D_?j_? Vu

As you may or may not be aware, apparently my ex gf was a Gemini and i only realized that today because i remembered that her birthday was on 31st. I Just spoke to my Gemini ex girlfriend, and she turned my mind upside down.. that's right this is the continuation of my journey to get my geminie girl, however this time,I am going back and starting everything from the beginning, I'll try to explain why.

my Ex Gem knows me better than anyone, we used to date for 2 years, we texted each other for about two hours now, and she really opened my eyes, and took me out of the denial state i was in a little, or lets say i just had a wrong impression on things, she told me whats going on, she told me that Gems dont have a bf just to have one, they have one because they like them (and my ex said she prefers funny over smart for some reason) she also told me not to get too attached because ill scare her off, she said that all those texts look like a friend talk (but i only sent her one picture of my gems and mine conversation where my gem was forced in the corner and had to play cool lol, ill mark that picture XXX) regardless, my ex said that they date guys because they like them not because they want to have a boyfriend, so if she has been liking her bf for 4 years - it doesn't matter, she just kept liking him because there was nothing better found yet, so if she finds something better - like my ex said she keeps her options opened - my gem will lose interest in her bf and will become interest the new one, so we can assume her life was full of idiots and stupid people as shes with her bf since highschool...

I asked my ex i said "I'll just take it slow, hoping they break up"
and my ex says
"Dont hope that"
"Hope that she starts to like you"
"Because if they break up she might need a rebound guy and that means desperation"

So guys we go back to where we started, how do i get her to like me?
and my ex told me not to rush anything, and she also said that if she liked a guy she would ask him out herself, she told me to let her come to me..

There is the convo i sent to my EX:

As you may or may not be aware, apparently my ex gf was a Gemini and i only realized that today because i remembered that her birthday was on 31st. I Just spoke to my Gemini ex girlfriend, and she turned my mind upside down.. that's right this is the continuation of my journey to get my geminie girl, however this time,I am going back and starting everything from the beginning, I'll try to explain why.

my Ex Gem knows me better than anyone, we used to date for 2 years, we texted each other for about two hours now, and she really opened my eyes, and took me out of the denial state i was in a little, or lets say i just had a wrong impression on things, she told me whats going on, she told me that Gems dont have a bf just to have one, they have one because they like them (and my ex said she prefers funny over smart for some reason) she also told me not to get too attached because ill scare her off, she said that all those texts look like a friend talk (but i only sent her one picture of my gems and mine conversation where my gem was forced in the corner and had to play cool lol, ill mark that picture XXX) regardless, my ex said that they date guys because they like them not because they want to have a boyfriend, so if she has been liking her bf for 4 years - it doesn't matter, she just kept liking him because there was nothing better found yet, so if she finds something better - like my ex said she keeps her options opened - my gem will lose interest in her bf and will become interest the new one, so we can assume her life was full of idiots and stupid people as shes with her bf since highschool...

I asked my ex i said "I'll just take it slow, hoping they break up"
and my ex says
"Dont hope that"
"Hope that she starts to like you"
"Because if they break up she might need a rebound guy and that means desperation"

So guys we go back to where we started, how do i get her to like me?
and my ex told me not to rush anything, and she also said that if she liked a guy she would ask him out herself, she told me to let her come to me..

There is the convo i sent to my EX: