bored...dating the Sag and I'm bored

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by roamingfree on Sunday, August 14, 2011 and has 24 replies.

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

I'm bored....it's all good and that with the Sag but I'm getting bored - he's nice and funny and attentive and smart and driven...all these things a Gem girl would want...and now i'm bored... wtf?

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

well, he's a good guy, he's fun, intelligent and all that, but i dont know if we mirror each other or really are that perfect. he's a sag with gem asc and cancer moon, venus in taurus and mars in scorpio, and i have scorp ascending, moon in taurus, venus in cancer and mars in pisces - soooo.... looks ok, feels right, i'm just bored all together, maybe it's not even him. he's fantastic and i totally dig everything about him.

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by Rex Smith
Because your a gem right? that = "I am gemini, "I will like you for awhile then maybe, the Mental inaction will kill this relationship. When a relationship begin's to feel like a rewind button then, put the guy out of is misery and find someone else, a Lirba maybe.

That's one reason why I would not like to be a gemini, you guy's suffer badly with boredom.

gah.... not another libra man - women are great, the men i have met were like an overcooked lasagna noodlem, that includes my uncle who is married for 39 years to a gem .... but for me - never again.

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Posted by roamingfree
well, he's a good guy, he's fun, intelligent and all that, but i dont know if we mirror each other or really are that perfect. he's a sag with gem asc and cancer moon, venus in taurus and mars in scorpio, and i have scorp ascending, moon in taurus, venus in cancer and mars in pisces - soooo.... looks ok, feels right, i'm just bored all together, maybe it's not even him. he's fantastic and i totally dig everything about him.

A Sag with Venus in Taurus?

lol

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@ThisAndThat
17 Years

Thats the point with sags,you an be apart and get together like nothing happend.
The difference between cancers and sags are that cancers are full of shit,when they have "space" they are out hunting,sags on the other hand are doing EXACTLY what they say they are.

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16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by roamingfree
I'm bored....it's all good and that with the Sag but I'm getting bored - he's nice and funny and attentive and smart and driven...all these things a Gem girl would want...and now i'm bored... wtf?

I'm a gem married to a scorpio guy for 13 years. and hear you about the "boredom" thing. it's not his fault either. My husband is a great guy and will do anything for me. he's my soul mate. it's just a fact we gems like change and variety. he doesn't mind doing things the same way. I lose my mind if we have to do things the same way every time. He's so easy going, he thinks I'm silly and will push my buttons just to get a rise out of me. But in the end, he's willing to try things differently and see how things play out. So in that respect, I'm lucky.

i work in the medical field and it's all about "protocol"....... i realize the validity of that but it's still boring.

My mind never stops clicking and I'm always analyzing and thinking how I could do or say things better and make life more enjoyable for everyone. i get people wondering why i invest my time in trying to makes thing more fun. they are like "why not just get it done and over with?".....again, BECAUSE IT'S BORING!!

OTOH, i don't think being married to another Gem would be my thing either. i had a realtor who was a gem. he drove me crazy because he'd never shut the hell up. i had to fire him and get someone who was more into resolving the issue at hand than discussing it.

anyway, roamingfree.....i feel your pain sister. most gems do. 😉

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15 YearsScorpio

Posted by roamingfree
I'm bored....it's all good and that with the Sag but I'm getting bored - he's nice and funny and attentive and smart and driven...all these things a Gem girl would want...and now i'm bored... wtf?

Are you ready to put him on the backburner while you look for "Mr. Right?"

you could always pick a verbal battle with him im sure he would be a good sport about it

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@GeminiDahl
15 YearsGemini

Posted by roamingfree
Posted by Rex Smith
Because your a gem right? that = "I am gemini, "I will like you for awhile then maybe, the Mental inaction will kill this relationship. When a relationship begin's to feel like a rewind button then, put the guy out of is misery and find someone else, a Lirba maybe.

That's one reason why I would not like to be a gemini, you guy's suffer badly with boredom.

gah.... not another libra man - women are great, the men i have met were like an overcooked lasagna noodlem, that includes my uncle who is married for 39 years to a gem .... but for me - never again.

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Ha! I was just thinking the same thing! No, you don't need another Libra!

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

i'm just fickle. he's a great guy and doesnt give me anything to complain about. he's totally into me without the clingy bit that i could abhor.

maybe it's something in the air?

he is a lot of fun.

gah!
i'm just being a gem 8)

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

in two days we are going away for 10 days together....we shall see what will remain after wards.
I'll be back after the 1st - wonder what the update will be 😄

btw - i'm also pmsing - what a loopy time for that!!!

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@Dreamer02
14 Years

@biggcarlos I have a Gemini moon and this describes me to a T. I get so restless and bored, like today. Its maddening! And I EAT. What else is there to do? lol

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

awwww..... do I ever have a lot to say....

so the holiday was a fantastic, out of this world fun fun fun
10 days spent in a company of the said Sag and I love this man.
Totally right for me, totally really, totally everything I want, and totally no 6th sense anxiety of what if, how about or what's behind the curtain.
We spent enough time to be just alone without too many distractions aside for going to the ball at Ft Bragg - survived the 11 hours drive one way and another. Totally in love. Totally nutty about each other.

We are making our own brand of crazy! and we are loving it 😄

helps his ascending is a Gem 😄

I love my Sag.
Every Gem should get one of these 😄