Do Gemini men get complacent?

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My Gemini sun/Taurus moon/Leo rising bf isn't doing all the things he used to. He used plan extravegent dates when he came to town. We are in a ldr. I usually go to him and now we just stay in. I'm flexible but not demanding so I'm noticing but not complaining. He still calls everyday and texts all day. I just feel we're getting boring. I bring water balloons and water guns; he doesn't want to play. he's not into card games or anything romantic really. He literally wants to stay home in, drink, and watch movies. He's going through a few thing with his teenage daughter and seeking a promotion, so I try to keep it light hearted I just don't want either of us to get bored or stop trying
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Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
"He used plan extravagant dates when he came to town. We are in a ldr. I usually go to him and now we just stay in."

There's the problem let him come to you.

He has other problems too but doesn't want to bug you with them.

If you post your charts I can help
Moon Leo

Mercury Pisces

Venus Aries

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Taurus

Saturn Leo

Uranus Scorpio

Neptune Sagittarius

Pluto Libra

True Node Libra
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OK your definitely more passionate and expect the same back. Communicate with him what you desire. Your holding back.

He's a very sensitive guy and this promotion is really worrying him. I'm assuming he loves the field he works in. Does he work in the medical/science field?

This relationship is emotionally satisfying for you both. But the interests are different he has hobbies you don't like or don't know about, and you do as well. Open your mind. And Communicate your hearts desires.
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Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
OK your definitely more passionate and expect the same back. Communicate with him what you desire. Your holding back.

He's a very sensitive guy and this promotion is really worrying him. I'm assuming he loves the field he works in. Does he work in the medical/science field?

This relationship is emotionally satisfying for you both. But the interests are different he has hobbies you don't like or don't know about, and you do as well. Open your mind. And Communicate your hearts desires.
He works for the military and he's a pretty laid back person for the amount of stress he's under there. I don't think he actually enjoys his job as much as his dream of writing.

He says he's never been in love and seems pretty reserved emotionally so I keep it lighthearted. Emotionally I'm an ocean and he's a well. So I try to steer clear of being emotive
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Posted by livictori
My Gemini sun/Taurus moon/Leo rising bf isn't doing all the things he used to. He used plan extravegent dates when he came to town. We are in a ldr. I usually go to him and now we just stay in. I'm flexible but not demanding so I'm noticing but not complaining. He still calls everyday and texts all day. I just feel we're getting boring. I bring water balloons and water guns; he doesn't want to play. he's not into card games or anything romantic really. He literally wants to stay home in, drink, and watch movies. He's going through a few thing with his teenage daughter and seeking a promotion, so I try to keep it light hearted I just don't want either of us to get bored or stop trying

All men get complacent after a while.

You say you go to him. Does he ever come to you?