going to be easy though.... Her pluto is opposite my sun.
She shares a house with another guy??
Sorry Hemy but I.have a feeling that this has "bad news" written all over it and I am not going to say any more as the more a person opposes a taurus the taurus will stick the heels in to prove a point.. Just look after yourself.
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Yes a roommate who is good friends and she's known since college. He's every protective given they're such good friends and he's witnessed her abusive ex's and knows about her childhood issues. I'm meeting him Friday and she'll tell him we're dating so I can get the lecture over with and get to know him better. Bout damn time, I've been asking for a couple of months now since she seems afraid of confrontation. Typical Pisces trait. I found it a bit suspicious at first but he's like an older brother figure, looks over her and very protective since she keeps opening herself up to abusive guys.
And trust me I know about sticking around to prove a point. I did it with the Gem ex just to get psychical evidence of her dumping me to screw the co-worker after she took me back.
Rubbed that shit all in her face and dumped her ass. She's still reeling over it 5 months later.
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I'm hoping someone can give me a rundown of not only the woman I'm dating and my natal chart, but look at the two charts and see how compatible we are.
Thanks in advance!
My Chart:
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Gemini
Mercury in Gemini
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Aquarius
Jupiter in Taurus
Saturn in Capricorn
Uranus in Capricorn
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio
Lilith in Virgo
Ascending Node in Pisces
Her Chart:
Sun in Pisces
Moon in Capricorn
Mercury in Pisces
Venus in Taurus
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Virgo
Uranus in Scorpio
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Libra
Lilith in Virgo
Ascending Node in Leo