Gem men folding?

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PrincessOfLight
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I have been dating this Gemini man for years but things started getting more serious lately. We talked about having kids and buying a house together. He called me his soulmate, to me and his friends, the love of his life too and mentioned for years to his best friend of 16 years how he can't live without me. He's constantly scared of losing me.

He also mentioned to some female friends that he often fold to make me happy. Does things that he doesn't want to do to, just to make me a happy girlfriend. Sacrificing his own happiness.

Is this a thing Gemini men do for the women they love? I'm guessing a man can fold for so long until they end up unhappy and want to leave.
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Posted by acattychattyscorpio
If he likes it then he should put a ring on it.


This is true, but has nothing to do with her question. Smh.

To the OP, if I were you I??d log off of here, and find out exactly what it is he is so-called —sacrificing?? for you in order to make you happy, and if he was so UN-happy why he didn't feel comfortable enough to come to you, the woman he —cant live without?? and talk it out as a couple and work together so you both can be happy.
Explain to him, that your happiness is not complete in the relationship if he's not happy too. One un-happy person in a bond such as this, is doomed in the end. So if I were you I??d get a jump on it. Plus Gem??s bore easily, and I'm not sure your sign but your best bet might be to surprise him with a bottle of champagne, his favorite food, and rock his world in the car under the stars. LOL.

Honestly I'm shocked that a Gem held their tongue. I will say them holding their tongue in some areas is a sign of respect, and their way of being nice because believe me, they don't hold that sucker often. In other area??s it's down-right a bad sign for the long haul.
Knowing he is gem man though, I'm almost certain he wants to have his cake and eat it too but he knows you??re not having it. So he rather suffer in silence than lose you. However the reason this is bad, is because around this time is when the gem man will entertain thoughts of cheating. They start thinking —It's just this once??, that's why I say log off of here, and find out what has your man so upset that he feels he's —sacrificing?? his own happiness. That would scare the hell out of me.