I'm a newbie, can anybody help me interpret these

Two charts? It's my own (aries sun) and a guy I've been involved with and am developing very strong feelings for. Whenever we are together I feel a deep level of comfort and attachment and the sexual chemistry between us becomes more intense as we learn more about each other outside the bedroom but I'm still always questioning whether or not he really sees us going anywhere because he is hesitant to label anything (due to his past and his current circumstances and having been burned, he claims) and he says that he doesn't feel ready to be fully committed... yet there will be times when I see him 3-4 nights a week and we are extremely close emotionally. I guess I'm just curious to see if there's a reason for his sporadic phases of pulling away and distancing himself whenever things start to seem really amazing between us. I've never had such healthy communication with a person I also had great passion and companionship with

his chart: http://alabe.com/cgi-bin/chart/astrobot.cgi?INPUT1=c&INPUT2=&MONTH=10&DAY=26&YEAR=1985&HOUR=12&MINUTE=00&AMPM=PM&TOWN=new+york&COUNTRY=USA&STATE=NY&INPUT9=&Submit=Submit

my chart: http://alabe.com/cgi-bin/chart/astrobot.cgi?INPUT1=c&INPUT2=&MONTH=04&DAY=06&YEAR=1987&HOUR=12&MINUTE=59&AMPM=PM&TOWN=mount+kisco&COUNTRY=USA&STATE=NY&INPUT9=&Submit=Submit

Oops haha I should have checked that. I don't know much about how to interpret it at all but he is a Scorpio sun/aries moon/venus libra/sagittarius rising

and I'm an aries sun/cancer moon/venus pisces/leo rising