Aries Girl + Gemini Guy

Hi, I want to know how compatible can this relationship be? We are currently friends, but I don't know if I should pursue the next step, like a relationship.

Dear Itorivia,

The only way that you will know if you are compatible is to explore each other as friends. Stay friends, let it all evolve naturally without expectations. You will know but remember, ALL relationships (male and female) are in your life to help you grow and understand yourself.

Have fun 🙂

Just another update:

I have recurrent non-success with Geminis.
Yet Geminis and Aries are supposed to be great together!
Whateva! lol

The Geminis I've met I didn't want to be around with or I had to push/pull them to open their mouths!

Im one of those Gemini's that nobody wants to be around.

no!!!! everybody likes you here, i like you around 🙂

Why is that? You shoot from the hip, or what?

I meant above for romeclone..

Thank you ((((Luz))))

Im sorry Espernaut, Im a little slow. What does that expression mean?

I was referring to why you feel no one wants to be around you, as a Gemini. And my statement, Why? you shoot from the hip? meaning.. Is it that you "tell it like is it" & they don't like it or just what?

I like straight shooters. Romeclone you've got my vote for cool.

(how cheesy was that?! lol)

I dunno Espernaut. Maybe thats it, alot of times I will make jokes that will get taken out of context by some people I know.

Oh well, foot in mouth disease. No cure for that.

You're a groovy chick Phoenix! *thumbs up*

Are Aries and Gemini the perfect couple?

It is a matter of opinion. So many things involved...cannot go by the signs alone. I am an Aries and WAS married to a Gemini....didn't work. This does not mean that all Aries and Gems will not work ....it depends on the person and his background, his character and...heck, find out what type of gum he likes...that is a forsure answer. 😉

Freebird, Just wondering how long were you 2 married, and what was the downfall of the marriage? Oh and are you guys still friends? Because often Gems are still friends with their ex's. I'm a fan of Aries females! 🙂

Hi Romeclone....

We were married for 18 yrs. Downfall of the marriage was...he was not emotionally present. He did not know how to "play", always very serious, no connection, kept himself at a distance. He has since remarried and no, he has chosen to not be friends with me. I really wish that we could be friends and I have expressed this to him. Sometimes relationships do not work out but we can still be friends....ya know what I think? I'm not sure that we ever were truly "friends" so how could we even get back to that place? Just a thought. Thanks for asking Romeclone...and I am so glad that you are a fan of us Aries...we love being friends with everybody 😉

Hey Freebird,
I'm sorry it turned out that way. 18 years is a long time together, I can't believe he would just want to throw that all away and not want to be friends. Maybe he just isn't as sentimental as I am. And I guess you had a rare Gem if he was never playful and always serious. Well, good like finding happiness elsewhere, you seem like a fun and nice woman who doesnt let things get you down easliy, and probably attractive too. 😉

Hi you caring Romeclone 🙂

Thank you for the kind words that you expressed. Yes, there are a lot of my friends who wonder the same thing about him and why he finds it so difficult to be friends with me. Could be his wife does not want him to...she has quite a tight hold on him. He has also lost a very good relationship with our boys. I can only look at this as this is his path that he needs to take for some reason. You know that song Cat's In The Cradle? For some reason, when my son was first born, I used to tell him to listen to those words very carefully. He didn't...that song is now about him. I saw it coming.

Romeclone~ I am very happy infact, my divorce gave me my life. I know this may sound weird but I can say that I am now truly living and it feels so good. Thanks for your concern, I appreciate that.

Chat later you "playful" thing you.......

Cats In The Cradle huh? Then what song would most fit you then, Freebird? I think "Your So Vain" by Carly Simon best fits me, now I KNOW she wrote that one about me! 🙂

Cats In The Cradle was about my ex. Me? Hmmmmmm, Oh, I know...there are three of them...are you ready?

1* The Impossible Dream
2* I've Gotta Be Me
3* Born Free

When you listen to those words, that is me. 😉

Who sings each of those songs?

I went to a really upscale nightclub in Sault Ste. Marie Ontario last weekend. I got really melencholy when I requested (to a really fantastic lounge singer) the song, "You Are So Beutiful to Me". I think that song says it all about love. It doesn't matter what others think of you and your love. IT just matters what you are to each other. It made me miss my scorp....he has messed me up so baaaad. I really miss him. The other song that made me sad was "Play Me" by Neil Diamond. Help!!!