@cancerwomen15
10 Years
Gemini man selfish?
Are Gemini Men Selfish in Relationships
Gemini men can sometimes seem distant or avoid conflict by withdrawing. Their communication style is often fluctuating, which may be mistaken for selfishness. Understanding their need for mental space can help improve relationships, but clear communication is essential to address issues and prevent misunderstandings.
Posted by cancerwomen15
I have a relationship with a gemini man. And one day we have a fight. And I don't know how, he turns my words against me, and turn me into a bad guy.
He texted me: "I don't want to think & fight right now."
Then I replied: "If you don't want to think & fight right now, what do you want then?"
He ignored my text. It's been 2weeks now.
Why this gemini man won't say sorry / text me first? Should I (the one that being ignore) text him and begging for forgiveness? It's not fair!
It does not matter his sign ... I think he is not interested.
Sorry, but a Cancerian with a Gemini sounds a terrible idea.
Posted by cancerwomen15
I have a relationship with a gemini man. And one day we have a fight. And I don't know how, he turns my words against me, and turn me into a bad guy.
He texted me: "I don't want to think & fight right now."
Then I replied: "If you don't want to think & fight right now, what do you want then?"
He ignored my text. It's been 2weeks now.
Why this gemini man won't say sorry / text me first? Should I (the one that being ignore) text him and begging for forgiveness? It's not fair!
Yup, they can do that. How long you guys been together? 2 weeks no contact seems a bit much :/
My dad is a gemini, bless his soul. He's selfish and can guilt trip like nobody else. When things don't go his way he can give the silent treatment, mope, or throw a tantrum.
Look you need to let him be. If he likes you he'll contact you first.
Why should he apologize first?
A gem only argues because they know their right(with facts of course)
Remember gems reflect your behavior, whatever you give them, they'll give it right back.
Exactly who is being selfish?
Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
Look you need to let him be. If he likes you he'll contact you first.
Why should he apologize first?A gem only argues because they know their right(with facts of course)
Remember gems reflect your behavior, whatever you give them, they'll give it right back.
Exactly who is being selfish?
I understood this very early and it has reaped the rewards with most Gems in my life. 🙂
Omg sounds just like mine...i think he has borderline personality disorder...he gaslights me, constantly makes me the bad guy...can never admit fault...its maddening. I'm sorry. I'd forget him if I were you. And yea they do mimic you, but its only after you've given em the boot cuz they are insufferable assholes...then they are even meaner.ugh............
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I have a relationship with a gemini man. And one day we have a fight. And I don't know how, he turns my words against me, and turn me into a bad guy.
He texted me: "I don't want to think & fight right now."
Then I replied: "If you don't want to think & fight right now, what do you want then?"
He ignored my text. It's been 2weeks now.
Why this gemini man won't say sorry / text me first? Should I (the one that being ignore) text him and begging for forgiveness? It's not fair!