BeautifulScorpion
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Well BeautifulScorp...
I think it could be a number of things...Now don't take offense to this because I really do not know your situation, just making guesses based on what I have learned in the past about dreams and correlation between them & the subconscious.
1. It could just be a weird recurring dream!
2. It could be your sub-conscious talking to you. Sometimes when children are molested they repress the memories so deeply, but these things rarely stay buried. They come back in the form of anger, resentments, dreams, and or trouble trusting the opposite sex. The fact that you are feeling differently about your father troubles me more than if you just had the dreams and they didn't really bother you.
3. It could be you transferring feelings about another man in your life possibly an authority figure who has made you feel uncomfortable sexually or otherwise and this is your way to deal with it.
4. It could be one of those weird Oedipus complex dreams (most girls have including me) in which you have some kind of sexual act with your father. We mainly have these dreams because technically your father is the first man you ever love and in our brains sometimes the signals get mixed up and it become sexual. This is normal, but again the whole "force" factor makes me nervous because usually in these dreams it is not a forced act.
Hopefully this will help you to figure out if your brain is trying to tell you something or if you are just having weird dreams.
Cancerlady
I think it could be a number of things...Now don't take offense to this because I really do not know your situation, just making guesses based on what I have learned in the past about dreams and correlation between them & the subconscious.
1. It could just be a weird recurring dream!
2. It could be your sub-conscious talking to you. Sometimes when children are molested they repress the memories so deeply, but these things rarely stay buried. They come back in the form of anger, resentments, dreams, and or trouble trusting the opposite sex. The fact that you are feeling differently about your father troubles me more than if you just had the dreams and they didn't really bother you.
3. It could be you transferring feelings about another man in your life possibly an authority figure who has made you feel uncomfortable sexually or otherwise and this is your way to deal with it.
4. It could be one of those weird Oedipus complex dreams (most girls have including me) in which you have some kind of sexual act with your father. We mainly have these dreams because technically your father is the first man you ever love and in our brains sometimes the signals get mixed up and it become sexual. This is normal, but again the whole "force" factor makes me nervous because usually in these dreams it is not a forced act.
Hopefully this will help you to figure out if your brain is trying to tell you something or if you are just having weird dreams.
Cancerlady
That was very helpful. I was sexually harassed when I was younger but it wasn't by a guy. He really didnt molest me, he is trying to and he is being a perv in this dream and i am screaming to the top of my lungs for him to go away, and i am always undressed... it occurs with him walking in on me, and i am in a shower that is located in my room. my mother is watching me and she knows what he is doing is wrong but she just stands there and in every dream she had on red... it's weird.
I do have a vision, it was late at night when i was a little girl, my 2 parents slept in a room with me, my mom n dad had the same bed and i had one. my mom was in the bed with me at that time, and it was dark my dad came over. and i got up on the bed, i thought he was gonna tell me goodnight. and i remember giving him a kiss and tasting the inside of his mouth.... ... but, like, i dont know if it was intentional, im thinking he could have been trying to say "goodnight" and i went for it.But that is something i will never know. Maybe the dream has something to do with that.
I do have a vision, it was late at night when i was a little girl, my 2 parents slept in a room with me, my mom n dad had the same bed and i had one. my mom was in the bed with me at that time, and it was dark my dad came over. and i got up on the bed, i thought he was gonna tell me goodnight. and i remember giving him a kiss and tasting the inside of his mouth.... ... but, like, i dont know if it was intentional, im thinking he could have been trying to say "goodnight" and i went for it.But that is something i will never know. Maybe the dream has something to do with that.
Wow!
Is there anyone you might be able to talk to about these dreams? They seem VERY detailed and specific in their "messages"...Perhaps a counselor or something?
I don't want to alarm you but something about the whole thing is giving me the willies and I think you may want to look into that. You said you were sexually harassed when you were younger? I don't know...if you can, try to talk to someone who might know a bit more about these things because it sounds like your sub-conscious is talking to you about something!
CL
Is there anyone you might be able to talk to about these dreams? They seem VERY detailed and specific in their "messages"...Perhaps a counselor or something?
I don't want to alarm you but something about the whole thing is giving me the willies and I think you may want to look into that. You said you were sexually harassed when you were younger? I don't know...if you can, try to talk to someone who might know a bit more about these things because it sounds like your sub-conscious is talking to you about something!
CL
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