Aquarius Girl/gemini guy

I have been "dating" a gemini for about 2 months now. We both agreed that we would not see anyone else but we can still do whatever we want (we hang out when we are not busy doing other things)I really like it this way, I usually end things with people when they become too "boyfriend like" but I just don't know what to think with him. When we are together we have such a good time but when we are apart it could be days before we talk again. Should I say anything or let it go. It is like a double edged sword. I want to say things so maybe he will call when he says he will but on the other hand I don't want to because maybe the appeal of the gemini is the fact that he can be so elusive at times? If any suggestions, let me know
katzy

Sometimes, you need to give a little push, a little rub, a little squeeze.. happens to everyone sometimes..(and mmm.. I do luv massages)..that hun, is exactly what you need to do..gently "massage him". You'll find eventually, he'll understand you a little more, and he'll also bend a little more, and then "you" can massage him a little more.. Let him in on your secret i.e. that he makes your heart sad when you don't get your luv on time..he's probably not cold hearted, and you'll find he'll warm up to you the more you warm up with and to him. Good luck luv`

and yes, double edges do sometimes come in gem berry flavours` smiles.happens with everyone.. you've just gotta pick your battles and speak up when necessary. Do keep your heart together ok hun..It's so warm, & such a smooshie little heart, I like it` =)

Hello Katzy,

Being a gemini male I guess I like jaya's answer, it sounds wise.
I think the Gemini thing is probably as much to do with that big thing commitment as it is with the individual person. I know that as a Gemini I get on with Aquarians the best. I have known a lot of them and didn't always realise this,I knew i got on with them but as far as a deep relationship goes I didn't realise. (we all seem to be wise at whatever we do but a bit thick in relationships for some reason) I guess they mean so much and we try too hard sometimes instead of letting them just naturally flow.
The great thing about Geminis and Aquarians is that we don't question each other, if your late your late, so what etc.
There are lots of little issues that we both agree on, if not said, just naturally.
We both have an affinity with social issues and a fairness, again not always said or realised by other signs ( some. I think).
You've only been together for two months and I don't know how old you are but as a teen gemini and in my twenties (I'm a bit older now) I think, looking back that I was a bit naive on relationships. I let some go because I didn't think deep enough about how the person was. I don't know why. As I got older I became (as we all do) a lot wiser, but I know if someone had perciveired) - (that looks a funny spelling- but anyways) I would have been better off.

If you don't mind me saying it's a bit like trying to have your cake and eat it to say that "We both agreed that we would not see anyone else but we can still do whatever we want" that's a sort of contradiction. You sound like you want the commitment but can't actually deal with the reality of the commitment. It is probably no real wonder then that you now have a dilemma. That area where you both say "we can do whatever we want" is open to immense interpretation.To be fair to him he takes it his way (days apart without talking)and you take it your way ( you'd like to see him sooner). Unfortunately in life (in my humble opion) we all need to be definate eventually in what we do. Leaving things open is cool but is always a temporary stop gap until you really deal with an issue. You are getting a bit passed the stop gap and want to see him more, you are starting to want to deal with this more( again in my humble opion).

I've probably rambled on too much, but believe me Gemini's and Aquarians are made for each other. I just know this with experience. See your gemini as much as you can, he'll start to realise this, but the freedom thing is so important
to a gemini. We can be the most faithful and loving people on earth but if we feel stifled we feel sick, let us see our mates etc (we're not talking other women here) and we come back refreshed with stories to tell. Believe me, gemini's love Aquarian's. The catch is they may not realise it at the time, only a bit of experience helps.
I wish you all the best, if you feel this is possibly a great relationship give it your best because after that you start to bump in to all the other star signs that start off good but end with all sorts of issues.
I don't know what else I can say but to add that if I had an Aquarian who cared for me right now she would be my nnumber one.

Take care,

Cheers.
C.

Hi C~

My ex is a Gemini...he was not as open as you are..very closed off emotionally and still is. Just the way he is...I knew that I could not nor would want to change him so we parted....we did try to make our relationship work but no matter what, it didn't. I have since met many wonderful men who are open with their feelings and then some who are not...

I do have some very special friends who adore each other - she is a Gemini and he ia an Aquarian - they have been married for 18 yrs. and are best friends!!! I so enjoy being around them and their playful energy.

I know of another couple where she also is a Gemini and he an Aquarian and it appears to me that they do not have a good marriage...he seeks out other women, feels that no man can stay faithful to any woman and he says if any man says differently, he is lying - this is mans nature he says. YIKES, I thought to myself, thank goodness I am NOT married to that man!

Hello Freebird,
i think you need to be as open as possible, why not, unless you have things to hide.
As far as the chap that seeking out other women then their marriage is not great by the sounds of it. Men can stay faithful to the one they love, even if they are still with them and no longer have the same feelings. It's all about respecting that other human being. His sort of opinions seem quite rigid and do not apply to all men. If you really love someone they are the only one you want to be with.

Anyways that's my two bob's worth.

Take care.

cheers.
C.