@Tymbathelion
9 Years
I am having trouble letting go of my gemini
How to Let Go of a Gemini You Still Love
Moving on from a Gemini involves accepting your feelings and focusing on self-care. Recognize that healing takes time and that you deserve love and respect. Reflect on your worth beyond the relationship and seek support from friends or professionals to process your emotions and rebuild your confidence.
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May I ask what you were sick with...?
Me too. It's kind of makes some difference
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.
If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
Sorry i didnt realize u were on both threads breathing issue related to heart
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
I didnt find out y till after , thats why i had depression docs couldn't figure it out
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
I didnt find out y till after , thats why i had depression docs couldn't figure it out
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You didn't find out what until later?
After reading your other post on the Leo board... it doesn't sound like an illness I couldn't handle. I can and have had handled many different ones, including seizures.
No offence to you but, she seems alil shallow. Like she was hoping to have the trophy boyfriend who is the all-star quarterback ...
On the other hand.... maybe she just got tired of all the depression. A person on the outside doesn't really understand what it's like to feel that way. So they are just confused and think you're taking advantage when you don't just "snap out of it".
I know it's easier said than done. I'm a sufferer myself.
Posted by blackphase
From what I gather due to your response on the other thread... You were unable to partake in sports anymore and it caused you to sink into depression? You went right from that to her being cruel when fighting.. which caused you tremendous damage then she moved out? So what actually happened during that time?
I had severe depression and crippling anxiety, everything she said would hurt me, i felt disgusting, I started sleeping on the couch, I barely went to work, we had little fights, she would lock herself in our bedroom and cry super loud, I didn't know how to console her and I was partially mad that she would never try and console me or even asked me if I was ok, so she moved out, but I was super devastated and she was sad and her mom didn't like her apartment so she moved back in, but nothing really changed rinse and repeat the second time she got an apartment in the same place as one of her work friends *who absolutely hated me* but she would call me a loser and be mad we nvr had sex,she would tell me how she's seeing someone else, then when I would say oh well should get mad and say she wasn't, she wanted me to chase her and I just couldn't do it, I could tell you a million stories one time we were talking and I asked her if she thought would do "things"with me again, she said no, 10 kept talking about me showing her I love her and I was sitting in the chair and she jumped up and said what do I have to do to take my clothes off and I said if you want, she grabbed her things and left and I said why are you upset and she said I'm not I'm just disappointed. Another time she asked if she could go to Canada to be with a friend whose dad*her dad died recently too* she asked if I would be mad if she went well we weren't technically together at the time and I felt that if I told her I would she would just get mad at me and I said no that would be fine later on she came back and told me remember that guy I told you you had nothing to worry about he's the one you always had to worry about, she would turn ice cold sometimes tell me she's talking to a guy from work 3 days later be nice again.
she would do do hysterical things as well she made fun of me and when I went to leave locked herself in my car, she got drunk one time and kept driving around town telling me to come find her at places we dated and then when I would get there she would drive away, or just be really mean to me and a few hours later at Super adorable and cute and then when I would try to bring it up "should be like I'm being cute don't ruin it" so I just had to take it. Theres so much more lol
but I have to be fair it was not all her, I did not take it all lying down, i would fight back and some
But when we were good in that moment it was *fire*
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
I didnt find out y till after , thats why i had depression docs couldn't figure it out
You didn't find out what until later?
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That it was caused by my heart, MRI scan scans all came up negative try to bunch of different asthma etc etc
Posted by misslissa
After reading your other post on the Leo board... it doesn't sound like an illness I couldn't handle. I can and have had handled many different ones, including seizures.No offence to you but, she seems alil shallow. Like she was hoping to have the trophy boyfriend who is the all-star quarterback ...
Yes, that is what I am not understanding.. after receiving devastating news like that about your health and how it effects your life and what makes you happy, Someone that loved you would be supportive and trying to make you feel better. OP makes it sound as though she was harsh with him (not sure exactly what the arguments were about.. there was a huge gap of information left out there) Says she did tremendous damage.. If things are as you say OP, I have no sweet clue why you are still hung up 2 years later.
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She didn't know that I was sick at the time I just kept basically failing at practices until I couldn't do them, it wasn't diagnosed until after we stopped talking
Posted by misslissa
After reading your other post on the Leo board... it doesn't sound like an illness I couldn't handle. I can and have had handled many different ones, including seizures.No offence to you but, she seems alil shallow. Like she was hoping to have the trophy boyfriend who is the all-star quarterback ...
I was that too lol
And she may be the most beautiful girl in the world to me but she is not to the majority if u get my meaning
I was above her league
Her mom even said so lol
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
I didnt find out y till after , thats why i had depression docs couldn't figure it out
You didn't find out what until later?
That it was caused by my heart, MRI scan scans all came up negative try to bunch of different asthma etc etc
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So when the actual drama of the end of her love started?
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
I didnt find out y till after , thats why i had depression docs couldn't figure it out
You didn't find out what until later?
That it was caused by my heart, MRI scan scans all came up negative try to bunch of different asthma etc etc
So when the actual drama of the end of her love started?
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i dont understand the question
Seems like she felt you have up on her.... and bluntly.... you did. A relationship is built on trust and give and take.... you stopped giving. So in turn... so did she.
Granted she could have handled that alil all better than she did but, when angry and have had enough... she reacted instead. I'm sure there were hints. Like asking you what it would take for her clothes to come off. Your cue to strip her and take her right there.
We need excitement, or we will create it. You should have sought out help for your depression and anxiety.
Posted by blackphase
From what I gather due to your response on the other thread... You were unable to partake in sports anymore and it caused you to sink into depression? You went right from that to her being cruel when fighting.. which caused you tremendous damage then she moved out? So what actually happened during that time?I had severe depression and crippling anxiety, everything she said would hurt me, i felt disgusting, I started sleeping on the couch, I barely went to work, we had little fights, she would lock herself in our bedroom and cry super loud, I didn't know how to console her and I was partially mad that she would never try and console me or even asked me if I was ok, so she moved out, but I was super devastated and she was sad and her mom didn't like her apartment so she moved back in, but nothing really changed rinse and repeat the second time she got an apartment in the same place as one of her work friends *who absolutely hated me* but she would call me a loser and be mad we nvr had sex,she would tell me how she's seeing someone else, then when I would say oh well should get mad and say she wasn't, she wanted me to chase her and I just couldn't do it, I could tell you a million stories one time we were talking and I asked her if she thought would do "things"with me again, she said no, 10 kept talking about me showing her I love her and I was sitting in the chair and she jumped up and said what do I have to do to take my clothes off and I said if you want, she grabbed her things and left and I said why are you upset and she said I'm not I'm just disappointed. Another time she asked if she could go to Canada to be with a friend whose dad*her dad died recently too* she asked if I would be mad if she went well we weren't technically together at the time and I felt that if I told her I would she would just get mad at me and I said no that would be fine later on she came back and told me remember that guy I told you you had nothing to worry about he's the one you always had to worry about, she would turn ice cold sometimes tell me she's talking to a guy from work 3 days later be nice again.
she would do do hysterical things as well she made fun of me and when I went to leave locked herself in my car, she got drunk one time and kept driving around town telling me to come find her at places we dated and then when I would get there she would drive away, or just be really mean to me and a few hours later at Super adorable and cute and then when I would try to bring it up "should be like I'm being cute don't ruin it" so I just had to take it. Theres so much more lol
but I have to be fair it was not all her, I did not take it all lying down, i would fight back and some
But when we were good in that moment it was *fire*
She sounds like a headache. But I get it. I clung to a shit relationship for way too long due to those moments of fire. I do understand. It's not easy.. 😢
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i also want to add that she would call and say things like can we do this can we do that will you take me to every continent
but i couldnt even take her to the movies was so not myself
there was a time when her name would light up my phone and my heart then it gave me instant anxiety attacks i had to change it to DO NOT ANSWER TYM because i couldn't trust myself i needed to remind myself
Posted by misslissa
Seems like she felt you have up on her.... and bluntly.... you did. A relationship is built on trust and give and take.... you stopped giving. So in turn... so did she.Granted she could have handled that alil all better than she did but, when angry and have had enough... she reacted instead. I'm sure there were hints. Like asking you what it would take for her clothes to come off. Your cue to strip her and take her right there.
We need excitement, or we will create it. You should have sought out help for your depression and anxiety.
i knew exactly what she meant
but not 5 minutes prior sitting in the same chair she told me she hadnt planned on having sex with me again
i refuse to play that "dont call me" *he better call me* game
but otherwise i completely agree thats what happened but in a way she made it so irreversible, she was always telling ppl what a pos i was she got all her friends to hate me then her mom but still kept at me, like why? you tell everyone what a loser i am why do u come here?
how could i have really fixed that ya know?
there was a lot of respect issues from the start that i believe played a role in this
also the dynamic of the relationship changed dramatically twice during our time together i wonder if that is part of my issue
Posted by blackphase
From what I gather due to your response on the other thread... You were unable to partake in sports anymore and it caused you to sink into depression? You went right from that to her being cruel when fighting.. which caused you tremendous damage then she moved out? So what actually happened during that time?I had severe depression and crippling anxiety, everything she said would hurt me, i felt disgusting, I started sleeping on the couch, I barely went to work, we had little fights, she would lock herself in our bedroom and cry super loud, I didn't know how to console her and I was partially mad that she would never try and console me or even asked me if I was ok, so she moved out, but I was super devastated and she was sad and her mom didn't like her apartment so she moved back in, but nothing really changed rinse and repeat the second time she got an apartment in the same place as one of her work friends *who absolutely hated me* but she would call me a loser and be mad we nvr had sex,she would tell me how she's seeing someone else, then when I would say oh well should get mad and say she wasn't, she wanted me to chase her and I just couldn't do it, I could tell you a million stories one time we were talking and I asked her if she thought would do "things"with me again, she said no, 10 kept talking about me showing her I love her and I was sitting in the chair and she jumped up and said what do I have to do to take my clothes off and I said if you want, she grabbed her things and left and I said why are you upset and she said I'm not I'm just disappointed. Another time she asked if she could go to Canada to be with a friend whose dad*her dad died recently too* she asked if I would be mad if she went well we weren't technically together at the time and I felt that if I told her I would she would just get mad at me and I said no that would be fine later on she came back and told me remember that guy I told you you had nothing to worry about he's the one you always had to worry about, she would turn ice cold sometimes tell me she's talking to a guy from work 3 days later be nice again.
she would do do hysterical things as well she made fun of me and when I went to leave locked herself in my car, she got drunk one time and kept driving around town telling me to come find her at places we dated and then when I would get there she would drive away, or just be really mean to me and a few hours later at Super adorable and cute and then when I would try to bring it up "should be like I'm being cute don't ruin it" so I just had to take it. Theres so much more lol
but I have to be fair it was not all her, I did not take it all lying down, i would fight back and some
But when we were good in that moment it was *fire*
She sounds like a headache. But I get it. I clung to a shit relationship for way too long due to those moments of fire. I do understand. It's not easy.. 😢
i also want to add that she would call and say things like can we do this can we do that will you take me to every continent
but i couldnt even take her to the movies was so not myself
there was a time when her name would light up my phone and my heart then it gave me instant anxiety attacks i had to change it to DO NOT ANSWER TYM because i couldn't trust myself i needed to remind myself
She asked you to take her to every continent? LOL
WOW!
Toxic crazy relationships like that seem to get the best of us. It's actually sort of disappointing to see how long the effects of that linger.. Guess I'm not in for an easy time ahead. Sorry that this still impacts you 😢
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so wait your going through this too? arent you a gemmi female?? i thought you guys can just turn off feelings lol
how much do youv guys think age has to do with it? she was 22-24 during i was 26-28
how much do youv guys think age has to do with it? she was 22-24 during i was 26-28
Posted by Tymbathelion
how much do youv guys think age has to do with it? she was 22-24 during i was 26-28
It doesn't. Age does not show maturity and vice versa.
Posted by littlenanobyte
It is a shitty situation all around, in which I think you both contributed to the relationship ending, but it has been two years since you've last spoke.It's not healthy to not get over someone after two years with no contact. I know everyone has their own grieving timelines, but got damn, that just seems like way too long for me.
With her being a Gemini, even if she has a water moon, I would assume that she too has moved on, probably long ago. 2 years dude.
Fortunately for you though, geminis aren't so fixed in nature so it's not totally out of the realm for her to consider rekindling if she sees that you are better and have changed your ways, if she is able to remember the good and happy times. I can't say that she herself will have changed by now, but who knows. I'm sure you're both different people now than you were two years ago.
If you really really still want her back, then I guess there's no reason not to reach out to her and see what happens.
ok so im crying now haha she kept calling and texting for about a month nothing for a month then a few calls, i did receive some oddly frantic private number calls*hit decline* called right back 3-4 times always wondered if it was her. and if i understand the algorithm on tinder i think she swiped me right *ppl who swipe u right usually are some of the first in the shuffle*
and while i cannot thank you enough for that little piece of hope i know shes with someone now and from what my friends showed me on her social media *just seeing her face hurt* she looks overly happy doing things with him that me and her did and should have done
and the same problem that plagued us before is present in that i dont feel im worthy of her :/
Posted by misslissa
Seems like she felt you have up on her.... and bluntly.... you did. A relationship is built on trust and give and take.... you stopped giving. So in turn... so did she.Granted she could have handled that alil all better than she did but, when angry and have had enough... she reacted instead. I'm sure there were hints. Like asking you what it would take for her clothes to come off. Your cue to strip her and take her right there.
We need excitement, or we will create it. You should have sought out help for your depression and anxiety.
i knew exactly what she meant
but not 5 minutes prior sitting in the same chair she told me she hadnt planned on having sex with me again
i refuse to play that "dont call me" *he better call me* game
but otherwise i completely agree thats what happened but in a way she made it so irreversible, she was always telling ppl what a pos i was she got all her friends to hate me then her mom but still kept at me, like why? you tell everyone what a loser i am why do u come here?
how could i have really fixed that ya know?
there was a lot of respect issues from the start that i believe played a role in this
also the dynamic of the relationship changed dramatically twice during our time together i wonder if that is part of my issue
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After 2 years.... Why doesn't matter anymore.
Move on. It's healthier than dwelling on the past.
This is advice from a gem sun cancer moon. I know all there is to know about holding on to the past and never letting it go.... you will be in misery and it will only be your fault.
Again, move on. It's not healthy.
i agree hence my title "im having trouble letting go of my gemini" lolol
you've been through this? it did not end in your favor i take it? 😢 im sorry
Posted by Tymbathelion
i agree hence my title "im having trouble letting go of my gemini" lololyou've been through this? it did not end in your favor i take it? 😢 im sorry
You have to occupy yourself with other activities you like. Stop focusing on her. She is no longer in your life and hasn't been for 2 years. Not to mention, with someone else!!
It's a natural trait of cancer placements. I have moon/merc/mars there. Plus it creates a stellum so it's a double whammy, so to speak. I had fought with this for most of my life. Now, I don't anymore. My favor? Yes, it did. I don't want a toxic relationship. And, that's something you need to realize, unless you do want a toxic relationship.
And, stop being sorry...
I lived.
I'm good.
I'm happily married to an aqua. 🙂
Posted by misslissa
After reading your other post on the Leo board... it doesn't sound like an illness I couldn't handle. I can and have had handled many different ones, including seizures.No offence to you but, she seems alil shallow. Like she was hoping to have the trophy boyfriend who is the all-star quarterback ...
I was that too lol
And she may be the most beautiful girl in the world to me but she is not to the majority if u get my meaning
I was above her league
Her mom even said so lol
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Personality and morals are more important to a Gemini than looks. Trust.
Ew no wonder she got rid of you.
Get over yourself.
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Posted by misslissa
After reading your other post on the Leo board... it doesn't sound like an illness I couldn't handle. I can and have had handled many different ones, including seizures.No offence to you but, she seems alil shallow. Like she was hoping to have the trophy boyfriend who is the all-star quarterback ...
I was that too lol
And she may be the most beautiful girl in the world to me but she is not to the majority if u get my meaning
I was above her league
Her mom even said so lol
Personality and morals are more important to a Gemini than looks. Trust.
Ew no wonder she got rid of you.
Get over yourself.
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that cant all be true? she told me if i hit 200# shed leave me, when she saw old pics of me she said why couldnt i have had this version and laughed, morales meant nothing to her as it was most of what we fought about and she didnt get rid of me, i stopped talking to her
and im pretty over myself but ill try harder
Posted by Tymbathelion
i agree hence my title "im having trouble letting go of my gemini" lololyou've been through this? it did not end in your favor i take it? 😢 im sorry
You have to occupy yourself with other activities you like. Stop focusing on her. She is no longer in your life and hasn't been for 2 years. Not to mention, with someone else!!
It's a natural trait of cancer placements. I have moon/merc/mars there. Plus it creates a stellum so it's a double whammy, so to speak. I had fought with this for most of my life. Now, I don't anymore. My favor? Yes, it did. I don't want a toxic relationship. And, that's something you need to realize, unless you do want a toxic relationship.
And, stop being sorry...
I lived.
I'm good.
I'm happily married to an aqua. 🙂
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i am trying i have been trying i go to therapy i go to the gym i play with my dog and go out with freinds
and now im on here, *ironically i tried joining this site 3 years ago while i was with her lol*
Posted by Tymbathelion
i agree hence my title "im having trouble letting go of my gemini" lololyou've been through this? it did not end in your favor i take it? 😢 im sorry
You have to occupy yourself with other activities you like. Stop focusing on her. She is no longer in your life and hasn't been for 2 years. Not to mention, with someone else!!
It's a natural trait of cancer placements. I have moon/merc/mars there. Plus it creates a stellum so it's a double whammy, so to speak. I had fought with this for most of my life. Now, I don't anymore. My favor? Yes, it did. I don't want a toxic relationship. And, that's something you need to realize, unless you do want a toxic relationship.
And, stop being sorry...
I lived.
I'm good.
I'm happily married to an aqua. 🙂
i am trying i have been trying i go to therapy i go to the gym i play with my dog and go out with freinds
and now im on here, *ironically i tried joining this site 3 years ago while i was with her lol*
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Therapy is good. 🙂
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
So what was it that had you lose love for your husband and start fucking the Scorpio on the side...?
Or did you never love your husband to begin with?
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
So what was it that had you lose love for your husband and start fucking the Scorpio on the side...?
Or did you never love your husband to begin with?
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I still love my husband otherwise I would leave him. It's just like a love and care and partnership.
Scorp makes my heart stop. It's passion and care. And many other things. 🙂
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
So what was it that had you lose love for your husband and start fucking the Scorpio on the side...?
Or did you never love your husband to begin with?
I still love my husband otherwise I would leave him. It's just like a love and care and partnership.
Scorp makes my heart stop. It's passion and care. And many other things. 🙂
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Have you told your husband about the passion you've found with the Scorpio?
Most would agree the foundation of partnership is mutual trust and transparency.
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
So what was it that had you lose love for your husband and start fucking the Scorpio on the side...?
Or did you never love your husband to begin with?
I still love my husband otherwise I would leave him. It's just like a love and care and partnership.
Scorp makes my heart stop. It's passion and care. And many other things. 🙂
Have you told your husband about the passion you've found with the Scorpio?
Most would agree the foundation of partnership is mutual trust and transparency.
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Yeah I told him 8 years ago when I first saw Scorp! Lol
Our partnership is me taking care of him and being a good friend.
BTW he just called me and for that he had to travel for about an hour. Just because he told me he will. So...shouldn't I love him?
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
So what was it that had you lose love for your husband and start fucking the Scorpio on the side...?
Or did you never love your husband to begin with?
I still love my husband otherwise I would leave him. It's just like a love and care and partnership.
Scorp makes my heart stop. It's passion and care. And many other things. 🙂
Have you told your husband about the passion you've found with the Scorpio?
Most would agree the foundation of partnership is mutual trust and transparency.
Yeah I told him 8 years ago when I first saw Scorp! Lol
Our partnership is me taking care of him and being a good friend.
BTW he just called me and for that he had to travel for about an hour. Just because he told me he will. So...shouldn't I love him?
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So what your saying is you have an open marriage?
Your husband knows you have a side peice in the Scorpio.
well thats not good lol!!!!
for reference im a leo so i cant be the side guy for 8 years lol
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
So what was it that had you lose love for your husband and start fucking the Scorpio on the side...?
Or did you never love your husband to begin with?
I still love my husband otherwise I would leave him. It's just like a love and care and partnership.
Scorp makes my heart stop. It's passion and care. And many other things. 🙂
Have you told your husband about the passion you've found with the Scorpio?
Most would agree the foundation of partnership is mutual trust and transparency.
Yeah I told him 8 years ago when I first saw Scorp! Lol
Our partnership is me taking care of him and being a good friend.
BTW he just called me and for that he had to travel for about an hour. Just because he told me he will. So...shouldn't I love him?
So what your saying is you have an open marriage?
Your husband knows you have a side peice in the Scorpio.
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I didn't ask him lol
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
So what was it that had you lose love for your husband and start fucking the Scorpio on the side...?
Or did you never love your husband to begin with?
I still love my husband otherwise I would leave him. It's just like a love and care and partnership.
Scorp makes my heart stop. It's passion and care. And many other things. 🙂
Have you told your husband about the passion you've found with the Scorpio?
Most would agree the foundation of partnership is mutual trust and transparency.
Yeah I told him 8 years ago when I first saw Scorp! Lol
Our partnership is me taking care of him and being a good friend.
BTW he just called me and for that he had to travel for about an hour. Just because he told me he will. So...shouldn't I love him?
So what your saying is you have an open marriage?
Your husband knows you have a side peice in the Scorpio.
I didn't ask him lol
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But does he know?!
...you still haven't given me a direct answer.
Posted by Solitude
It sounds like a case of fatal attraction
in which meaning of way? the opposites attract or the narcissism ?
and do you think my other signs could have something to do with this?
Posted by Gemitati
I am sorry but being Gemini I can tell if I am gone I am gone.If I love you no illness would matter.
That's why've am asking what it was because I can't think of any that would make me to stop loving a person.
So what was it that had you lose love for your husband and start fucking the Scorpio on the side...?
Or did you never love your husband to begin with?
I still love my husband otherwise I would leave him. It's just like a love and care and partnership.
Scorp makes my heart stop. It's passion and care. And many other things. 🙂
Have you told your husband about the passion you've found with the Scorpio?
Most would agree the foundation of partnership is mutual trust and transparency.
Yeah I told him 8 years ago when I first saw Scorp! Lol
Our partnership is me taking care of him and being a good friend.
BTW he just called me and for that he had to travel for about an hour. Just because he told me he will. So...shouldn't I love him?
So what your saying is you have an open marriage?
Your husband knows you have a side peice in the Scorpio.
I didn't ask him lol
But does he know?!
...you still haven't given me a direct answer.
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You acting like I must! Lol
Well he is suspecting but I am not volunteering information.
Did my thread get hijacked?
Posted by Tymbathelion
and do you think my other signs could have something to do with this?What does the rest of your chart look like?
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I used to know it, wheres a good place to have it re checked?
Posted by Tymbathelion
Did my thread get hijacked?What do ya mean?
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Theres two ppl arguing for two pages on this thread about unrelated stuff
Posted by Tymbathelion
and do you think my other signs could have something to do with this?What does the rest of your chart look like?
I used to know it, wheres a good place to have it re checked?
astro.com
What is your dob and time / location? I can find it for you if you like. Or PM me if you don't want to make that info public 🙂
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4:14 pm friday aug 15 1986 in troy michigan
Posted by Tymbathelion
and do you think my other signs could have something to do with this?What does the rest of your chart look like?
I used to know it, wheres a good place to have it re checked?
astro.com
What is your dob and time / location? I can find it for you if you like. Or PM me if you don't want to make that info public 🙂
4:14 pm friday aug 15 1986 in troy michigan
Oakland or Newaygo county? Assuming those are the Michigan ones..
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Oakland
Posted by Tymbathelion
and do you think my other signs could have something to do with this?What does the rest of your chart look like?
I used to know it, wheres a good place to have it re checked?
astro.com
What is your dob and time / location? I can find it for you if you like. Or PM me if you don't want to make that info public 🙂
4:14 pm friday aug 15 1986 in troy michigan
Oakland or Newaygo county? Assuming those are the Michigan ones..
Oakland
Leo Sun - 8th
Sag Moon - 1st
Leo Mercury - 8th
Libra Venus - 10th
Cap Mars - 1st
Pisces Jupiter - 3rd
Sag Saturn - 12th
Sag Uranus - 1st
Cap Neptune - 1st
Scorpio Pluto - 11th
Aspects would have an impact as well. I can't really pin point what has you so hung up here. Likely a combination of things. These type of relationships are never easy 😢
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Aspects?
That would be awesome! Ty so much!!
His Venus in Libra is in love with love... doesn't necessarily make him hung up on her, per say, but the thought of losing love may be alil devastating.
Posted by Tymbathelion
and do you think my other signs could have something to do with this?What does the rest of your chart look like?
I used to know it, wheres a good place to have it re checked?
astro.com
What is your dob and time / location? I can find it for you if you like. Or PM me if you don't want to make that info public 🙂
4:14 pm friday aug 15 1986 in troy michigan
Oakland or Newaygo county? Assuming those are the Michigan ones..
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They both are.... I'm from michigan too. 🙂
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Its been two years, we dated for two, the moment I opened my door and saw her for the first time my heart exploded. She was perfect in everyway, the right things in common and the right things that were opposite. But i was very very sick, i wanted her to be proud of me, and when an illness came and took away my sport, the depression and anxiety took me. In the fights her extreme cruelty came out, and it did tremendous damage. She moved out and back then out again and we never really stopped talking until towards the end. Where i grew more distant, responding to her severely delayed text with even more delayed text. As if we can see who lasts longer. I eventually stopped all contact I simply stopped picking up or answering. I didn't know what else to do I was madly in love with the person that made me feel unloved. Its been two years since her last call.
And while my charm and looks get me more attention then i can handle, i alway turn to her. Shes all i think about when im alone, and i feel so robbed that its all because i was sick.
I wish i mattered, i wish i was missed, or even thought about, i wish I didn't feel like this anymore
Please if you have any advice please share
Thank you