Match made in heaven or hell?

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Picture this scenario:

The man who loves a woman and wants to date her vs her toxic, jealous sister, who she's barely spoken to for 10 years (estranged for very good reasons).

[edit] They intimately connect. Archetypically/ typically, how does it play out for everybody?

Maybe he didn't love her and then fell in love with her aftwerwards or maybe he loved her and it kind of happened accidentally. This part doesn't really matter.
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Posted by WarAngel79
Are we making a choice or is this background information for a more detailed post later?


Oh, I should add more context, they intimately connect. Archetypically/ typically, how does it play out for everybody?

Maybe he didn't love her and then fell in love with her aftwerwards or maybe he loved her and it kind of happened accidentally. Idk, that part doesn't really matter.
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I had someone come to me for a reading a few months ago. She said she and her husband lived next door to her sister, but her sister was constantly trying to catch the attention of him when they were in the garden. She was incredibly uncomfortable with the scenario as she'd always had something of a toxic relationship with her sister.

She wanted to know if she should consider moving away from her or if this would be too dramatic a move.

I'm like (politely) 'yeah, that's definitely worth some serious consideration.' I would have already moved. This deeply toxic shadow-laden emotional spaghetti junction of a mess wouldn't be worth it. Stand my ground and fight like I'm on Jerry Springer? No. Remove ourselves, create boundaries and never look back? Hell YES.
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Posted by clare
I had someone come to me for a reading a few months ago. She said she and her husband lived next door to her sister, but her sister was constantly trying to catch the attention of him when they were in the garden. She was incredibly uncomfortable with the scenario as she'd always had something of a toxic relationship with her sister.

She wanted to know if she should consider moving away from her or if this would be too dramatic a move.

I'm like (politely) 'yeah, that's definitely worth some serious consideration.' I would have already moved. This deeply toxic shadow-laden emotional spaghetti junction of a mess wouldn't be worth it. Stand my ground and fight like I'm on Jerry Springer? No. Remove ourselves, create boundaries and never look back? Hell YES.


Same. I’d strongly suggest for them to leave. Save their marriage, happiness and peace… the move is worth it.