Any positive results between GemGal and VirGuy?

I know there are discussions buried in lots of other threads. Just want to get your personal experience.

What worked? What didn't? Do you still miss your Virgo?

Thanks.

I am posting because the chemistry is flying between me (VirGuy)and my GemGal friend. I backed off and wanted some time away...she cried and thought I may disappear for good.

She seemed so strong and independent then this...my head is spinning

Other genmini's might agree with me and they may not, depending on their age. A Gemini by nature needs reassurance and attention.

"I backed off and wanted some time away...she cried and thought I may disappear for good."

It all depends on how you backed off. If you are straight with a Gemini they can usually handle it. If you are not straight and give mixed signals...they will analyze it to understand it, and if they cannot understand it...they may assume negative.

"She seemed so strong and independent then this...my head is spinning"

Again if your Gemgal is a mature one, she may have fallen for you and she may have interpreted your backing off as a sign you did not feel the same.

Geminis by nature will not hang on to anyone, unless they have completely fallen for them.

The best advice I can give you is be upfront. Do not play games. Tell your gemgal exactly how you feel.

tazman I am currently in almost the exact situation, I will not post details here but if you really need help, message me.

I was Married to a Virgo man for 7 years.... Key word WAS! And like an idiot, my next realationship was with ANOTHER one for 5 years. So.. I think they can work.. but like everything LOTS and LOTS of work. It would be hard to do it again with a Virgo.. sorry but i don't think i could. To me, it was like, the further and longer i got to know them, the more stuff i uncovered that i didn't like. But it took years to discover them. And unfortunately by that time, i was in love.. and once there.. i don't give up and i don't give in and damn near fight to the death to make things work. Until i lsot myself, each time.. and finally gave up. But there were some great times. Lots in common and we always had fun doing things together. We just have different mindsets. They think in the box, i thought out of the box. Neither one gave me what i needed as a woman. Yeah prolly a man thing..LMAO but none the less... He got frustrated cuz umm yeah i'm NOT the best and $ $ management..LOL and i procrastinate.. blah blah blah. And he was hard headed even more than me.. and gawd forbid you questioned him about anything. Both shared those same qualities. Both were Jealous and possessive. And the worst.. neither could let ANYTHING go. Every arguement brought up old stuff. Nothing ever died.. it was miserable. I would forgive them, they wouldn't let anything go. BUT when we weren't battling.. life was good.