Question for Virgos: both men and women...

Do Virgo men/women enjoy the chase or being chased? Just wondering.

Dosen't everyone?! lol!! I suppose the 'game' is fun, if nothing else is taken into consideration; there have been some flirts surrounding the virgin....moi for example!! lol!! The game is fun to BE chased, but chasing...well, the prize better be worth it!! lol!!.

So it could be said that most Virgos, of either sex, prefer being chased over going after someone they like. Please correct me if I'm somehow being overly presumptuous here.

No, no, you aren't...It depends on the 'catch' and the 'thrill of the game'. Most Virgos acess the 'value' of the chase...'how fun would it be to chase so, and so down?'...we like being chased, but like to do a little of our own...there is some reserve to us but that easily becomes romance when we let down that 'little white veil'....

Perhaps it is becuase my mars is in Aries, but generally, It can be fun to chase; but other times no so becuase we like our freedom, and don't really like being 'tied down' now that dosen't mean we up and get promiscuous on ya....just like to keep our options open, and can flirt a little; it really depends on the virgo.

I like both! Depends on the challenge. If the woman seems easy, I look elsewhere.

If she is a huge challege I plan my game. I actually take pride in ending up with women no other guy can get.

Most of the time I regret it after a month! lol

Most of the time I regret it after a month! lol

So, are you saying Virgo men will not stick around long? You are so bad!

Not at all! We stick around. We just happen to be extremely picky and while testing the..er...ahem...waters...we find if this is where we want to swim for the rest of our lives!

If you stepped on a jelly fish would you go back to the same hole to swim? ( excuse the pun ).

But when we find what we want, we do everything in our power to keep a good thing going!

I think it quite practical actually...

Courtship dance would be an appropriate term. Games, dances, what a life we lead! 🙂

I just posted earleir a similar thing about how we tend to just make our presence known in little ways when we like someone. And as time elapses, we allow ourselves to become more open with certain aspects, unless it is happening too fast. That's when I take a powder.

Dryst - I take my time choosing my partner (okay, except for the Scorpion Queen!),

How long did it take you guys to meet and get it together?

According to me this is how it seems to be:
Virgos are good at both chasing obsessively and acting cool when being chased obsessively. They truly have this wish that once their love catches their presence, appearance and personality they would come looking for them. If not then either they would go for someoneelse who shows great interest in them or go chase their true love. They are very shy. They would stalk their lovers for days and still deny the basic fact that they are head over heels for them.

I can only really speak for me on this one...

It really depends. The chase is fun, but more to see if I could get them if I wanted to. Most of the time when I think I want someone, I'll chase them, get to a point where I could have them, then suddenly I don't want them anymore. This probably makes me a horrible person.

I like being chased, but it's only really enjoyable if it's someone I want to be chased by. That being said, I need to think I'm in control the entire time. As long as I think I'm in complete control, you can get away with damn near anything, and the most fun is realizing I was just seduced.