Sun conjuct Pluto in Synastry

What are all your guys thoughts on this?

I am pluto and the other person is sun

if this could ever happen to me, i'll definitely be the pluto person.

Posted by AneemA08
Well I hv that synastry within myself.

Let's say my relationship with myself is on/off

Lol

Very, very intense.

The sun doesn't like to change but the pluto like keeps thinking about ways to change it. So what would occur is, constant what may/may not be conscious self-imposed destruction lmao

However, I'd like to believe it's just a refining process or maturing process. 🙂

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The attraction really is so intense here. This guy is Sun, Moon and Merc all in Aries in the 6th house.

It's hard not to want him

I was shiny sun.....he was serious, intense, heavy Pluto

It was the most transformational relationship I was ever in

Loads of lessons

Very passionate, unhealthily so

Glad I experienced it but wouldn't want to again

Some things are meant to be experienced once and once only

Posted by Tiffanyqq
Conjunction Sun - Pluto

It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: they will be drawn to each other like two magnets, they will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship may not last forever, it may not develop into a quiet and tender love. If they part, it is close to impossible to stay friends because of the constant reminder of the passion that once existed. It's all or nothing with them. If they part, one will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through. However, if they stay together, there is strength to gain from each other.

Were you Sun or Pluto @Tiffanyqq ?

From all your replies seems the sun person is "worse off" if things go bad.

I found this good read

https://illumeastrology.blogspot.co.uk/2013/06/sun-square-pluto-synastry.html?m=1

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What are all your guys thoughts on this?

I am pluto and the other person is sun

I have had this conjuct with others and felt nothing sexual.... I was the Sun

Connection - yes

Strong friendship - yes

Uncontrollable - no

Feeling a need to get closer - yes

But then again, I'm a Scorpio. In a way, I feel this deeply about most connections. Whether it be with family, friends or lovers. I don't feel it to be different... it just feels normal.

But I've read that this connection is not so out of control when the sun is in Scorpio, since Scorpio deals with Pluto issues to its core/ on a regular.

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Uncontrollable because of self control?

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In my case it was a lesson, or that's how I'm looking at it.

What did you learn?

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What are all your guys thoughts on this?

I am pluto and the other person is sun

I have had this conjuct with others and felt nothing sexual.... I was the Sun

Connection - yes

Strong friendship - yes

Uncontrollable - no

Feeling a need to get closer - yes

But then again, I'm a Scorpio. In a way, I feel this deeply about most connections. Whether it be with family, friends or lovers. I don't feel it to be different... it just feels normal.

But I've read that this connection is not so out of control when the sun is in Scorpio, since Scorpio deals with Pluto issues to its core/ on a regular.

Uncontrollable because of self control?

I guess... but it just wasn't something that felt sexual to me at all. It felt deeply comfortable and like we would be friends for life. Like we had been together in another lifetime - family comfortable.

Not sexual or desirable. It didn't bring out the Scorpio in me. It just made me feel comfortable as you would feel with family.

So... I didn't really need to have self-control or remind myself to have self control. I didn't feel a strong need for that. It just felt "meant to be" and "naturally flowing"... at first.

But then the Pluto person became a pain in the rear end. Messing up the flow, messing up the peace.

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I see. This is like very sexual for me though and I can feel that it is for him too

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In my case it was a lesson, or that's how I'm looking at it.

What did you learn?

Made me realize the type of guy I was attracted to/attracting.

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And you have since changed type?

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What are all your guys thoughts on this?

I am pluto and the other person is sun

I have had this conjuct with others and felt nothing sexual.... I was the Sun

Connection - yes

Strong friendship - yes

Uncontrollable - no

Feeling a need to get closer - yes

But then again, I'm a Scorpio. In a way, I feel this deeply about most connections. Whether it be with family, friends or lovers. I don't feel it to be different... it just feels normal.

But I've read that this connection is not so out of control when the sun is in Scorpio, since Scorpio deals with Pluto issues to its core/ on a regular.

Uncontrollable because of self control?

I guess... but it just wasn't something that felt sexual to me at all. It felt deeply comfortable and like we would be friends for life. Like we had been together in another lifetime - family comfortable.

Not sexual or desirable. It didn't bring out the Scorpio in me. It just made me feel comfortable as you would feel with family.

So... I didn't really need to have self-control or remind myself to have self control. I didn't feel a strong need for that. It just felt "meant to be" and "naturally flowing"... at first.

But then the Pluto person became a pain in the rear end. Messing up the flow, messing up the peace.

I see. This is like very sexual for me though and I can feel that it is for him too

Maybe because the Pluto energy is foreign yet desireable to your Venus (Libra sun) energy?

Yeah... I don't see what the big deal is about this aspect. I think it might be worse for the Pluto person, because I just didn't feel anything at all.

Venus conjuct Pluto feels much more sexual for me... and like what I would describe as "Love".

Two of my Pisces exes and my husband have this conjuct with me. They are the Pluto and I am the Venus.

The Pisces also had Aries Venus to my Libra Venus... adding on to the fire..lol

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No it's not foreign to me. I have sun conjunct Pluto and mars square Pluto in my natal chart.

But I think this is the first time I've had this with someone in synastry I think

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What are all your guys thoughts on this?

I am pluto and the other person is sun

I have had this conjuct with others and felt nothing sexual.... I was the Sun

Connection - yes

Strong friendship - yes

Uncontrollable - no

Feeling a need to get closer - yes

But then again, I'm a Scorpio. In a way, I feel this deeply about most connections. Whether it be with family, friends or lovers. I don't feel it to be different... it just feels normal.

But I've read that this connection is not so out of control when the sun is in Scorpio, since Scorpio deals with Pluto issues to its core/ on a regular.

Uncontrollable because of self control?

I guess... but it just wasn't something that felt sexual to me at all. It felt deeply comfortable and like we would be friends for life. Like we had been together in another lifetime - family comfortable.

Not sexual or desirable. It didn't bring out the Scorpio in me. It just made me feel comfortable as you would feel with family.

So... I didn't really need to have self-control or remind myself to have self control. I didn't feel a strong need for that. It just felt "meant to be" and "naturally flowing"... at first.

But then the Pluto person became a pain in the rear end. Messing up the flow, messing up the peace.

I see. This is like very sexual for me though and I can feel that it is for him too

Maybe because the Pluto energy is foreign yet desireable to your Venus (Libra sun) energy?

Yeah... I don't see what the big deal is about this aspect. I think it might be worse for the Pluto person, because I just didn't feel anything at all.

Venus conjuct Pluto feels much more sexual for me... and like what I would describe as "Love".

Two of my Pisces exes and my husband have this conjuct with me. They are the Pluto and I am the Venus.

The Pisces also had Aries Venus to my Libra Venus... adding on to the fire..lol

No it's not foreign to me. I have sun conjunct Pluto and mars square Pluto in my natal chart.

But I think this is the first time I've had this with someone in synastry I think

Are you the Sun or the Pluto person?

Maybe if you have this conjuct within your own birth chart you are also attracted to Pluto energy in others.

In this synastry for me, the Pluto person didn't behave in a Plutonian way, he behaved like an Aquarius...lol. Definitely not my love language. Had that person behaved Plutonian or like a Scorpio, it would have triggered my Scorpio energy and ignited the fire/ sexual desire in me.

Other energies just don't do it for me as much as that energy, when it comes to my sexual desires being ignited. Everything else seems controllable to me.

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I'm the Pluto person. He is sun. He has sun moon and Merc in Aries

We both Scorpio rising.

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What are all your guys thoughts on this?

I am pluto and the other person is sun

I have had this conjuct with others and felt nothing sexual.... I was the Sun

Connection - yes

Strong friendship - yes

Uncontrollable - no

Feeling a need to get closer - yes

But then again, I'm a Scorpio. In a way, I feel this deeply about most connections. Whether it be with family, friends or lovers. I don't feel it to be different... it just feels normal.

But I've read that this connection is not so out of control when the sun is in Scorpio, since Scorpio deals with Pluto issues to its core/ on a regular.

Uncontrollable because of self control?

I guess... but it just wasn't something that felt sexual to me at all. It felt deeply comfortable and like we would be friends for life. Like we had been together in another lifetime - family comfortable.

Not sexual or desirable. It didn't bring out the Scorpio in me. It just made me feel comfortable as you would feel with family.

So... I didn't really need to have self-control or remind myself to have self control. I didn't feel a strong need for that. It just felt "meant to be" and "naturally flowing"... at first.

But then the Pluto person became a pain in the rear end. Messing up the flow, messing up the peace.

I see. This is like very sexual for me though and I can feel that it is for him too

Maybe because the Pluto energy is foreign yet desireable to your Venus (Libra sun) energy?

Yeah... I don't see what the big deal is about this aspect. I think it might be worse for the Pluto person, because I just didn't feel anything at all.

Venus conjuct Pluto feels much more sexual for me... and like what I would describe as "Love".

Two of my Pisces exes and my husband have this conjuct with me. They are the Pluto and I am the Venus.

The Pisces also had Aries Venus to my Libra Venus... adding on to the fire..lol

No it's not foreign to me. I have sun conjunct Pluto and mars square Pluto in my natal chart.

But I think this is the first time I've had this with someone in synastry I think

Are you the Sun or the Pluto person?

Maybe if you have this conjuct within your own birth chart you are also attracted to Pluto energy in others.

In this synastry for me, the Pluto person didn't behave in a Plutonian way, he behaved like an Aquarius...lol. Definitely not my love language. Had that person behaved Plutonian or like a Scorpio, it would have triggered my Scorpio energy and ignited the fire/ sexual desire in me.

Other energies just don't do it for me as much as that energy, when it comes to my sexual desires being ignited. Everything else seems controllable to me.

I'm the Pluto person. He is sun. He has sun moon and Merc in Aries

We both Scorpio rising.

Lol... he's also your opposite sun. Maybe that is the culprit!

Libra/Aries & Scorpio/Taurus are the most intense/potent opposites.

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Then we in agreement. Self control it is. Thank you?

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What are all your guys thoughts on this?

I am pluto and the other person is sun

I have had this conjuct with others and felt nothing sexual.... I was the Sun

Connection - yes

Strong friendship - yes

Uncontrollable - no

Feeling a need to get closer - yes

But then again, I'm a Scorpio. In a way, I feel this deeply about most connections. Whether it be with family, friends or lovers. I don't feel it to be different... it just feels normal.

But I've read that this connection is not so out of control when the sun is in Scorpio, since Scorpio deals with Pluto issues to its core/ on a regular.

Uncontrollable because of self control?

I guess... but it just wasn't something that felt sexual to me at all. It felt deeply comfortable and like we would be friends for life. Like we had been together in another lifetime - family comfortable.

Not sexual or desirable. It didn't bring out the Scorpio in me. It just made me feel comfortable as you would feel with family.

So... I didn't really need to have self-control or remind myself to have self control. I didn't feel a strong need for that. It just felt "meant to be" and "naturally flowing"... at first.

But then the Pluto person became a pain in the rear end. Messing up the flow, messing up the peace.

I see. This is like very sexual for me though and I can feel that it is for him too

Maybe because the Pluto energy is foreign yet desireable to your Venus (Libra sun) energy?

Yeah... I don't see what the big deal is about this aspect. I think it might be worse for the Pluto person, because I just didn't feel anything at all.

Venus conjuct Pluto feels much more sexual for me... and like what I would describe as "Love".

Two of my Pisces exes and my husband have this conjuct with me. They are the Pluto and I am the Venus.

The Pisces also had Aries Venus to my Libra Venus... adding on to the fire..lol

No it's not foreign to me. I have sun conjunct Pluto and mars square Pluto in my natal chart.

But I think this is the first time I've had this with someone in synastry I think

Are you the Sun or the Pluto person?

Maybe if you have this conjuct within your own birth chart you are also attracted to Pluto energy in others.

In this synastry for me, the Pluto person didn't behave in a Plutonian way, he behaved like an Aquarius...lol. Definitely not my love language. Had that person behaved Plutonian or like a Scorpio, it would have triggered my Scorpio energy and ignited the fire/ sexual desire in me.

Other energies just don't do it for me as much as that energy, when it comes to my sexual desires being ignited. Everything else seems controllable to me.

I'm the Pluto person. He is sun. He has sun moon and Merc in Aries

We both Scorpio rising.

Lol... he's also your opposite sun. Maybe that is the culprit!

Libra/Aries & Scorpio/Taurus are the most intense/potent opposites.

Then we in agreement. Self control it is. Thank you?

Lol... sorry I'm a bit slow, how so? Because he is also your opposite and you are attracted to him?

For my case, no self control was needed and he was not my opposite and I was not sexually attracted to him in the least.

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It's because it's so intense that I crave it but what if it's not a good thing. As much as what draws me in something is telling me not to go there

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What are all your guys thoughts on this?

I am pluto and the other person is sun

I have had this conjuct with others and felt nothing sexual.... I was the Sun

Connection - yes

Strong friendship - yes

Uncontrollable - no

Feeling a need to get closer - yes

But then again, I'm a Scorpio. In a way, I feel this deeply about most connections. Whether it be with family, friends or lovers. I don't feel it to be different... it just feels normal.

But I've read that this connection is not so out of control when the sun is in Scorpio, since Scorpio deals with Pluto issues to its core/ on a regular.

Uncontrollable because of self control?

I guess... but it just wasn't something that felt sexual to me at all. It felt deeply comfortable and like we would be friends for life. Like we had been together in another lifetime - family comfortable.

Not sexual or desirable. It didn't bring out the Scorpio in me. It just made me feel comfortable as you would feel with family.

So... I didn't really need to have self-control or remind myself to have self control. I didn't feel a strong need for that. It just felt "meant to be" and "naturally flowing"... at first.

But then the Pluto person became a pain in the rear end. Messing up the flow, messing up the peace.

I see. This is like very sexual for me though and I can feel that it is for him too

Maybe because the Pluto energy is foreign yet desireable to your Venus (Libra sun) energy?

Yeah... I don't see what the big deal is about this aspect. I think it might be worse for the Pluto person, because I just didn't feel anything at all.

Venus conjuct Pluto feels much more sexual for me... and like what I would describe as "Love".

Two of my Pisces exes and my husband have this conjuct with me. They are the Pluto and I am the Venus.

The Pisces also had Aries Venus to my Libra Venus... adding on to the fire..lol

No it's not foreign to me. I have sun conjunct Pluto and mars square Pluto in my natal chart.

But I think this is the first time I've had this with someone in synastry I think

Are you the Sun or the Pluto person?

Maybe if you have this conjuct within your own birth chart you are also attracted to Pluto energy in others.

In this synastry for me, the Pluto person didn't behave in a Plutonian way, he behaved like an Aquarius...lol. Definitely not my love language. Had that person behaved Plutonian or like a Scorpio, it would have triggered my Scorpio energy and ignited the fire/ sexual desire in me.

Other energies just don't do it for me as much as that energy, when it comes to my sexual desires being ignited. Everything else seems controllable to me.

I'm the Pluto person. He is sun. He has sun moon and Merc in Aries

We both Scorpio rising.

Lol... he's also your opposite sun. Maybe that is the culprit!

Libra/Aries & Scorpio/Taurus are the most intense/potent opposites.

Then we in agreement. Self control it is. Thank you?

Lol... sorry I'm a bit slow, how so? Because he is also your opposite and you are attracted to him?

For my case, no self control was needed and he was not my opposite and I was not sexually attracted to him in the least.

It's because it's so intense that I crave it but what if it's not a good thing. As much as what draws me in something is telling me not to go there

Interesting?... do you know why you are feeling like you shouldn't go there, specifically?

Do you feel like controlling him?

Apparently, with the Sun/Pluto conjuct - you would feel drawn to the sun and give it a lot of attention. Once sun feels comfortable, you will take it away in a sense, to control the Sun and so that it becomes dependent on you. Apparently, that works IF the sun person is not a Scorpio sun.

Also - supposedly, Pluto feels really attracted YET uncomfortable with the Sun person, because the sun person can clearly see and shed like to issues that the Pluto person is trying to keep hidden.

The Sun person sees no issues with the dark secrets of the Pluto person (especially if the Sun person is a Scorpio)... but the Pluto person wants to keep it hidden at ALL COST, because if

light is shed upon it, it feels like it will lose control/power.

At its core... this dynamic is not one of love, but of power and control. There is strong attraction but the Pluto person wants to destroy the Sun person...lol.

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I've felt exactly this, but me being Pluto I felt like the Sun. He was very Plutonian. I didn't feel he wanted to destroy me, more like having the upper hand. He resented feeling like a loser even if he was the one making it a competition.

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What are all your guys thoughts on this?

I am pluto and the other person is sun

I have had this conjuct with others and felt nothing sexual.... I was the Sun

Connection - yes

Strong friendship - yes

Uncontrollable - no

Feeling a need to get closer - yes

But then again, I'm a Scorpio. In a way, I feel this deeply about most connections. Whether it be with family, friends or lovers. I don't feel it to be different... it just feels normal.

But I've read that this connection is not so out of control when the sun is in Scorpio, since Scorpio deals with Pluto issues to its core/ on a regular.

Uncontrollable because of self control?

I guess... but it just wasn't something that felt sexual to me at all. It felt deeply comfortable and like we would be friends for life. Like we had been together in another lifetime - family comfortable.

Not sexual or desirable. It didn't bring out the Scorpio in me. It just made me feel comfortable as you would feel with family.

So... I didn't really need to have self-control or remind myself to have self control. I didn't feel a strong need for that. It just felt "meant to be" and "naturally flowing"... at first.

But then the Pluto person became a pain in the rear end. Messing up the flow, messing up the peace.

I see. This is like very sexual for me though and I can feel that it is for him too

Maybe because the Pluto energy is foreign yet desireable to your Venus (Libra sun) energy?

Yeah... I don't see what the big deal is about this aspect. I think it might be worse for the Pluto person, because I just didn't feel anything at all.

Venus conjuct Pluto feels much more sexual for me... and like what I would describe as "Love".

Two of my Pisces exes and my husband have this conjuct with me. They are the Pluto and I am the Venus.

The Pisces also had Aries Venus to my Libra Venus... adding on to the fire..lol

No it's not foreign to me. I have sun conjunct Pluto and mars square Pluto in my natal chart.

But I think this is the first time I've had this with someone in synastry I think

Are you the Sun or the Pluto person?

Maybe if you have this conjuct within your own birth chart you are also attracted to Pluto energy in others.

In this synastry for me, the Pluto person didn't behave in a Plutonian way, he behaved like an Aquarius...lol. Definitely not my love language. Had that person behaved Plutonian or like a Scorpio, it would have triggered my Scorpio energy and ignited the fire/ sexual desire in me.

Other energies just don't do it for me as much as that energy, when it comes to my sexual desires being ignited. Everything else seems controllable to me.

I'm the Pluto person. He is sun. He has sun moon and Merc in Aries

We both Scorpio rising.

Lol... he's also your opposite sun. Maybe that is the culprit!

Libra/Aries & Scorpio/Taurus are the most intense/potent opposites.

Then we in agreement. Self control it is. Thank you?

Lol... sorry I'm a bit slow, how so? Because he is also your opposite and you are attracted to him?

For my case, no self control was needed and he was not my opposite and I was not sexually attracted to him in the least.

It's because it's so intense that I crave it but what if it's not a good thing. As much as what draws me in something is telling me not to go there

Interesting?... do you know why you are feeling like you shouldn't go there, specifically?

Do you feel like controlling him?

Apparently, with the Sun/Pluto conjuct - you would feel drawn to the sun and give it a lot of attention. Once sun feels comfortable, you will take it away in a sense, to control the Sun and so that it becomes dependent on you. Apparently, that works IF the sun person is not a Scorpio sun.

Also - supposedly, Pluto feels really attracted YET uncomfortable with the Sun person, because the sun person can clearly see and shed like to issues that the Pluto person is trying to keep hidden.

The Sun person sees no issues with the dark secrets of the Pluto person (especially if the Sun person is a Scorpio)... but the Pluto person wants to keep it hidden at ALL COST, because if

light is shed upon it, it feels like it will lose control/power.

At its core... this dynamic is not one of love, but of power and control. There is strong attraction but the Pluto person wants to destroy the Sun person...lol.

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I've felt exactly this, but me being Pluto I felt like the Sun. He was very Plutonian. I didn't feel he wanted to destroy me, more like having the upper hand. He resented feeling like a loser even if he was the one making it a competition.

Hmm? Interesting! How were you "making him feel" like a loser?

As a Pluto, you would want to have the upper hand as well... and that could create a war. Maybe you were also trying to have that upper hand and he felt threatened by it, since he too was Plutonian?

Honestly, Sun/Pluto conjuct SUCKS. Ruins so much goodness and potential ?

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Because of him being so persistent, I was the cold and realist one and he felt insecure. I think we both felt the other had the upper hand.

I honestly didn't want to have it, maybe because it was very brief (it didn't develop much), I just wanted to guard myself as I was fighting between the excitement and the vulnerability and I couldn't trust him completely being so unstable.

Exactly, I feel it could have been a wonderful friendship but... nope, power struggle for ya!

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What are all your guys thoughts on this?

I am pluto and the other person is sun

I have had this conjuct with others and felt nothing sexual.... I was the Sun

Connection - yes

Strong friendship - yes

Uncontrollable - no

Feeling a need to get closer - yes

But then again, I'm a Scorpio. In a way, I feel this deeply about most connections. Whether it be with family, friends or lovers. I don't feel it to be different... it just feels normal.

But I've read that this connection is not so out of control when the sun is in Scorpio, since Scorpio deals with Pluto issues to its core/ on a regular.

Uncontrollable because of self control?

I guess... but it just wasn't something that felt sexual to me at all. It felt deeply comfortable and like we would be friends for life. Like we had been together in another lifetime - family comfortable.

Not sexual or desirable. It didn't bring out the Scorpio in me. It just made me feel comfortable as you would feel with family.

So... I didn't really need to have self-control or remind myself to have self control. I didn't feel a strong need for that. It just felt "meant to be" and "naturally flowing"... at first.

But then the Pluto person became a pain in the rear end. Messing up the flow, messing up the peace.

I see. This is like very sexual for me though and I can feel that it is for him too

Maybe because the Pluto energy is foreign yet desireable to your Venus (Libra sun) energy?

Yeah... I don't see what the big deal is about this aspect. I think it might be worse for the Pluto person, because I just didn't feel anything at all.

Venus conjuct Pluto feels much more sexual for me... and like what I would describe as "Love".

Two of my Pisces exes and my husband have this conjuct with me. They are the Pluto and I am the Venus.

The Pisces also had Aries Venus to my Libra Venus... adding on to the fire..lol

No it's not foreign to me. I have sun conjunct Pluto and mars square Pluto in my natal chart.

But I think this is the first time I've had this with someone in synastry I think

Are you the Sun or the Pluto person?

Maybe if you have this conjuct within your own birth chart you are also attracted to Pluto energy in others.

In this synastry for me, the Pluto person didn't behave in a Plutonian way, he behaved like an Aquarius...lol. Definitely not my love language. Had that person behaved Plutonian or like a Scorpio, it would have triggered my Scorpio energy and ignited the fire/ sexual desire in me.

Other energies just don't do it for me as much as that energy, when it comes to my sexual desires being ignited. Everything else seems controllable to me.

I'm the Pluto person. He is sun. He has sun moon and Merc in Aries

We both Scorpio rising.

Lol... he's also your opposite sun. Maybe that is the culprit!

Libra/Aries & Scorpio/Taurus are the most intense/potent opposites.

Then we in agreement. Self control it is. Thank you?

Lol... sorry I'm a bit slow, how so? Because he is also your opposite and you are attracted to him?

For my case, no self control was needed and he was not my opposite and I was not sexually attracted to him in the least.

It's because it's so intense that I crave it but what if it's not a good thing. As much as what draws me in something is telling me not to go there

Interesting?... do you know why you are feeling like you shouldn't go there, specifically?

Do you feel like controlling him?

Apparently, with the Sun/Pluto conjuct - you would feel drawn to the sun and give it a lot of attention. Once sun feels comfortable, you will take it away in a sense, to control the Sun and so that it becomes dependent on you. Apparently, that works IF the sun person is not a Scorpio sun.

Also - supposedly, Pluto feels really attracted YET uncomfortable with the Sun person, because the sun person can clearly see and shed like to issues that the Pluto person is trying to keep hidden.

The Sun person sees no issues with the dark secrets of the Pluto person (especially if the Sun person is a Scorpio)... but the Pluto person wants to keep it hidden at ALL COST, because if

light is shed upon it, it feels like it will lose control/power.

At its core... this dynamic is not one of love, but of power and control. There is strong attraction but the Pluto person wants to destroy the Sun person...lol.

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I've felt exactly this, but me being Pluto I felt like the Sun. He was very Plutonian. I didn't feel he wanted to destroy me, more like having the upper hand. He resented feeling like a loser even if he was the one making it a competition.

Hmm? Interesting! How were you "making him feel" like a loser?

As a Pluto, you would want to have the upper hand as well... and that could create a war. Maybe you were also trying to have that upper hand and he felt threatened by it, since he too was Plutonian?

Honestly, Sun/Pluto conjuct SUCKS. Ruins so much goodness and potential ?

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Because of him being so persistent, I was the cold and realist one and he felt insecure. I think we both felt the other had the upper hand.

I honestly didn't want to have it, maybe because it was very brief (it didn't develop much), I just wanted to guard myself as I was fighting between the excitement and the vulnerability and I couldn't trust him completely being so unstable.

Exactly, I feel it could have been a wonderful friendship but... nope, power struggle for ya!

Sounds like it was full of struggle 😢

So sad...

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Yes, it ended feeling quite empty, it burnt out. I think he's out of the country now, I really wish he is free and far. He opened my eyes, so I'm thankful.

And thanks for that paragraph, it puts things into perspective.

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Conjunction Sun - Pluto

It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: they will be drawn to each other like two magnets, they will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship may not last forever, it may not develop into a quiet and tender love. If they part, it is close to impossible to stay friends because of the constant reminder of the passion that once existed. It's all or nothing with them. If they part, one will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through. However, if they stay together, there is strength to gain from each other.

Were you Sun or Pluto @Tiffanyqq ?

I am Pluto, he is Sun.

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Did you find it difficult to let go, Tiffany?

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My Pluto is not attracted to beta libra men.

isn't Van Damme a Libra?

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Conjunction Sun - Pluto

It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: they will be drawn to each other like two magnets, they will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship may not last forever, it may not develop into a quiet and tender love. If they part, it is close to impossible to stay friends because of the constant reminder of the passion that once existed. It's all or nothing with them. If they part, one will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through. However, if they stay together, there is strength to gain from each other.

Were you Sun or Pluto @Tiffanyqq ?

I am Pluto, he is Sun.

Did you find it difficult to let go, Tiffany?

It was hard no think about him a couple weeks but almost over 2 months, I am fine now and no miss him anymore. Also I have a strong and stubborn personality.

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What were both your placements ?

I was the pluto and my very recent ex was the sun. wasn't much of a bang-bang kinda thing but very deep connection and obsession right off the back. messy ending. having a hard time moving on.