Help with Synastry Reading

I wonder if anyone could help me with this synastry?

I noticed the moons conjunct in my 4th house and 1st house, the venus/mars aspects and a lot of pluto aspects but can't make an overall reading.

Both tob are accurate. Thanks!

@Blue_Froggie @tiziani @oxSunQueenxo ?

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"Overall" as in... a summary? I'm not very good at summarizing; I'd have to give you more details than general comments.

I would be happy with detail comments. I just wanted to dig a bit deeper. She's a friend/crush that keeps popping out. Thanks! ☺

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I wonder if anyone could help me with this synastry?

I noticed the moons conjunct in my 4th house and 1st house, the venus/mars aspects and a lot of pluto aspects but can't make an overall reading.

Both tob are accurate. Thanks!

@Blue_Froggie @tiziani @oxSunQueenxo ?

Thanks for posting natals along with the synastry 😄



Hmm IDK man I feel there aren't enough aspects to guarantee a definite action to get you guys to take it to the next level 😢

Yeah you said there are lots of Pluto aspects but imo this synastry isn't a Plutonic one, the planets that are aspecting Pluto are mostly outers but there is a Venus-Pluto sextile... Moon/moon conjunction on IC, a very emotionally potent connection to make you feel at home around each other and to 'get' each other. Now your moon is also conjunct your Chiron, how much you are being vulnerable around her will have a say in the outcome of this relationship, I feel? How true and accepting you are of your emotions to yourself and thereby to her(her moon) , whenever there is a direct Chiron contact in synastry, it will be a very soft sore spot which can make us feel insecure about that aspect of our life. In a chart, where we have Chiron is more or less the never healing wound that we have to accept unconditionally and start to accept as a part of us. Acceptance more or less takes away the pain so that we don't get too disappointed too often but yeah to get there we need to accept the "wounding" There cannot be a non emotional ground between you guys especially with the moon/moon/IC conjunction, moon/Venus,Venus-Neptune and Venus-Pluto... But how much you will act on it is what seems iffy to me.

I wouldn't call it just a crush on your part. Ffs, she is activating all of your relationship/sexual houses, fourth/IC and your tenth house. I would think you would feel more than what you described 😈 but again the problem area would be how much energy you are sending out...

The erratic nature of the relationship could be because of moon/Uranus opposition in synastry, it maybe because there aren't enough chances to establish a stable emotional bond or even immature behaviour or a need for space, still a very exciting aspect to have in synastry, unluckily it's your Uranus instead of hers. I feel she would handle Uranian energy better and also act on the excitement it brings since her Mars aspects YOUR Venus and sits on your NN...

There are many aspects for good emotional bond and attraction but what the chart lacks is the "drive" from your end, I think I feel this because your Mars isn't that well aspected despite she loading you up with tons of BowChickaBowWow energy...

If you are very interested, you have to make that conscious effort, your Mars to her Sun is a sextile, you have to do this knowingly rather than wait for the right time. In your favor it is an exalted Mars! And there is a bit of resonance in your charts, you are a Virgo Desc and she has a sixth house heavy chart and her fifth is touching your Desc. Both of you are moon/Uranus and you guys have inconjuncts!

I do wish there were more aspects that were more action oriented in this synastry, long term wise your Saturn is on her Descendant... But that Neptune/Saturn conjunction can also make you guys friends for life...

Really sorry but I cannot give a yes or no type of answer. I feel more of friendship with strong emotional bond and you guys might be around each other for long with some erratic/unconventional element thrown into the mix. Wouldn't hurt to give it a shot tho, your Mars quincunx moon shouldn't stop you from going after what you want and she might be willing to try a steady relationship now with her Venus-Saturn opposition...

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Hi Blue_Froggie

Thanks a lot for this! I'll come back later to respond but to start I can say that you were spot on in many things! 🙂

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Posted by carrazeda
I wonder if anyone could help me with this synastry?

I noticed the moons conjunct in my 4th house and 1st house, the venus/mars aspects and a lot of pluto aspects but can't make an overall reading.

Both tob are accurate. Thanks!

@Blue_Froggie @tiziani @oxSunQueenxo ?

Thanks for posting natals along with the synastry 😄



Hmm IDK man I feel there aren't enough aspects to guarantee a definite action to get you guys to take it to the next level 😢

Yeah you said there are lots of Pluto aspects but imo this synastry isn't a Plutonic one, the planets that are aspecting Pluto are mostly outers but there is a Venus-Pluto sextile... Moon/moon conjunction on IC, a very emotionally potent connection to make you feel at home around each other and to 'get' each other. Now your moon is also conjunct your Chiron, how much you are being vulnerable around her will have a say in the outcome of this relationship, I feel? How true and accepting you are of your emotions to yourself and thereby to her(her moon) , whenever there is a direct Chiron contact in synastry, it will be a very soft sore spot which can make us feel insecure about that aspect of our life. In a chart, where we have Chiron is more or less the never healing wound that we have to accept unconditionally and start to accept as a part of us. Acceptance more or less takes away the pain so that we don't get too disappointed too often but yeah to get there we need to accept the "wounding" There cannot be a non emotional ground between you guys especially with the moon/moon/IC conjunction, moon/Venus,Venus-Neptune and Venus-Pluto... But how much you will act on it is what seems iffy to me.

I wouldn't call it just a crush on your part. Ffs, she is activating all of your relationship/sexual houses, fourth/IC and your tenth house. I would think you would feel more than what you described 😈 but again the problem area would be how much energy you are sending out...

The erratic nature of the relationship could be because of moon/Uranus opposition in synastry, it maybe because there aren't enough chances to establish a stable emotional bond or even immature behaviour or a need for space, still a very exciting aspect to have in synastry, unluckily it's your Uranus instead of hers. I feel she would handle Uranian energy better and also act on the excitement it brings since her Mars aspects YOUR Venus and sits on your NN...

There are many aspects for good emotional bond and attraction but what the chart lacks is the "drive" from your end, I think I feel this because your Mars isn't that well aspected despite she loading you up with tons of BowChickaBowWow energy...

If you are very interested, you have to make that conscious effort, your Mars to her Sun is a sextile, you have to do this knowingly rather than wait for the right time. In your favor it is an exalted Mars! And there is a bit of resonance in your charts, you are a Virgo Desc and she has a sixth house heavy chart and her fifth is touching your Desc. Both of you are moon/Uranus and you guys have inconjuncts!

I do wish there were more aspects that were more action oriented in this synastry, long term wise your Saturn is on her Descendant... But that Neptune/Saturn conjunction can also make you guys friends for life...

Really sorry but I cannot give a yes or no type of answer. I feel more of friendship with strong emotional bond and you guys might be around each other for long with some erratic/unconventional element thrown into the mix. Wouldn't hurt to give it a shot tho, your Mars quincunx moon shouldn't stop you from going after what you want and she might be willing to try a steady relationship now with her Venus-Saturn opposition...

Hi Blue_Froggie

Thanks a lot for this! I'll come back later to respond but to start I can say that you were spot on in many things! 🙂

Welcome 😊 and yeah sure

If I may ask something? Guys who get readings from me, if you can read out one or two lines from either Bible, Gita or Koran or anything spiritual---- it would be great for me. I feel like after few readings my energy gets depleted😡

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I'll do that and nominate you Saint Blue_Froggie! 😘

To the synastry:

Yes to call her a crush was an understatement.

This woman has been taking me to ups and downs that I never experienced. We've met 9 months ago and it was a kind of "love at first sight" experience. There was something in her smile and her eyes that trigged something very deep in me. We get along REALLY well since the start but soon it was clear that this was going to be erratic. She is going through big changes in her life (just started a sabbatical last month). I opened myself to her at the end of May - very clear, like saying I'm completely fascinated by you since the very first moment - and she talked about friendship. However, after that she has been doing things that don't seem to match her words and our bond has continuing to grow. There have been times when I decided to back off and she always pushes me back in. This last time I stopped talking to her in early September after a few non responded messages. We've met again this weekend following an invite from her. We've spent 8 hours together filled with constant talk in a clear intimate bond - she had tears in her eyes twice. Intellectually the connection is very strong. We share the same taste, have similar opinions on almost anything, we even dress with a similar style . Surprisingly given that I'm a lot younger I give her a lot of career and life advices. Which she listen and respects. It's like if I understand intuitively what she's going through. At some point this weekend she told me she has an fwb that lives in another country. After telling me how she doesn't understand ldr and saying that she was just experimenting with this fwb. Can't really tell why she told me that. If she wanted to test me or just let me know that she isn't available.

Where this strong bond can go I don't know. We didn't met at a good time for both. She depressed and about to change her life with no idea of what to do and me coming out of a six years relationship still trying to balance myself. She actually throw me to therapy during the summer (ok there were other things but she was the nail in the coffin and occupied 50% of the therapy time). So it's interesting that you talk about vulnerabilities! I manage to balance myself again in the last few months and get my sanity back. This weekend I was under control and being myself with her for the first time in quite a while.

But what will I do with this? I accept my feelings towards her and that I can't force anything. I accept that it might never go beyond a friendship. Maybe because of my cap mars I really don't like waste and to know that I can take a friendship out of this makes me happy. I've been following my gut the whole time here. The "inner voice" keeps telling me there's something very powerful and that I should dig deeper to see what it is. At the moment I can see that it's more than a normal friendship. I can count with one hand the number of friends that have cried in front of me and she's one of them. Interesting that you say that the drive is on my side. At the moment I don't want to provoke anything beyond the friendship. I just manage to pull myself back up and don't want to throw myself in the mud. Plus I need to wait for her mind to settle. I'll follow my gut and see when I can but yes, I actually have a lot of will and drive to act. I just don't want to do it if I don't see a possibility for more than a friendship. I rather keep like this and cherish this way.

If I can ask something, you mentioned a lot of things regarding my reactions. Is there anything else you can read from her side?

Thanks so much!

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Posted by carrazeda
I wonder if anyone could help me with this synastry?

I noticed the moons conjunct in my 4th house and 1st house, the venus/mars aspects and a lot of pluto aspects but can't make an overall reading.

Both tob are accurate. Thanks!

@Blue_Froggie @tiziani @oxSunQueenxo ?

Thanks for posting natals along with the synastry 😄



Hmm IDK man I feel there aren't enough aspects to guarantee a definite action to get you guys to take it to the next level 😢

Yeah you said there are lots of Pluto aspects but imo this synastry isn't a Plutonic one, the planets that are aspecting Pluto are mostly outers but there is a Venus-Pluto sextile... Moon/moon conjunction on IC, a very emotionally potent connection to make you feel at home around each other and to 'get' each other. Now your moon is also conjunct your Chiron, how much you are being vulnerable around her will have a say in the outcome of this relationship, I feel? How true and accepting you are of your emotions to yourself and thereby to her(her moon) , whenever there is a direct Chiron contact in synastry, it will be a very soft sore spot which can make us feel insecure about that aspect of our life. In a chart, where we have Chiron is more or less the never healing wound that we have to accept unconditionally and start to accept as a part of us. Acceptance more or less takes away the pain so that we don't get too disappointed too often but yeah to get there we need to accept the "wounding" There cannot be a non emotional ground between you guys especially with the moon/moon/IC conjunction, moon/Venus,Venus-Neptune and Venus-Pluto... But how much you will act on it is what seems iffy to me.

I wouldn't call it just a crush on your part. Ffs, she is activating all of your relationship/sexual houses, fourth/IC and your tenth house. I would think you would feel more than what you described 😈 but again the problem area would be how much energy you are sending out...

The erratic nature of the relationship could be because of moon/Uranus opposition in synastry, it maybe because there aren't enough chances to establish a stable emotional bond or even immature behaviour or a need for space, still a very exciting aspect to have in synastry, unluckily it's your Uranus instead of hers. I feel she would handle Uranian energy better and also act on the excitement it brings since her Mars aspects YOUR Venus and sits on your NN...

There are many aspects for good emotional bond and attraction but what the chart lacks is the "drive" from your end, I think I feel this because your Mars isn't that well aspected despite she loading you up with tons of BowChickaBowWow energy...

If you are very interested, you have to make that conscious effort, your Mars to her Sun is a sextile, you have to do this knowingly rather than wait for the right time. In your favor it is an exalted Mars! And there is a bit of resonance in your charts, you are a Virgo Desc and she has a sixth house heavy chart and her fifth is touching your Desc. Both of you are moon/Uranus and you guys have inconjuncts!

I do wish there were more aspects that were more action oriented in this synastry, long term wise your Saturn is on her Descendant... But that Neptune/Saturn conjunction can also make you guys friends for life...

Really sorry but I cannot give a yes or no type of answer. I feel more of friendship with strong emotional bond and you guys might be around each other for long with some erratic/unconventional element thrown into the mix. Wouldn't hurt to give it a shot tho, your Mars quincunx moon shouldn't stop you from going after what you want and she might be willing to try a steady relationship now with her Venus-Saturn opposition...

Hi Blue_Froggie

Thanks a lot for this! I'll come back later to respond but to start I can say that you were spot on in many things! 🙂

Welcome 😊 and yeah sure

If I may ask something? Guys who get readings from me, if you can read out one or two lines from either Bible, Gita or Koran or anything spiritual---- it would be great for me. I feel like after few readings my energy gets depleted😡

I'll do that and nominate you Saint Blue_Froggie! 😘

To the synastry:

Yes to call her a crush was an understatement.

This woman has been taking me to ups and downs that I never experienced. We've met 9 months ago and it was a kind of "love at first sight" experience. There was something in her smile and her eyes that trigged something very deep in me. We get along REALLY well since the start but soon it was clear that this was going to be erratic. She is going through big changes in her life (just started a sabbatical last month). I opened myself to her at the end of May - very clear, like saying I'm completely fascinated by you since the very first moment - and she talked about friendship. However, after that she has been doing things that don't seem to match her words and our bond has continuing to grow. There have been times when I decided to back off and she always pushes me back in. This last time I stopped talking to her in early September after a few non responded messages. We've met again this weekend following an invite from her. We've spent 8 hours together filled with constant talk in a clear intimate bond - she had tears in her eyes twice. Intellectually the connection is very strong. We share the same taste, have similar opinions on almost anything, we even dress with a similar style . Surprisingly given that I'm a lot younger I give her a lot of career and life advices. Which she listen and respects. It's like if I understand intuitively what she's going through. At some point this weekend she told me she has an fwb that lives in another country. After telling me how she doesn't understand ldr and saying that she was just experimenting with this fwb. Can't really tell why she told me that. If she wanted to test me or just let me know that she isn't available.

Where this strong bond can go I don't know. We didn't met at a good time for both. She depressed and about to change her life with no idea of what to do and me coming out of a six years relationship still trying to balance myself. She actually throw me to therapy during the summer (ok there were other things but she was the nail in the coffin and occupied 50% of the therapy time). So it's interesting that you talk about vulnerabilities! I manage to balance myself again in the last few months and get my sanity back. This weekend I was under control and being myself with her for the first time in quite a while.

But what will I do with this? I accept my feelings towards her and that I can't force anything. I accept that it might never go beyond a friendship. Maybe because of my cap mars I really don't like waste and to know that I can take a friendship out of this makes me happy. I've been following my gut the whole time here. The "inner voice" keeps telling me there's something very powerful and that I should dig deeper to see what it is. At the moment I can see that it's more than a normal friendship. I can count with one hand the number of friends that have cried in front of me and she's one of them. Interesting that you say that the drive is on my side. At the moment I don't want to provoke anything beyond the friendship. I just manage to pull myself back up and don't want to throw myself in the mud. Plus I need to wait for her mind to settle. I'll follow my gut and see when I can but yes, I actually have a lot of will and drive to act. I just don't want to do it if I don't see a possibility for more than a friendship. I rather keep like this and cherish this way.

If I can ask something, you mentioned a lot of things regarding my reactions. Is there anything else you can read from her side?

Thanks so much!

Lmao

I will reply to that first line alone for now... NOooooo i meant write two or three lines here when you get my reading and I will read it, sort of like an exchange. Someone told me astro readings should never be free unless it is offered as a cleansing or a practice reading.... Your reply made me choke on my juice! LMAO



I guess I should have phrased that properly...

I will rely to your feedback in my lunch break and Thank you😊

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Ok Miss got you! 🤗

I don't know much about religion but I always liked this quote from Gita:

The happiness which comes from long practice, which leads to the end of suffering, which at first is like poison, but at last like nectar - this kind of happiness arises from the serenity of one's own mind.

And here a scene from one of my fav movies (I found it very spiritual)

https://www.youtube.com/watchv=GZSEMCDzO7w

And because I found spirituality in music