Gem Guys how do you act around someone you like?

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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
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The first one. Mars and Venus in cancer. I don't know if mars and Venus in cancer is playful to someone they like. I think my Sun and rising might be the culprit for that one.
Hmmm I think the playfulness is you being a Gemini... Like, you joke around, act like a school boy with a crush? Do you try to "feed" offer food mention a girl needs to eat if you like her? That's a Cancer Venus thing I believe 🙂
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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
I see... Well thank you for answering my question. Maybe I need to look a few signs down...😉
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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
I see... Well thank you for answering my question. Maybe I need to look a few signs down...😉
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Oh yes.

You are missing out on Virgos. Give Gemini guys a break for now - even they need to catch up with themselves from time to time.

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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
I see... Well thank you for answering my question. Maybe I need to look a few signs down...😉
Oh yes.

You are missing out on Virgos. Give Gemini guys a break for now - even they need to catch up with themselves from time to time.

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Thanks, I will take this into consideration.
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All of the above.... they can come off as so fucking arrogant ? But they really aren't.

Its.... different. They actually don't have that key defining ego like a Aries, Leo, or Virgo imo.
Yes, I think what I like about Gems I can see the good twin... And that's what I tend to judge them on. But, that can also bite me in the ass ? There's a Gem who acts all the above with me... I was just wondering if since we can't date this is his way of acting out? I dunno lol maybe he just enjoys playing with me ?
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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
I see... Well thank you for answering my question. Maybe I need to look a few signs down...😉
Oh yes.

You are missing out on Virgos. Give Gemini guys a break for now - even they need to catch up with themselves from time to time.


Thanks, I will take this into consideration.
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I /urge/ you to.

Consider this: if you want to go out and get ice cream, you don't want to get one flavor. Ideally, you'd want to stack on top of a scoop of vanilla, a full scoop of chocolate, a full scoop of mint, and even an additional scoop of a surprise flavor etc etc. That way, your taste buds don't become desensitized to just one flavor. So...why would anybody...or why would you...limit yourself to..........................vanilla?
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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
I see... Well thank you for answering my question. Maybe I need to look a few signs down...😉
Oh yes.

You are missing out on Virgos. Give Gemini guys a break for now - even they need to catch up with themselves from time to time.


Thanks, I will take this into consideration.
I /urge/ you to.

Consider this: if you want to go out and get ice cream, you don't want to get one flavor. Ideally, you'd want to stack on top of a scoop of vanilla, a full scoop of chocolate, a full scoop of mint, and even an additional scoop of a surprise flavor etc etc. That way, your taste buds don't become desensitized to just one flavor. So...why would anybody...or why would you...limit yourself to..........................vanilla?

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Are you saying Gemini is Vanilla? Besides, depending on the flavor I do like just one or maybe compatible flavors but only 2.
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All of the above.... they can come off as so fucking arrogant ? But they really aren't.

Its.... different. They actually don't have that key defining ego like a Aries, Leo, or Virgo imo.
Yes, I think what I like about Gems I can see the good twin... And that's what I tend to judge them on. But, that can also bite me in the ass ? There's a Gem who acts all the above with me... I was just wondering if since we can't date this is his way of acting out? I dunno lol maybe he just enjoys playing with me ?
What's annoying about their arrogance is that they are actually usually right about everything (most of the time) and what they brag about is usually true.... I hate it.... lmao. Like, I know that you know who my now-fiancé was on DXP. The arrogance. I did NOT fucking like him on here, he just turned me off. Now look ... LOL.

They certainly have a way of getting to you, in both every bad and every good way.



Is this still about the guy you work with? Is he still seeing that girl from high school?

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Oh yeah... They are usually right ? Yes, I mean logically I've moved on but I'm just curious why he keeps trying to get my attention, giving me a certain look when walking by, messing with me... It's just my over analytical brain. I do like him, but I know we are better as just co-workers. Ugh, it's my heart vs logic. Anyway, just wanted a Gems perspective 😄
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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
I see... Well thank you for answering my question. Maybe I need to look a few signs down...😉
Oh yes.

You are missing out on Virgos. Give Gemini guys a break for now - even they need to catch up with themselves from time to time.


Thanks, I will take this into consideration.
I /urge/ you to.

Consider this: if you want to go out and get ice cream, you don't want to get one flavor. Ideally, you'd want to stack on top of a scoop of vanilla, a full scoop of chocolate, a full scoop of mint, and even an additional scoop of a surprise flavor etc etc. That way, your taste buds don't become desensitized to just one flavor. So...why would anybody...or why would you...limit yourself to..........................vanilla?


Are you saying Gemini is Vanilla? Besides, depending on the flavor I do like just one or maybe compatible flavors but only 2.
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Listen...I'm just saying try different flavors.

But if you want me to be serious, I'd say a lot of Gemini guys tend to be pretty mischievous. Whenever I think of Gemini, I think: fast communicator (FAST...I mean, they can go...they can really, really go), great networker, and mischievous.

That to me, is a stereotypical Gemini - someone who fascinates you with their colorful personality, rich imagination, and unique way of thinking, speaking, or telling a story.

After a while though, you realize that these people are quite restless and have difficulty settling down.

Sooooo, if you're interested in a Gemini who possesses the same traits I've mentioned above, don't be disappointed when he sits you down on a rainy day, looks you in the eye, and says... "I don't know how else to say this but, our relationship has gone pretty stale...and I kind of decided last night, we should call it quits"
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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
I see... Well thank you for answering my question. Maybe I need to look a few signs down...😉
Oh yes.

You are missing out on Virgos. Give Gemini guys a break for now - even they need to catch up with themselves from time to time.


Thanks, I will take this into consideration.
I /urge/ you to.

Consider this: if you want to go out and get ice cream, you don't want to get one flavor. Ideally, you'd want to stack on top of a scoop of vanilla, a full scoop of chocolate, a full scoop of mint, and even an additional scoop of a surprise flavor etc etc. That way, your taste buds don't become desensitized to just one flavor. So...why would anybody...or why would you...limit yourself to..........................vanilla?


Are you saying Gemini is Vanilla? Besides, depending on the flavor I do like just one or maybe compatible flavors but only 2.
Listen...I'm just saying try different flavors.

But if you want me to be serious, I'd say a lot of Gemini guys tend to be pretty mischievous. Whenever I think of Gemini, I think: fast communicator (FAST...I mean, they can go...they can really, really go), great networker, and mischievous.

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Yes, I got you.. I'm just joking around lol that's what I like about Gems though, I mean the witness and playfulness. I think I also like the bad boy side and their sweet side. Dang it! ?
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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
I see... Well thank you for answering my question. Maybe I need to look a few signs down...😉
Oh yes.

You are missing out on Virgos. Give Gemini guys a break for now - even they need to catch up with themselves from time to time.


Thanks, I will take this into consideration.
I /urge/ you to.

Consider this: if you want to go out and get ice cream, you don't want to get one flavor. Ideally, you'd want to stack on top of a scoop of vanilla, a full scoop of chocolate, a full scoop of mint, and even an additional scoop of a surprise flavor etc etc. That way, your taste buds don't become desensitized to just one flavor. So...why would anybody...or why would you...limit yourself to..........................vanilla?


Are you saying Gemini is Vanilla? Besides, depending on the flavor I do like just one or maybe compatible flavors but only 2.
Listen...I'm just saying try different flavors.

But if you want me to be serious, I'd say a lot of Gemini guys tend to be pretty mischievous. Whenever I think of Gemini, I think: fast communicator (FAST...I mean, they can go...they can really, really go), great networker, and mischievous.


Yes, I got you.. I'm just joking around lol that's what I like about Gems though, I mean the witness and playfulness. I think I also like the bad boy side and their sweet side. Dang it! ?
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Understandable - and many girls do like guys who come across as the "bad boy" mischievous type.





Breaks my heart.
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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
I see... Well thank you for answering my question. Maybe I need to look a few signs down...😉
Oh yes.

You are missing out on Virgos. Give Gemini guys a break for now - even they need to catch up with themselves from time to time.


Thanks, I will take this into consideration.
I /urge/ you to.

Consider this: if you want to go out and get ice cream, you don't want to get one flavor. Ideally, you'd want to stack on top of a scoop of vanilla, a full scoop of chocolate, a full scoop of mint, and even an additional scoop of a surprise flavor etc etc. That way, your taste buds don't become desensitized to just one flavor. So...why would anybody...or why would you...limit yourself to..........................vanilla?


Are you saying Gemini is Vanilla? Besides, depending on the flavor I do like just one or maybe compatible flavors but only 2.
Listen...I'm just saying try different flavors.

But if you want me to be serious, I'd say a lot of Gemini guys tend to be pretty mischievous. Whenever I think of Gemini, I think: fast communicator (FAST...I mean, they can go...they can really, really go), great networker, and mischievous.

That to me, is a stereotypical Gemini - someone who fascinates you with their colorful personality, rich imagination, and unique way of thinking, speaking, or telling a story.

After a while though, you realize that these people are quite restless and have difficulty settling down.

Sooooo, if you're interested in a Gemini who possesses the same traits I've mentioned above, don't be disappointed when he sits you down on a rainy day, looks you in the eye, and says... "I don't know how else to say this but, our relationship has gone pretty stale...and I kind of decided last night, we should call it quits"

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I've dated 2 Gem Guys and broke things off...boring, I am not ?
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How about I change the title to: Virgo Guys how do you act around someone you like

Well @Moonbutter, thanks for asking.

We charm the pants off of our love interests, pay for the expensive dinners, and hold the doors like true, considerate, gentlemen... and then we take them to our abodes and show off our place already scented and lit with candles before we...talk some more and gauge each others interests.
I see... Well thank you for answering my question. Maybe I need to look a few signs down...😉
Oh yes.

You are missing out on Virgos. Give Gemini guys a break for now - even they need to catch up with themselves from time to time.


Thanks, I will take this into consideration.
I /urge/ you to.

Consider this: if you want to go out and get ice cream, you don't want to get one flavor. Ideally, you'd want to stack on top of a scoop of vanilla, a full scoop of chocolate, a full scoop of mint, and even an additional scoop of a surprise flavor etc etc. That way, your taste buds don't become desensitized to just one flavor. So...why would anybody...or why would you...limit yourself to..........................vanilla?


Are you saying Gemini is Vanilla? Besides, depending on the flavor I do like just one or maybe compatible flavors but only 2.
Listen...I'm just saying try different flavors.

But if you want me to be serious, I'd say a lot of Gemini guys tend to be pretty mischievous. Whenever I think of Gemini, I think: fast communicator (FAST...I mean, they can go...they can really, really go), great networker, and mischievous.


Yes, I got you.. I'm just joking around lol that's what I like about Gems though, I mean the witness and playfulness. I think I also like the bad boy side and their sweet side. Dang it! ?
Understandable - and many girls do like guys who come across as the "bad boy" mischievous type.





Breaks my heart.
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I don't really like the bad boy type... Just saying I appreciate that side as well. What really gets me is the sensitive side.
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The first one. Mars and Venus in cancer. I don't know if mars and Venus in cancer is playful to someone they like. I think my Sun and rising might be the culprit for that one.
Hmmm I think the playfulness is you being a Gemini... Like, you joke around, act like a school boy with a crush? Do you try to "feed" offer food mention a girl needs to eat if you like her? That's a Cancer Venus thing I believe 🙂
I like to joke around with them but I try not to make it a crushing interest because actually I only have one potential crush interest and that's my sag lady who can't seem to get her hands off my darn hair right now while I'm trying to enjoy my music in peace and relaxation. Tho lately I haven't been playing around with women cuz I just weren't up to it.

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So what is the difference between you just joking around and actually being interested?
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All of the above.... they can come off as so fucking arrogant ? But they really aren't.

Its.... different. They actually don't have that key defining ego like a Aries, Leo, or Virgo imo.
Yes, I think what I like about Gems I can see the good twin... And that's what I tend to judge them on. But, that can also bite me in the ass ? There's a Gem who acts all the above with me... I was just wondering if since we can't date this is his way of acting out? I dunno lol maybe he just enjoys playing with me ?
What's annoying about their arrogance is that they are actually usually right about everything (most of the time) and what they brag about is usually true.... I hate it.... lmao. Like, I know that you know who my now-fiancé was on DXP. The arrogance. I did NOT fucking like him on here, he just turned me off. Now look ... LOL.

They certainly have a way of getting to you, in both every bad and every good way.



Is this still about the guy you work with? Is he still seeing that girl from high school?


Oh yeah... They are usually right ? Yes, I mean logically I've moved on but I'm just curious why he keeps trying to get my attention, giving me a certain look when walking by, messing with me... It's just my over analytical brain. I do like him, but I know we are better as just co-workers. Ugh, it's my heart vs logic. Anyway, just wanted a Gems perspective 😄
Do you mean he IS still seeing the other girl?

I thought that that Gemini man liked you. He was honest about wanting to pursue things with that other girl though. He probably does still like you. He probably wonders... "what if?" They love to tease and are just perpetual flirts in general.

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Girl, I dunno I think he's still seeing her... I see him at work like 50 times more then he sees her though lol it is sad. That is also why I'm kinda glad we never dated, he works waaaay too much.

Anywho, it's just intriguing to see where he is going with all this. I dunno if this is his Cancer Venus or Leo Mars but he doesn't text me... But if I text him he'll respond right away lol. I haven't though, I'm respecting whatever is going on. And he keeps teasing me I need to gain weight ?
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The first one. Mars and Venus in cancer. I don't know if mars and Venus in cancer is playful to someone they like. I think my Sun and rising might be the culprit for that one.
Hmmm I think the playfulness is you being a Gemini... Like, you joke around, act like a school boy with a crush? Do you try to "feed" offer food mention a girl needs to eat if you like her? That's a Cancer Venus thing I believe 🙂
I like to joke around with them but I try not to make it a crushing interest because actually I only have one potential crush interest and that's my sag lady who can't seem to get her hands off my darn hair right now while I'm trying to enjoy my music in peace and relaxation. Tho lately I haven't been playing around with women cuz I just weren't up to it.


So what is the difference between you just joking around and actually being interested?
When I joke around with them, I like to say things to make them laugh. You know, just to have a little fun with them and entertaining them to livin up the place a little. But thats only when we get to know each other confidentially. I try not to be my usual boring self with them. For interest, i usually let them show interest in me first but IF I do show interest, and thats a big if because I'm shy and not too self assertive. I just show them my cute charming dimples, twink my eyes at them all the while pumping my muscular chest up and down at them and whatever happens from there, happens. I just stay quiet the whole time while showing interest.

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Why do u say you are boring? Anyway, that's interesting... What is your Mars?
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The first one. Mars and Venus in cancer. I don't know if mars and Venus in cancer is playful to someone they like. I think my Sun and rising might be the culprit for that one.
Hmmm I think the playfulness is you being a Gemini... Like, you joke around, act like a school boy with a crush? Do you try to "feed" offer food mention a girl needs to eat if you like her? That's a Cancer Venus thing I believe 🙂
I like to joke around with them but I try not to make it a crushing interest because actually I only have one potential crush interest and that's my sag lady who can't seem to get her hands off my darn hair right now while I'm trying to enjoy my music in peace and relaxation. Tho lately I haven't been playing around with women cuz I just weren't up to it.


So what is the difference between you just joking around and actually being interested?
When I joke around with them, I like to say things to make them laugh. You know, just to have a little fun with them and entertaining them to livin up the place a little. But thats only when we get to know each other confidentially. I try not to be my usual boring self with them. For interest, i usually let them show interest in me first but IF I do show interest, and thats a big if because I'm shy and not too self assertive. I just show them my cute charming dimples, twink my eyes at them all the while pumping my muscular chest up and down at them and whatever happens from there, happens. I just stay quiet the whole time while showing interest.


Why do u say you are boring? Anyway, that's interesting... What is your Mars?
I'm a boring person because all I do is kick back and unwind. That's my way of having fun. There's really not much excitement with me. So if you were to pay a visit with me, just be prepare to visit a robot. Cuz that's what it'll be like at first encounter with me.

My mars is in cancer in the 9th house on the cusp of the 10th.

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Ok... That's right I thought you had a Cancer Mars. Hmm my ex was kinda like you in that way just liked to stay at home and relax or work on projects around the house... Only reason we stayed together so long was his genius wit and our fantastic chemistry.

Doesn't mean you are boring though...and wait, you dating A Sag? How is that working out? No wonder she's playing with your hair lol
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The first one. Mars and Venus in cancer. I don't know if mars and Venus in cancer is playful to someone they like. I think my Sun and rising might be the culprit for that one.
Hmmm I think the playfulness is you being a Gemini... Like, you joke around, act like a school boy with a crush? Do you try to "feed" offer food mention a girl needs to eat if you like her? That's a Cancer Venus thing I believe 🙂
I like to joke around with them but I try not to make it a crushing interest because actually I only have one potential crush interest and that's my sag lady who can't seem to get her hands off my darn hair right now while I'm trying to enjoy my music in peace and relaxation. Tho lately I haven't been playing around with women cuz I just weren't up to it.


So what is the difference between you just joking around and actually being interested?
When I joke around with them, I like to say things to make them laugh. You know, just to have a little fun with them and entertaining them to livin up the place a little. But thats only when we get to know each other confidentially. I try not to be my usual boring self with them. For interest, i usually let them show interest in me first but IF I do show interest, and thats a big if because I'm shy and not too self assertive. I just show them my cute charming dimples, twink my eyes at them all the while pumping my muscular chest up and down at them and whatever happens from there, happens. I just stay quiet the whole time while showing interest.


Why do u say you are boring? Anyway, that's interesting... What is your Mars?
I'm a boring person because all I do is kick back and unwind. That's my way of having fun. There's really not much excitement with me. So if you were to pay a visit with me, just be prepare to visit a robot. Cuz that's what it'll be like at first encounter with me.

My mars is in cancer in the 9th house on the cusp of the 10th.


Ok... That's right I thought you had a Cancer Mars. Hmm my ex was kinda like you in that way just liked to stay at home and relax or work on projects around the house... Only reason we stayed together so long was his genius wit and our fantastic chemistry.

Doesn't mean you are boring though...and wait, you dating A Sag? How is that working out? No wonder she's playing with your hair lol
Lol we're not dating. We're together. We've been together going on 4 years strong. How is it working Out? It's been a wild ride I must say. For a sag she sure is clingy towards me. Her moon in Pisces probably explains why the clinginess. And her rising might be cancer. I don't know.

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So you guys are married? Engaged? FWB? I'm lost lol
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All of the above.... they can come off as so fucking arrogant ? But they really aren't.

Its.... different. They actually don't have that key defining ego like a Aries, Leo, or Virgo imo.
Yes, I think what I like about Gems I can see the good twin... And that's what I tend to judge them on. But, that can also bite me in the ass ? There's a Gem who acts all the above with me... I was just wondering if since we can't date this is his way of acting out? I dunno lol maybe he just enjoys playing with me ?
What's annoying about their arrogance is that they are actually usually right about everything (most of the time) and what they brag about is usually true.... I hate it.... lmao. Like, I know that you know who my now-fiancé was on DXP. The arrogance. I did NOT fucking like him on here, he just turned me off. Now look ... LOL.

They certainly have a way of getting to you, in both every bad and every good way.



Is this still about the guy you work with? Is he still seeing that girl from high school?


Oh yeah... They are usually right ? Yes, I mean logically I've moved on but I'm just curious why he keeps trying to get my attention, giving me a certain look when walking by, messing with me... It's just my over analytical brain. I do like him, but I know we are better as just co-workers. Ugh, it's my heart vs logic. Anyway, just wanted a Gems perspective 😄
Do you mean he IS still seeing the other girl?

I thought that that Gemini man liked you. He was honest about wanting to pursue things with that other girl though. He probably does still like you. He probably wonders... "what if?" They love to tease and are just perpetual flirts in general.


Girl, I dunno I think he's still seeing her... I see him at work like 50 times more then he sees her though lol it is sad. That is also why I'm kinda glad we never dated, he works waaaay too much.

Anywho, it's just intriguing to see where he is going with all this. I dunno if this is his Cancer Venus or Leo Mars but he doesn't text me... But if I text him he'll respond right away lol. I haven't though, I'm respecting whatever is going on. And he keeps teasing me I need to gain weight ?
That's funny... I've heard from many websites that Gemini men like thin and athletic women... but my 2 gems, and this one you're talking about, likes a bit of meat on the bones. I think it's the cancer placements of theirs! One had cancer moon... current one has cancer Venus... and the gem you know has cancer Venus too?? There might be something there 😕

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Yes, I think U are right! My Gem ex has Gem Venus and loved my body soo I'm thinking it is the Cancer placements ha!
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I probably should marry her since now that I'm at my mature stage settled down and homebound. I mean what can I lose?
You should marry her because you love her and want her by your side until your dying breath... Is that what you want?
Yeah true. Right now it's just that I don't want to be the one to propose. I like for the woman to spring it on me and propose to me. So I'm just gonna wait it out. If that happens, it happens. If it don't, then it just don't. I know I said I'm settled and everything but the problem is I got other women waiting in line (most of them believe it or not are capricorns) in case this one don't work out which it will. I really don't want to be with anybody else. And we have a 3 year old child together and all. And now my ex seem like she wants to get back with me. She miss my cooking.

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Why don't you want to propose? What u mean you got other ladies are you just bragging? She probably has guys in line as well, so what? Doesn't sound like you in love with her... Ike you could care less either way ? Are you scared she may reject your proposal? Do u feel u would be just settling to marry her?
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I probably should marry her since now that I'm at my mature stage settled down and homebound. I mean what can I lose?
You should marry her because you love her and want her by your side until your dying breath... Is that what you want?
Yeah true. Right now it's just that I don't want to be the one to propose. I like for the woman to spring it on me and propose to me. So I'm just gonna wait it out. If that happens, it happens. If it don't, then it just don't. I know I said I'm settled and everything but the problem is I got other women waiting in line (most of them believe it or not are capricorns) in case this one don't work out which it will. I really don't want to be with anybody else. And we have a 3 year old child together and all. And now my ex seem like she wants to get back with me. She miss my cooking.


Why don't you want to propose? What u mean you got other ladies are you just bragging? She probably has guys in line as well, so what? Doesn't sound like you in love with her... Ike you could care less either way ? Are you scared she may reject your proposal? Do u feel u would be just settling to marry her?
Oh nooooo I'm definitely in love with her no doubt. No this is not meant to be bragging. It's actually true. I don't know if she has other guys waiting or not. She has guy friends tho. I never like to be the one to ask for anything first. My ex proposed to me. Good Lord, this world would probably catch on fire if I ever propose. Yes definitely I feel I would be just settling to marry her.

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Hmm I see... You are Gem with Cancer Venus and Mars?
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I probably should marry her since now that I'm at my mature stage settled down and homebound. I mean what can I lose?
You should marry her because you love her and want her by your side until your dying breath... Is that what you want?
Yeah true. Right now it's just that I don't want to be the one to propose. I like for the woman to spring it on me and propose to me. So I'm just gonna wait it out. If that happens, it happens. If it don't, then it just don't. I know I said I'm settled and everything but the problem is I got other women waiting in line (most of them believe it or not are capricorns) in case this one don't work out which it will. I really don't want to be with anybody else. And we have a 3 year old child together and all. And now my ex seem like she wants to get back with me. She miss my cooking.


Why don't you want to propose? What u mean you got other ladies are you just bragging? She probably has guys in line as well, so what? Doesn't sound like you in love with her... Ike you could care less either way ? Are you scared she may reject your proposal? Do u feel u would be just settling to marry her?
Oh nooooo I'm definitely in love with her no doubt. No this is not meant to be bragging. It's actually true. I don't know if she has other guys waiting or not. She has guy friends tho. I never like to be the one to ask for anything first. My ex proposed to me. Good Lord, this world would probably catch on fire if I ever propose. Yes definitely I feel I would be just settling to marry her.


Hmm I see... You are Gem with Cancer Venus and Mars?
Yep

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So that makes you more... Careful? Like not putting your heart on the line? I know Cancer Venus is very sensitive to getting hurt...