I was just curious to know why people cheat who are already in committed relationships with the person they have choosen or is choosing to spend the rest of their life with— Seems like a BIG contradiction to me.
I know reasons will vary but I'm curious to know anyway, Thanxs!
Face it people now a days crave VARIETY! I don't think it's realistically possible to be with the same person over and over again and not WANT MORE OR DIFFERENT! It just gets boring with the same person.
Of course we read about how some couples have been together for years. But that was yo back when and today people just don't think that way anymore. Face it, it's 40 or 50 years later. Different generations, different thoughts. And definitely selfishness seems to be the #1 reason. Understanding, acceptance, tolerance no longer exist in this day and age and thus...they CHEAT! I don't think any couple married these days has the ability to either stay faithful OR married for long for that matter. It's a different world today. And a very sad one IMO.
Cheating is something that should never be tolerated in any relationship. The reason couples can not stay together now adays is because most people in the world think that sex is the key to a realationship. Sex is a great act of love. But you have to learn to talk and communicate, and trust one another. If most people in the world would have been raised to keep the their clothes on then we would not have the problem of over population or kids who need families. I am tired of reading about people giving up kids for adoption because they ran home from the club and got in bed with someone.
Learn to do three things before you ever go to bed with someone - -Communicate, Trust and most of all BE FRIENDS.
I seem to have been really angry over the last month or so and aside from blaming it on the tendancies of an irregular personality, I think maybe it has something to do with this current state of writer's block.
If you feel a connection with another person of the opposite sex should pursue it, even though you and the other person seem like an unlikely couple— And yes, the pros do out weigh the cons.
You know.. people try so hard to be different these days that being unconvential seems so conventional these days.. i mean, whats so bad about being "normal"?(what is the definition of NORMAL anyway) cus that doesnt mean they dont have their
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I know reasons will vary but I'm curious to know anyway, Thanxs!