FWB?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by alynland on Monday, July 17, 2017 and has 9 replies.

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@alynland
9 Years

Leo woman here - don't know my othe me replacements as I'm relatively new to this.

I was seeking a sort of fun fling for the summer. I've been single for awhile and I was ready for something on the fun side so I naturally was attracted to the gem dude (didn't know until after the fact) and he was super fun and all that and then we hung out after talking for awhile. He was a perfect prospect for a summer thing I wanted. I thought we were both aware of this ideal but then I guess I said something the one night that we hung out and he got mad and we haven't talked since.

Lol it sucks because I thought this might work out because obviously he was a flirty type and I actually didn't mind because I'm not into commitment - just something simple & we kind of hung out with the same people anyways.

He recently tweeted about one of our conversations that we had that night, without mentioning my name or anything.

So I thought maybe he would forget about the bad blood like I did?

So is this viable? lol I'd like to still have a little something with him.

We were having a conversation about being together but I kind of pointed towards not being committed and just wanted to have fun.

And then it just stopped lol

I dropped my work key on his back porch and I texted him and asked him about it and he never texted back and then he didn't answer my call so then a few days later I just went to his house while he was at work and ran to find it haha

He was fun and I'm not even mad at him, I just wanna chill lol

Or would my efforts be pointless and he just moved on? Again, I'm not hurt. But it looked like a lot of fun and something I was into for the moment.

Thanks

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@Gcgc
9 Years

You sound wishy washy in this post I bet you have been with him and its fucking with his head. Find someone else

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@alynland
9 Years

Posted by Gcgc
You sound wishy washy in this post I bet you have been with him and its fucking with his head. Find someone else

Nah I knew exactly what I wanted and I thought we were in natural agreement.

Wishy washy? Nah

Picky? Yes

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@alynland
9 Years

Posted by Astrology101
He might want more with you.

That sucks a bit because i wouldn't commit to someone like a Gemini. I heard too much flirtatious things and I'm just too picky on who I legitimately get with. I would never get serious with him - which I thought Geminis would appreciate right? Or so I thought lol

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@MoonshineLeo
11 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

You cant do that to a gem, yea they may seem like they just wanna have fun too but their other twin isnt ok with that lol the same thing happened to me yearsss ago with this gem and he never forgave me, till this day. Always respect them and be extra gentle with them, they are very sensitive even if they dont show it.

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@alynland
9 Years

Posted by MoonshineLeo
You cant do that to a gem, yea they may seem like they just wanna have fun too but their other twin isnt ok with that lol the same thing happened to me yearsss ago with this gem and he never forgave me, till this day. Always respect them and be extra gentle with them, they are very sensitive even if they dont show it.

Very informative, thanks!

lol I'll keep my paws to myself.

I don't see it as cheap at all, I am very picky on who I set those sights on. But he didn't seem to be very emotional at all or sensitive so I thought it was probably what he wanted also.

Lol he will probably be mad at me forever but atleast now I know.

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@MoonshineLeo
11 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by alynland

Posted by MoonshineLeo
You cant do that to a gem, yea they may seem like they just wanna have fun too but their other twin isnt ok with that lol the same thing happened to me yearsss ago with this gem and he never forgave me, till this day. Always respect them and be extra gentle with them, they are very sensitive even if they dont show it.

Very informative, thanks!

lol I'll keep my paws to myself.

I don't see it as cheap at all, I am very picky on who I set those sights on. But he didn't seem to be very emotional at all or sensitive so I thought it was probably what he wanted also.

Lol he will probably be mad at me forever but atleast now I know.

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They're very good at making you regret the way you treat them! lol be gentleee