@lovelylioness90
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Gemini man bday may 23
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Wat?
Leave him the fuck alone. That's what you do. He obviously doesn't like folks who can't make up their minds.
I just started dating a gemini man like 3 weeks ago... Tomorrow is his bday and he invited me over ... I brought dinner and wine... Everything was going pretty good until and guy I had seen for the first time today text my phone while the gemini man had it... The gemini guy asked me to leave and walked me to my car said we could be friends and told me that it really turned him off that I was seeing another guy after we had gone on a date ... But the other guy I saw I am not interested in... Just met him for the first time today
Wat?
Man. Hard break.
Well you did nothing wrong because you1 arent in a relationship.
However some people, men and women, do get turned off if they like you and see something like that. For men, its an ego thing which leads to insecurity.
Charge this one to the game.
Posted by Hemispheres
Wat?
You still don't understand or you're messing with me...
I'm just wondering like what should I do... Leave him alone... I really liked him... It wasn't even a date I went on with the other guy I just met him at the lake ... The gemini guy tho..
Posted by lovelylioness90
Tomorrow is his bday... He invited me over tonight and we were getting along really well. Only been dating a couple of weeks. He was putting an app on my phone and another guy I just went out with today messaged me and my gemini guy saw it. He basically asked me to leave in a very polite way... What do I do? I really liked him... I just met the other guy today and I'm not interested...
When did you become "not interested"
Posted by lovelylioness90
I'm just wondering like what should I do... Leave him alone... I really liked him... It wasn't even a date I went on with the other guy I just met him at the lake ... The gemini guy tho..
Do nothing. If he changes his mind about you, you will hear from him.
Gemini handled it like a boss tho.
Thanks for your comments ... Damn it was like he had just opened up to me too... We took pics... I was going to give him a massage... I had on lingerie (underneath my clothes) and he sent me home over a text ... And the text said nice to meet you today smh damn
Posted by DMV
Posted by lovelylioness90
Tomorrow is his bday... He invited me over tonight and we were getting along really well. Only been dating a couple of weeks. He was putting an app on my phone and another guy I just went out with today messaged me and my gemini guy saw it. He basically asked me to leave in a very polite way... What do I do? I really liked him... I just met the other guy today and I'm not interested...
When did you become "not interested"
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I met the guy today for the first time... I can usually tell how I feel about somebody first time I meet them... I felt that we would not be anything more than friends
Posted by lovelylioness90
Thanks for your comments ... Damn it was like he had just opened up to me too... We took pics... I was going to give him a massage... I had on lingerie (underneath my clothes) and he sent me home over a text ... And the text said nice to meet you today smh damn
It happens to me alll the time. Girl sees a text from another girl and its a wrap for the guy.
If he is still interested, he will hunt ya down
Posted by lovelylioness90
Posted by DMV
Posted by lovelylioness90
Tomorrow is his bday... He invited me over tonight and we were getting along really well. Only been dating a couple of weeks. He was putting an app on my phone and another guy I just went out with today messaged me and my gemini guy saw it. He basically asked me to leave in a very polite way... What do I do? I really liked him... I just met the other guy today and I'm not interested...
When did you become "not interested"
I met the guy today for the first time... I can usually tell how I feel about somebody first time I meet them... I felt that we would not be anything more than friends
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Hmm maybe tell the guy next time that youre not interested. That way you wont have him texting you.
He probably thought you took a creampie from the dude at the lake.
Thank you for your comments... But the gem and I had said nothing about being exclusive ... He said we were on that track tho.... I met a guy at the lake... Walked and talked that's it.. I wouldnt even say it was a date... He didn't buy me dinner lunch or a drink Lol but he text me nice to meet you when the gem had my phone and he sent me home... π’ in my pretty lingerie lol after drinking lots of wine goshhhhh I feel pretty terrible... Its been a long time since I liked a guy ... And I liked the gem guy ... I'm a picky Leo
Yeah ...I get bored and didn't want to be at the lake all by myself... Maybe me and the other guy could be friends... I get tunnel vision when I like the gem like I don't want to talk to anyone else and definitely not have sex with anyone else ...but sitting around thinking about him and waiting for him to text... I thought felt kinda toxic so I was like have some friends meet some more people ...
Yeah I don't have any friends here π’ kinda hard making girlfriends after college... I really am a honest sweet girl ... I wasn't trying to sweat him ( gem guy) ... Get lonely sometimes really ... He's super busy ...
Idk why y'all think I am lying.... Why would I lie....y'all gonna beat me thru the internet Lol
Just randomly met and talked at the lake.
Oh and you gave him your #.
Shows intent.
However if you're still in your lingerie and tipsy let me get your skype real quick.
@housecleaning you here?
Ewwww and I met them both online so we had messaged online but never met
Posted by someoneeee
Omg, I don't understand dating at all anymore. I have always dated only one guy at a time. But some guys that I have dated have also been seeing other girls in the meantime, without me knowing it.I'm super confused right now.
It's like automatically cut off to Taurus but hey what can we change. Not much.
Ouch is right... I am at work... My stomach has butterflies I'm so hurt about this lol its funny but its not like it's unbelievable... Bad timing for real...
Posted by lovelylioness90
Tomorrow is his bday... He invited me over tonight and we were getting along really well. Only been dating a couple of weeks. He was putting an app on my phone and another guy I just went out with today messaged me and my gemini guy saw it. He basically asked me to leave in a very polite way... What do I do? I really liked him... I just met the other guy today and I'm not interested...
Maybe, the next gem you date... you could be alil more honest and tell him you are keeping your options open. Life lessons are precious.
im sorry but ur acting like a slut :/
Posted by Geminiam
Posted by TaurusGal92
im sorry but ur acting like a slut :/
Lmao...really...REALLY? Yep trolling. You cute
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sorry but she is..... she coulda really hurt this guys feelings..... :/ thats not right.
He told me to call him this morning and talk about it... But he didn't pick up Β§ gosh I feel terrible...
Like I really liked him (gem guy) ... I called my Bestie about it... Before I saw the guy at the lake ... She was like girl y'all are not in a relationship we just started dating 3 weeks ago... Go to the park ..
Posted by Geminiam
Posted by TaurusGal92
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Posted by TaurusGal92
im sorry but ur acting like a slut :/
Lmao...really...REALLY? Yep trolling. You cute
sorry but she is..... she coulda really hurt this guys feelings..... :/ thats not right.
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No. Gawd. It's AWFUL. Who would go about doing such things and hurting a man's feelings??
Posted by FyzaGememiee
Posted by TaurusGal92
im sorry but ur acting like a slut :/
Are you P Angel? π
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im not sure who that is so no : )
I think he was really disappointed he didn't believe anything I said .... I was like I just met him today at the lake... I'm not interested... It was just something to do so I wasnt bored and alone... I told him I really liked him and I'm a one guy kinda girl... Like dude at the lake couldve been a networking opportunity or just a friend... The gem guy was marriage material .... Sighhhh y'all I'm hurt real hurt
Y'all ain't getting me with these slut comments its not like I was fucking the guy... He barely got a hug...he got a church hug lol there was no slutting
Posted by Geminiam
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Posted by lovelylioness90
Tomorrow is his bday... He invited me over tonight and we were getting along really well. Only been dating a couple of weeks. He was putting an app on my phone and another guy I just went out with today messaged me and my gemini guy saw it. He basically asked me to leave in a very polite way... What do I do? I really liked him... I just met the other guy today and I'm not interested...
Maybe, the next gem you date... you could be alil more honest and tell him you are keeping your options open. Life lessons are precious.
What was she being dishonest about? In the first few weeks if it didn't come up naturally why is it her responsibility to mention it? It's casual dating. If he wanted to know or wanted it not to be casual he could have said something.
Not that I agree with the same day stuff... That's a bit much even for casual dating but still, she wasn't dishonest.
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IMO, it should have been thrown out on the table on the first date. Saves on a lot of problems like this.
Posted by DMV
Posted by lovelylioness90
I'm just wondering like what should I do... Leave him alone... I really liked him... It wasn't even a date I went on with the other guy I just met him at the lake ... The gemini guy tho..
Do nothing. If he changes his mind about you, you will hear from him.
Gemini handled it like a boss tho.
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How did he handle it like a boss? I was thinking more bitch than boss lol
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Posted by lovelylioness90
Yeah ...I get bored and didn't want to be at the lake all by myself... Maybe me and the other guy could be friends... I get tunnel vision when I like the gem like I don't want to talk to anyone else and definitely not have sex with anyone else ...but sitting around thinking about him and waiting for him to text... I thought felt kinda toxic so I was like have some friends meet some more people ...
So instead of inviting one of your friends you decide to invite some random guy and meet him for the first time? Not buying it. And the Gemini won't buy it either. We're not dumb.
Maybe this whole "let's date around and meet other people until we're official" thing only works with other Fire signs. None of the other elements will put up with it.
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You need to calm down she has already said like 10 times they aren't exclusive. She did absolutely nothing wrong.
Posted by TaurusGal92
im sorry but ur acting like a slut :/
Huh wtf? How? Where the fuck you get off trying to slut shame this girl.
As a woman you should be ashamed. I am embarrassed for you, little girl.
Op please don't listen to half these people. You aren't a slut, you did nothing wrong and all you can do now is wait. the wisest thing you can do is keep your options open. Your best friend was right. The way the gem is acting is a clear indicator of what's to come. Do not fold and let him come to you when he is ready, don't force it.
Posted by bkbella86
Op please don't listen to half these people. You aren't a slut, you did nothing wrong and all you can do now is wait. the wisest thing you can do is keep your options open. Your best friend was right. The way the gem is acting is a clear indicator of what's to come. Do not fold and let him come to you when he is ready, don't force it.
Thank you Ε
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Posted by misslissa
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Posted by misslissa
Posted by lovelylioness90
Tomorrow is his bday... He invited me over tonight and we were getting along really well. Only been dating a couple of weeks. He was putting an app on my phone and another guy I just went out with today messaged me and my gemini guy saw it. He basically asked me to leave in a very polite way... What do I do? I really liked him... I just met the other guy today and I'm not interested...
Maybe, the next gem you date... you could be alil more honest and tell him you are keeping your options open. Life lessons are precious.
What was she being dishonest about? In the first few weeks if it didn't come up naturally why is it her responsibility to mention it? It's casual dating. If he wanted to know or wanted it not to be casual he could have said something.
Not that I agree with the same day stuff... That's a bit much even for casual dating but still, she wasn't dishonest.
IMO, it should have been thrown out on the table on the first date. Saves on a lot of problems like this.
Do most people really discuss that on the first date? How would you know on the first date if you intend to only date that one person and wouldn't that be a little overwhelming or discouraging to bring that up so quickly either way?
"I'm only dating one person at a time..you" (man runs away)
"I'm casually dating multiple people right now just so you know" (oh ok so she isn't ready for a relationship - but yet she might be, just doesn't know him yet)
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I married my aqua, didn't I?
Saves time and a lot of heartache if they run. π
Yeah I kinda wanted to have that conversation but... I was trying to not come off as possessive or rushing into things...in the past I can jealous and possessive... I really liked him I would've loved for us to only be dating each other ... But I felt like it was to soon for me to ask that. . I felt like let's get to know each other more.
Solo today is his bday so I text him happy bday and he text back.... Ughhhh I want to see him I want to fix this... I want what I didn't get last night lol goshhhhh what do I do!!!?!!?!
He said thank you very much and asked me what I was eating for dinner
If he's that insecure about something innocent and stupid....ew. Tell him how you feel...that it wasn't a big deal etc..you just started dating ffs. What a coward.
Posted by lovelylioness90
Posted by bkbella86
Op please don't listen to half these people. You aren't a slut, you did nothing wrong and all you can do now is wait. the wisest thing you can do is keep your options open. Your best friend was right. The way the gem is acting is a clear indicator of what's to come. Do not fold and let him come to you when he is ready, don't force it.
Thank you Ε
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You're welcome π
Don't listen to the folks saying kiss his ass. This is not the right thing to do. Don't show your cards to a gem. Not now at least. He's prolly expecting you to at this point. Leave him be liked he asked.
People who want to make friends meet people and exchange numbers ... It is not stupid... Thank you
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Posted by bkbella86
Op please don't listen to half these people. You aren't a slut, you did nothing wrong and all you can do now is wait. the wisest thing you can do is keep your options open. Your best friend was right. The way the gem is acting is a clear indicator of what's to come. Do not fold and let him come to you when he is ready, don't force it.
That's funny cause I thought the way SHE'S acting is a sign of things to come. You guys are enabling her with the "exclusive" thing. It's VA scapegoat at this point. She's mad young anyways, she's supposed to be slutty at this age.
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Stfu. She is isn't a slut. She is supposed to be dating till she finds the guy who treats her like she wants to be treated. And that's what she did. It's not her fault lil ol gem couldn't handle it.
Posted by lovelylioness90
People who want to make friends meet people and exchange numbers ... It is not stupid... Thank you
These people are projecting hunny.
Y'all the gem guy and I were dating for only like 3 weeks .... We went on our first date Sunday for breakfast... I went to the lake and met another guy... Who I knew right away could be nothing more than friends.. Gem guy invited me over later for dinner and probably birthday booty lol which I was down for ... Haven't done it with anyone since me and my ex broke up... But the gem guy saw a text from the dude at the park.. kicked me out... And I tried to explain but he didn't believe me... I was upset Cuz the gem guy seemed amazing but.... Whateva!!! Lol
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by lovelylioness90
People who want to make friends meet people and exchange numbers ... It is not stupid... Thank you
These people are projecting hunny.
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Girl yes must be unhappy with their lives ... Like give me your honest opinion I'll take that but name calling .. And being judgmental is not necessary
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Tomorrow is his bday... He invited me over tonight and we were getting along really well. Only been dating a couple of weeks. He was putting an app on my phone and another guy I just went out with today messaged me and my gemini guy saw it. He basically asked me to leave in a very polite way... What do I do? I really liked him... I just met the other guy today and I'm not interested...