There's This Gemini Guy ....

I find him interesting, which is strange because I've never found s Gemini attractive before.

I don't like him, but I'm attracted 🙂

What are you guys like, I'm only familiar with my two Gemini brothers but that's it.

Sweet! A Cap female/Gem male situation. I'm the reverse 😉... Gem dudes are so different from me though, it wouldn't really do much for me to give you any insight. The main thing I can say is they are usually very laid back. I know two Gem dudes, and NOTHING seems to upset them. Where I'm quick to lash out and bite, they just shrug it off and let it roll down their backs. I admire that. Because I lash out, THEN shrug it off once I've taken the time to actually analyze it from the other perspective and understand it. I always see both sides of the story, I just might react before caring about both sides lol.

Oh, and tons of fun! They're both down for whatever types of guys. You know, go wherever the wind may take you. Ask them to do anything fun, and they're most likely going to give you a nod. Other than that, I guess they're just typical Geminis. Socialites, but can fair well alone. Charming. Flirtatious, kinda. Open-minded. Etc. etc.

Its cos no two Geminis are the same! Geminis are mostly widely different from one another, I can't figure out my Gemini dad and I'm a Gemini.

Ordinarily Geminis are so diverse to the point in not having much in common other than some of the zodiac basics that's all.

CappySweet you just might like him so don't give up! > If you are trying to align your persona within some kind of faddish "conservatism" then its your bet y'know? He's a "liberal" Gemini so why hell should I give a flying fck about him syndrome.

What? You grew up with 2 gems and you STILL can't figure them out?

Well, my brothers were different 🙂 One was a second decan gemini and the other third decan gemini

Joe Stickler is right. We're all very different. My Gem roomie and I have a lot in common. Like when something happens, we're both speechless, or we both have a ton to say. But she's much more fixed than I am. And I associate that with her being close to Taureans. (May 27) And I'm just a pure Gem (June 10), so its interesting. Definitely just have to go with the flow. Know the basics. We're communicators and intellectuals. From that point on you just gotta wing it.

WHOA!!!

I forgot to update! The Gemini guy that I like is ... not old enough for me yet. LOL, so never mind, he's like 17 years old! I swear, he looks like he's freaking 24!

I'm so upset 😢

Wow! A Gem that looks older?! This is a phenomenon.

Yeah, I know!!!! Usually they look young, both of my gem brothers look young, but this guy looked to be in college already.

So yeah, my mistake 🙂 However, we are just buddies, he's so adorable 😉 Hahaha, of course I think he's adorable, he's 17 LOL!!!!!

I'm still trying to fathom a Gem looking older lol. My ID always gets stared at extra hard whenever I go to happy hour lol. And before I turned 21, I couldn't stand a chance. They'd always card me out of all my friends lol.

Really— Awww, we cappie usually look younger as we get older. That's so cool, and it holds true with most cappies 😛

Honestly, I am attracted to this gem guy, thats why I was thrown when he told me that he was 17. Hahaha, he thought I was like 19 or 20. Well, he's kind of right, he just needs to add a few more numbers.

I refuse to get in trouble. No way, I will not go out with this guy. Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope 😛

It's strange, when I was 21 I hardly got carded. Now that I'm 38, I get carded everywhere I go. I've gotten carded for alcohol and cigs about 8 times in the last 2 weeks. Once, they wouldn't even let me in a casino til I showed my ID. The cashier who carded me for cigs, said I looked 25 🙂 Not that I'm complaining...I love it.

Lol. When will he be 18? Is it like a whole year from now, or does he have a couple months?

And yeah, I've read a lot of Cap/Gem compatibility stuff and a lot of them are like, "Well, look for the youngest looking couple in the room and it just may be a Cap & Gem!" Lol. Whereas you guys kinda loosen up and get more youthful as you get older, we're youthful from day one and never let it go lol.

I'd hate for age to be something to keep a couple from connecting, especially if the guy's gonna be 18 soon. If it's just a matter of him being legal, just chill out and see what type of friendship you guys can build until he turns 18. But if its the difference between your ages regardless of his age, then well I guess you have your answer.

I can't say as I know much about Gemini guys. I dated one for a few months and he drove me crazy. After only knowing him for a few weeks, he assumed he could basically move into my place. He was too clingy for me at the time. I remember the sex was really good though 😉

Yeah, I heard that sex with gems is great 😉 But at the same time, I don't want to think that way off him anymore because he's way younger then me LOL.

He'll be 18 next year in June. He's such a sweetheart though 😢 He can be hot-headed, but most young boys are hey ? 😉

No, I don't think its a difference with ages regardless, its just the fact that it looks bad LOL. Plus, I can't recall EVER being with a guy that young. All the guys have been older LOL

How old are you cap? Unless you are way older than him I wouldn't let age stop you. If you are worried about legality, in most states the age of consent for males is 16 or 17 anyways. If any sign can handle may-december romances it's us Gems. Age truly is only a number. Most of my relationships have been with guys much older or younger than myself. Gemini's have a way of bridging the age gap, and have an easy time communicating with anyone regardless of their age.

He's a gentleman too 🙂 I'm not use to that because all the guys I pick/ like happen to be jerks -- in some shape or form.

He hasn't developed his "jerkness" yet 😉

He's kind of Alpha male like too, but he likes Mama Mia which is funny LOL!!!!!!! I'm not suppose to tell anyone that 😉 He's only like The Dark Knight ooo ooo ooo 😄

Duhhh. He's a Gem, clearly his bday is next year. Excuse me, I have my moments lol.

If you're gonna be embarrassed, then I wouldn't do it. That'll cause problems. But if you can stick it out, I don't see anything wrong with getting to know the guy.

Well ... my dxp age is 208 😉

But, I'm under 25 in my real age 😄

That's okay GEM,

I understood you. No, I won't be ashamed ..... but, I afraid if things go long-term, would he care?

That's the way to do it, get them while their still young. They haven't had years of bad relationships to sour their attitudes towards women yet. I'm going after a 23 year old and I'm 38. I say who cares what anyone else thinks about it. Not like you have to divulge to everyone his true age. He'd prob go along with pretending that he's 24 lol.

Would he care about the age difference? I figure if he's looking at you now, he doesn't care. Caps seem to be good at not smothering, so I don't see you pushing him off. Just go with the flow in the beginning and don't bring up "long term" too early.

Well ... he is sweet. And he's handsome too 😉 He just wishes that I'd be more active LOL!!! I really need to be, now I have motivation 😄

He has a Pisces moon. Gee Weezz, I attact guys with Pisces moons, what the heck —

Young Gemini's usually aren't good with long term relationships. Most of us shouldn't get into serious relationships until we're in our 30's. However, I'm sure he wouldn't care about the age difference if it were to develop into a serious relationship. When I was 22 I dated a 44 year old. When I was 28 I dated a 46 year old, whom I ended up having a 5 year relationship with. When I was 32, I dated a 21 year old. My best friend is a Cap, and she's 25.

Yeah, that's why I told her not to mention "long term", just go with it. My friend is a male Gem and he and his gf have been together since freshman year of college, he just graduated. He wants to marry her, but it's because she doesn't force it on him. She just goes with it. Another male friend, ALWAYS runs into the girls who want to be married TOMORROW and they never last lol.

Oh no, I never push long time -- I'm never in a relationship longer then a year so I don't give long-term a try anymore. I will see, we may just be better as friends, but he's still handsome 😄

Thank you so much GEM and GS 🙂

If things go far, I'll let you all know. I have NEVER dated a gemini before. They always call them unfaithful but they seem to be devoted -- the ones I know who are in relationships.

All the Gems I know are very faithful. But when single, can have their hands in a lot of different shirts lol. But once committed, or REALLY interested, can totally focus on you and only you.

I've never been unfaithful. If I started having interest in another guy, I would always break it off with him before I started something new. I would say we can be fickle though. Sometimes, when I was younger, I would like someone until I got them and then I'd lose interest. True, once in a committed relationship I like to think I give it my all and I am very devoted to them. It's when they can't give the devotion back that I end up losing feelings for them.

One thing with a Gem, is we need to talk a lot and analyze everything in our minds out loud. Sometimes it's hard to keep up with a Gem conversation, as we flit from one subject to another and then back around to the original subject. The best relationships I've had, were where the men allowed me to talk my mind and never criticized me for it. And they actually paid attention to what I was saying. We need to have a mental connection with someone to make it last. We're also very passionate people. We delve into whatever subject fascinates us at the moment. That includes relationships. If we dig you, we'll be soooo into you. Try to connect on the mental level first. See what subjects he digs then find interesting tidbits to discuss with him.

Good luck, it's good for me to get my mind off of this Leo who's driving me crazy by thinking about someone else's relationships 😉

If we dig you, we'll be soooo into you. Try to connect on the mental level first. See what subjects he digs then find interesting tidbits to discuss with him.

We both are kooky in our own ways and he can be so funny -- sometimes he's more serious then me 😉 He wants me to be so active! Like, if he does flips off a mountian, then I should be able to do the same thing.

LOL, yeah, right 😄

Although, that would be kind of fun 😛

Actually, I would love to do that 😄!!!!!!!!

Lmao cappysweetie, you crack me up. But I agree with GneissSchist. I'm very faithful. I've never cheated. Once I start to lose interest, I'll let the guy know. It's too easy to cheat. And I'm a firm believer in karma, and I'd hate for that to happen to me.

But the mental stimulation is key. Keep his intellectual side interested and you'll keep him interested. My Aries ex used to play word games with me on Yahoo (long distance relationship) and we would IM at the same time. So I would have a BALL playing these word games on the side of the IM screen (and I'd always win lol), while talking to him all day long at the same time. My Aquarius ex was a musician just as I am and he would have me listen to his music and give my input. Anything that would keep me interested was key. Whenever I was REALLY quiet on the phone, he knew something was up. Lol.

I think it's interesting that your Gem wants you to be active. My Cap is very active, totally in shape. When he first found out that I'd started working out again, he was so turned on. He said there was nothing sexier than a girl working out lol. I didn't understand the infatuation with it, but I guess when your life revolves around staying in shape, you learn to love it when other people take care of themselves too.

I'm actually listening to the advice given to me 😄 I think I have a mental connection with him 🙂 He loves to read and so do I 😄

I don't know today was ... fun 😄

I think it's interesting that your Gem wants you to be active. My Cap is very active, totally in shape. When he first found out that I'd started working out again, he was so turned on. He said there was nothing sexier than a girl working out lol. I didn't understand the infatuation with it, but I guess when your life revolves around staying in shape, you learn to love it when other people take care of themselves too.

Yeah, it's my stomach that's the problem. It's funny, I look cool from the back, but always wear shirts to hide my tummy. Its all the bad food I've been eating. I'm eating healthier now, but it destroyed my body LOL!!!

I do all sorts of stuff to hide my tummy -- I'm a pear-shaped woman so I look odd with a bully.

It's funny, Gemini is always getting on my case if he sees anything junkie that I'm consuming. Funny, he just read the labal to me and insisted on how bad it was LOL

Okay, another update:

I just found it that my Gemini has a wealthy family. Why he choose to keep it from me and tell me about an hour ago is beyond me. Maybe its because he knows I don't care about that stuff.

The subject came up when I was taking a break from my job to talk to him -- he was reading outside my work area. There was a lady looking at us while we were talking. She gave the impression that I should be working and not talking to him. The Gemini said not to worry because he would cover for me. And I said how? He said that he's family is one of the most power in the community (I work in) so if the lady complaints, then I will be fine as long as I have him on my side. 🙂 That's so sweeeet 😄

Seriously, I feel like a dork, I had no idea who his parents were until he told me and then it all made sense why he nor I would get in trouble LOL.

He doesn't act like a rich kid, seriously I wouldn't have known. He's so down-to-earth and he doesn't act like he's entitled to anything ... nice 🙂

As a Gem, I can say that I don't know many who are really flashy. My male gem friends both come from some nice families with huge houses and vacation homes and you would never know it. They never brag about it. I don't feel a need to push my blessings in everyone's faces. Now, don't ever try to one-up a Gemini because THAT'S when we'll prove you wrong lol. I never speak of status until someone tries to speak down to me or compare material things, then I'll say some c0cky crap just to make a point.