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CHEATERS!!!
so many reasons....just none of them are good ones. SELFISHNESS! Good question though.
Face it people now a days crave VARIETY! I don't think it's realistically possible to be with the same person over and over again and not WANT MORE OR DIFFERENT! It just gets boring with the same person.
Of course we read about how some couples have been together for years. But that was yo back when and today people just don't think that way anymore. Face it, it's 40 or 50 years later. Different generations, different thoughts. And definitely selfishness seems to be the #1 reason. Understanding, acceptance, tolerance no longer exist in this day and age and thus...they CHEAT! I don't think any couple married these days has the ability to either stay faithful OR married for long for that matter. It's a different world today. And a very sad one IMO.
Of course we read about how some couples have been together for years. But that was yo back when and today people just don't think that way anymore. Face it, it's 40 or 50 years later. Different generations, different thoughts. And definitely selfishness seems to be the #1 reason. Understanding, acceptance, tolerance no longer exist in this day and age and thus...they CHEAT! I don't think any couple married these days has the ability to either stay faithful OR married for long for that matter. It's a different world today. And a very sad one IMO.
OK........How to start on this.....
Cheating is something that should never be tolerated in any relationship. The reason couples can not stay together now adays is because most people in the world think that sex is the key to a realationship. Sex is a great act of love. But you have to learn to talk and communicate, and trust one another. If most people in the world would have been raised to keep the their clothes on then we would not have the problem of over population or kids who need families.
I am tired of reading about people giving up kids for adoption because they ran home from the club and got in bed with someone.
Learn to do three things before you ever go to bed with someone - -Communicate, Trust and most of all BE FRIENDS.
-MarineSag
Cheating is something that should never be tolerated in any relationship. The reason couples can not stay together now adays is because most people in the world think that sex is the key to a realationship. Sex is a great act of love. But you have to learn to talk and communicate, and trust one another. If most people in the world would have been raised to keep the their clothes on then we would not have the problem of over population or kids who need families.
I am tired of reading about people giving up kids for adoption because they ran home from the club and got in bed with someone.
Learn to do three things before you ever go to bed with someone - -Communicate, Trust and most of all BE FRIENDS.
-MarineSag
What to say.....I am speachless! The ONE and ONLY thing that I have to say is-IF YOU WANT TO FUCKING CHEAT, DONT GET MARRIED. There problem solved.
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