@lostinspace
14 YearsScorpio
Venus in Gemini
venus in gemini's are known to be flighty but when in a relationship, they can commit. communication is key because it's an air sign, talk it out!
His Venus may be at a harsh aspect to your Saturn causing him to feel he needs to "censor" his affections towards you. A natal Venus/Saturn aspect can also cause this tendency in someone. Also, if he has been greatly hurt/rejected in the past. he may be more hesitant with you.
@lostinplace: Can you show yours and his complete astrological charts? (at least from sun to saturn)
As a Venus Gem, I need to stay stimulated. I grow bored if I don't. My partner needs to be intelligent and can mentally stay active. I also desire someone who is attractive, regardless though if they are a 10, but their personality is a 4 or they are intellectual I have a hard time and don't find them interesting. My mind and eye wanders. I can say that if I grow bored, and it doesn't change, I end things. Because I know where it will lead, me looking elsewhere. I'm a Cancer too, go figure! lol
*aren't intellectual
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