another point of view...

Ladies... Tell me...
I am a virgo male...5 years older than my gemini lover.. and though we have been intimate for only about a month now...we have, in fact been friends for going on 15 years... losing touch w/each other from time to time.. but always finding each other somehow...NOW..here's the kicker.. events have put us together, rather closley..as close as we have ever been,in the last year and a half.. in a non-sexual... but flirty..type of relationship...her husband thinks i,m a brotherly, long time friend.. which, up till a month ago..was true... but, in the last 8 months or so...their two year marriage has been a cycle of abuse for my gemini friend... and my virgo skills of comfort have provided a sympathetic shoulder to cry on... our physical relatinship in the last month has been as hot as any one i've been in...the sex is very passionate..and..i have to say, often. the last night we saw one another...about five nights ago.. we had our first real "what now" talk... both of us agreed that we each felt a little more than just sexual.. leaning towards comfortable... maybe more than would be healthy...or smart, should i say..at this point.. but, my gemini friend gushes that she wants to be with me.. as much as she can now... and as she looks towards ending her marriage.. speaks of future plans for "us"...
problem is... if she stays true to her gemini personality... i see my virgo self becoming more of a emotional, physical service station...
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i have no other experience with gemini women to draw from... only what the books are saying... and, with circumstances what they are, THIS.. is as much of a confession, as it is anything else... SO.. I ASK YOU LADIES.... can there be anything to this... (please do not judge either of us on the subject of infidelity... we both feel the weight of our actions understandable...considering..she in good faith..entered the marriage expecting it to be free of abuse..for her self and her 9yo son... we both recognize we will have some spiritual bills to pay...)

i...think.....that...u.....guys...are.....possibly...in love...? but who am i say that? Just go by what you feel. You guys both have this strong connection am i right? Maybe u guys are soul mates? dun dun dun!! who knows! hahaha 😛 She obviously wants to spend her life with you, and if u feel the same way, then go for it! dont lose that change! you'll regret it!! =T

We gemini women often confuse sex and love. I know I've always been very sexual but I think it was because I was truly trying to find something more meaningful. When I was younger I had sex with heaps of men and even my best friend thought I was doing it for the sex. But it was never about that. I think if you are having sex, it's because whe wants something more. I hope this helps.

When a gemini is in Love they are very faithful. If she says she Loves you then she means it. but like you she looks for you to be faithfull to her and like wise she will be faithful to you. geminis may flirt from time to time but when they are not in love with the person they are flirting with then sex is the last thing on their agenda. this is geminis way of getting to know people. If she Loves you she will be faithful and never look back at her decission to want to spend the rest of her life with you. Your relationship will work as long as you both Love one another. and If this is true go for it. when Love is involved between two people you cant always go by a persons sign. Follow you Heart. but If your not in Love with her be Honest with her so she can move on. again follow your Heart.

Well always keep suprising him , and avoid comments making him think he is dumber than he really is.
Gemenis tend to make illusions out of nothing because they are sensitive.

Well always keep suprising her , and avoid comments making her think she is dumber than she really is.
Gemenis tend to make illusions out of nothing because they are sensitive.