Confused about this Gemini!!

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Avyana202
@Avyana202
10 Years

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So I was dating this Gemini for 7 months..i know he cares a lot about me and respects me and things were good. He introduces me to a friend of his (Girl) we all go out for lunch. the next day i see a conversation between both of them. His friend basically gives him her feedback about me. She says!

"She's a nice girl but i don't see you marrying her" and the gemini replies "same" ...so i confront him about this because if he's made his mind up believing there is no future, why hasn't he said anything? He ignores and says his reply was about a different topic. basically lying.

But then he starts to act distant and not as involved as before. Aries girl confronts him about the change in behaviour, Gemini guy says!!

"Im not sure about us. you're a great girl and values are on point but I'm just not sure because we might not work out due to our cultural differences and me meeting your family. so I basically tell him if thats the case then we could just stay friends because if it got deeper ill hurt. Gemini agrees to this and says!


"I think its best if we are just friend for now so i don't drag you along because it won't be right"

Now the thing is we booked a holiday earlier on, Gemini could ask for a refund but instead, Gemini says he would gladly go on holiday with me and we'll be going as friends but then repeats "like i said I'm not sure about us"

The question is, Geminis do you think he's done, will he be back, and I'm just curious as to why he would still want to go on holiday if he would rather just be friends for now. is he expecting me to wait for him..it is a holiday in the same room it won't be the same as friends with no chemistry on holiday, and I'm sure he knows this!...

Since then i said goodbye to him and have not contacted him at all! He hasn't either...will he be back?
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buyonegetone
@buyonegetone
10 Years

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He probably wants to go on the holiday because holidays are fun to go on, and he can still squeeze you and hold you because he is "not sure". If he is telling you that he is not sure, take it as truth. He has probably been thinking about it for awhile. If it were me, "not sure" would mean "I wanna break up and have a new adventure, but I don't wanna hurt this person??_ I hope they break up with me first, I want out !" Will he be back? He might not shy away from a fwb situation, and might even want to be your best friend, but doesnt sound like he wants to be in a serious relationship with you right now.

Theres a possibility that he will want to rekindle things after havingsome time away, and I mean completely and utterly away, but don't count on it.