Female gemini in love with a virgo male

Am 22 years of age and ive been in love with this virgo male for 9 years, we have
been dating for the past 2 years we have so much differences ive learned alot from him, and he has learned from me well
we're been through alot we argue very often but we spend alot of time talking and working out our issues. ive played a big role in his life, and he values my freindship but he scared he mite hurt me cause i push him too far at times. i cant leave him alone lots of ppl give up on him and i never want to do that. sometimes i do seek a little too much attention and don't give him his space and sometimes he wants to talk to me as if he's my dad which i dunt stand for. he push and i push back but i want my relationship to work i love him too much. so much people tells me to forget him and move on but i keep faith that theres always room for change and i need to stop triggerin him off and just take it easy. some feed back will be great

He obviously adores you even though you drive him crazy. I do the same to my Virgo. We really clash alot but cannot leave each other alone there's such a fierce attraction between us. He's my idea man, I'm probably just a challenge to him....communication is the key--it can work!

yeah, i agree with GemStar05. communication is the key

BUT if you are finding it too much of a effort to make it work, please forget it.
he is either going to go MIA on you or find another girl.

this reminds me so much of my ex-Libra

I beg to differ with those who say virgos and gemini can't work. You both have mercury in common, which means you can talk out your differences. Gemini get virgos to laugh and drop down their guard. Virogs provide strength and stability to sometimes flighty gemini. That's when the combo works. Sounds like you've got normal young couple problems. Just chill out a bit and listen to him when he says you're pushing too hard. Give him some space. All men need some time to themselves in the man cave. Good luck!

Like Este8 is saying, if you can learn to grow on each others strengths it can work. Both signs can be very critical, so just let them be who they are.

No one has ever made me feel as calm and secure as my Virgal does. In general these two signs aren't great together, but occasionally there are exceptions. Try reading some relationship literature. Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix has helped us a lot.

Don't listen to them Astrology aside; it can work if you work at it...

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Don't listen to them Astrology aside; it can work if you work at it...

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