Gem has got me down.

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zjv
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15 YearsLibra

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Me = 10/10 Libra, Taurus rising, Gem moon.


It's been 4 years now. Started off as great friends for a few months. Quickly grew to a really close, passionate, serious relationship. Things progressed very enjoyably, really enjoying each other. Just got a new place. Past3 months feeling more like a best friend and roomie than I do a partner. Bleh. Tryin to play it chill and ride it out to see how it goes. Just bummed out. Thoughts? Word?
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misslissa
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17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

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i do this to my libra. it's not on purpose. i have the understanding that if i want the relationship to last, it's better to be best friends first. lovers last. best friends have an understanding, lovers break up at the drop of a dime. best friends can see more clearly than the rose colored glasses lovers tend to wear. i've been with my libra for 3 years and i wouldn't want to throw away all that time and love. don't worry, after 4 years together, i'm sure she still loves you. we don't stay that long if we don't. i would just ride it out and see where it goes.
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TwistedTwin
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15 YearsGemini

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Posted by misslissa
i do this to my libra. it's not on purpose. i have the understanding that if i want the relationship to last, it's better to be best friends first. lovers last. best friends have an understanding, lovers break up at the drop of a dime. best friends can see more clearly than the rose colored glasses lovers tend to wear.



Agree, agree, agree, 1000000% percent!
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zjv
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15 YearsLibra

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Thanks for the helpful words. Much appreciated. I've known and am great friends with lots and lots of Gems. Hell my two brothers are Gems. I was just never serious with one, so this aspect is new to me. I hope you two are right. I love her very much. Further I think it would be hard for me to be just friends after my passion has grown so much for her. I don't want it to be all or nothing, but if it came down to it... not sure how it would go.
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GeminiSoul
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15 Years

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I'm a Gemini and have my experience with a Libra man too. Yes, at times I like to chill and take things slow, but it doesn't mean that I don't love him. I have my time to spend on other things and then get back to him just like we always were. Just be around and act casual, don't try to control or impose anything. And yes, if a Gemini doesn't love you she won't stay with you for 4 years. She does have something special for you deep inside 🙂

Good Luck!