a lil question for you gems...

just curious...

what exactly constitutes a good "match"? Considering charts and so forth that is...For instance, is it heavily reliant on ASC signs or where your venus is?(hehe, that sounds cool)...what in your fantastic gem minds do you think?

IMO, i think that it really doesn't matter. i think anyone is compatible with another person if they are willing to work on their incompatibilities and learn to compromise.

I hear it's the "Venus" that tells you how compatible you will be!!

My boo-boo is a Virgo and my Venus is in Taurus which needs the stability that my Virgo guy brings which makes us compatible (or so I think)

GN

hmmm miss lissa to some extent i agree with you...
but at the same time i don't think i should have to change for anyone and for that matter i dont go into a relationship trying to change the other person. why even bother getting together in the first place?
of course every relationship has its challenges, but i find that its only been trouble when i deny my true nature for the sake of someone else...

just as an example a taurus male and aquarius female...the taurus male is a stubborn, possessive mate who strives for stability...now paired up with an aqua female who is detached, unpredictable, humanitarian... this combination is not so good because the taurus male will view the aqua female as his property and the aqua female will resent him for that. if the aqua female changes up her habits and perhaps becomes a little more domestic its only a matter of time before she grows bored and escapes...this is what i mean by changing someone...you can try to, but in the end your true colors will come through...

now im all for working through things and i do realize that relationships do take work. dont get me wrong. so i agree in some sense.

im just saying....😄

plus i just wanted to get you gems all talking away cuz i love ya's