A Gem apologised for hurting me

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by ReallyNiceAriesPerson on Monday, June 22, 2015 and has 7 replies.

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@ReallyNiceAriesPerson
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Wow. I'm still in shock really. Only been a few days.

At first I thought wow, he is really sorry (like he said) now I'm wondering if it's a ploy to keep me on the back burner in case of emergency.

But the seeming acknowledgement that another human being has feelings (that count!!) blew my mind for a little while.

One small step for a male person, one giant leap for Gemini-kind.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Gem was tied up and his tweeter account about to be hijacked.

Sorry is the hardest word. Being forced to greet everybody with "Hasta la vista losers!" before unfollowing them, is even harder to swallow.

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@missv28
11 Years

Im a gemini and its hard for me to apologize because of shame and fear of the apology not being accepted

One thing I hate about the twin nature is being afraid of emotions and covering them up by pretending we have no feelings for other people

I want to be more open but its terrifying

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Wow. I'm still in shock really. Only been a few days.

At first I thought wow, he is really sorry (like he said) now I'm wondering if it's a ploy to keep me on the back burner in case of emergency.

But the seeming acknowledgement that another human being has feelings (that count!!) blew my mind for a little while.

One small step for a male person, one giant leap for Gemini-kind.

🙂

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@gemguyaz34
11 Years500+ PostsGemini

I'm glad he apologized. I personally don't take long to myself to apologize, just depending on the severity of the issue, but as far as the back-burner is concerned, if I feel like I'm placed on it and ignored I will make you beg for my attention until I know you are truly sincere lol

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Hey, I know what ya mean. After the tornado tore up my neighborhood, my exhusband (gem) showed up to help clear out debris. He basically apologized to me saying he knew he wasn't the best exhusband, if there were such a thing, but he would like to be on friendlier terms. He blamed it on his "situation" which means he was blaming his newly ex girlfriend (the one he had the affair with). We had a very volatile five years and are at least on speaking terms now.

I was impressed with him and it was appreciated. I still don't trust him, but at least things are more relaxed now.

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@depressedarian
11 Years

So weird bc I got an apology from a Gemini male a couple of times and I was always suspicious of the same thing. I mean, we do have fun together and he enjoys talking to me so Ig it was sincere. When he told me he loved me, I wasn't sure but then I read that it's very rare for them to say that and when they do say it, they mean it. But, I also know that they lie and are manipulative so I'm not sure.