Moonbutter
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Gemini action vs words...what is he feeling though?
Posted by MoonbutterForgot to mention..He is; Sun Gem, Moon Aqua, Venus Gem, Mars Scorpio, Merc Gem
Ok, so I had to meet up with my ex of almost 5 years to take care of an old car stuck at his place. I broke things off a year ago due to communication/stubbornss, etc..however we have been texting occasionally since(with some flirting). So I ended up doing something stupid(not illegal) that he insisted paying for $ 200 cash. Then he invited me back to his place to hang out. I obliged, as I still needed to pick up something from his place anyways. So when I got there he gave me quite the looong bear hug said he missed me and "you smell good" while breathing me in lol. Then he made us dinner(mentioned it's his goal for 2016 to get healthy) and we just hung out like old times. He was a bit playfully frisky with me but not beyond that. So anyways he walked me to my car the next day, another hug and said "I'm sure we'll see each other again." Which kinda surprised me because we would never run into each other. I text him hours later saying thanks again for helping and the cash, and I would send a check. He replied with "There's no need to be sorry. It was good to see you/hang out with you. If you send a check I won't cash it "
Thing is he knows I'm leaving town (moving) to go far away in like a week. His actions and words kinda confused me, lol. Gems, can you tell me what he was/is feeling? Do you think he is hoping we get back together in the future?
I am; Sun Cancer, Moon Sag, Venus Leo, Mars Gem, Merc Cancer
Posted by P-AngelReally, your life SUCKS that much you need to come on here and spew your negativity? I bet makes it you feel really good as you are so pathetic this is the highlight to your day. Please, you act all high and mighty like you are perfect with your hypocritical halo over your damn head...time to get a new pic of your self as you are looking like decomposed stew.Posted by Moonbutter
... he walked me to my car the next day
slutty is as slutty doesclick to expand
Posted by cuteboyHaha good point!
time for her to get a new age. she been 56 since my first arrival here 5 years ago.
Posted by capriaquagirlHI, thanks for taking the time to look into my situation 🙂 My ex and I just started being in a better place with each other in the last couple months, so if I were to stay then maybe I would try getting back together, but I'm moving at least for a year. I would love to have it work between us, but I feel we need this time to work on ourselves and really figure out what we want. I guess I'm kinda hoping he will still consider me in his future as I have for him :/
Moonbutter, I've been going through your posts & I really wish for you to get back together with your Gemini, since clearly you still have feelings for him.
Is it not possible for you to let him know? I think if you want a relationship with him, then you should take the risk & express your feelings to him directly. Otherwise you could just let it continue as a friendship, leaving everything to fate.
Posted by febyHard to pin down? Kinda..Through most of our break up he was MIA so communication was yes, I guess you could say that. Yeah, I'm moving like 900 miles away at least for a year. I was just wondering since he seemed sure we would see each other again, if he had the intention of keeping me in his life and maybe still sees a future with me down the road? The Scorpio placement makes him more possessive and grounded in his feelings, yet the Aqua Moon def lends that detachment factor. I was surprised he actually "showed" some type of emotion when we hugged, it was like he didn't want to let me go and all his feelings poured through at that moment. He definitely over analyzes a lot, which I think makes him hesitate and be stubborn. He is extremely loyal and faithful which I so admire and I am the same, so it really would be a shame to not end up together.
I just have a feeling he might be hard to pin down. Just based on what you've written and such. You're moving far away you said? Like permanently and how far? LDRs are hard imo
Posted by blackphaseHI blackphase, thank you for being literate and comprehending what I actually wrote! Yes, that is correct we did not hook-up. In fact, he's the only guy I have been intimate with since we began dating, even when we had "breaks" to re-evaluate and refresh. So, regardless if I had or not, no I am not a slut. What a sexist thing to say to your own gender, lol.Posted by P-AngelThere is nothing slutty about sleeping with your ex.. unless you're in a relationship.. And she even said that didn't happen.Posted by Moonbutter
... he walked me to my car the next day
slutty is as slutty does
You really need a life -_-click to expand
Posted by blackphaseYes, I too am tired of her nonsensical words just trying to crap all over everyone's posts.Posted by MoonbutterI agree. I don't think she even reads half of the words actually spoken. She just likes vomiting her absurd accusations all over the board. It's childish, her responses don't even make sense anymore. Too bad, she was sharp there for awhile. But now all ya see are false accusations that hold little to no relevance to the OP.Posted by blackphaseHI blackphase, thank you for being literate and comprehending what I actually wrote! Yes, that is correct we did not hook-up. In fact, he's the only guy I have been intimate with since we began dating, even when we had "breaks" to re-evaluate and refresh. So, regardless if I had or not, no I am not a slut. What a sexist thing to say to your own gender, lol.Posted by P-AngelThere is nothing slutty about sleeping with your ex.. unless you're in a relationship.. And she even said that didn't happen.Posted by Moonbutter
... he walked me to my car the next day
slutty is as slutty does
You really need a life -_-click to expand
Posted by blackphaseI appreciate your advice and insight, so thank you 🙂 I love all Gems, especially watered. I think maybe the Scorpio Mars has a lot to do with his "staying" power, so I believe that is similar. I really do want him to be happy, I just wanted that to be with me, but he needs to find that on his own :/
But to respond to your question.. it does seem like he is looking for an opening with you or at least putting the vibes out there that he is open to seeing you again. I am a bad Gem to give advice about other Gems as I am very watered down and handle most situations very differently than a typical Gem would. But he does seem to want to keep in contact with you and see you again.. Which is good news 🙂 ... Or maybe not, if you are moving.. that may only cause you difficulty.
Posted by capriaquagirlYes, even though we have been broken up a year, we have maintained contact. This time maybe he will feel an actual sense of loss with me so far away and hopefully conjure up some decisive feelings and actions from him...but who knows. I love his Aqua Moon, which I think complements my Sag Moon.. 😄Posted by MoonbutterA year is a long time, but the distance should help you both realise your true feelings for each other. I will say though, that his actions indicate that he still cares for you. It could be friendship or more than that, only he can tell for sure.Posted by capriaquagirlHI, thanks for taking the time to look into my situation 🙂 My ex and I just started being in a better place with each other in the last couple months, so if I were to stay then maybe I would try getting back together, but I'm moving at least for a year. I would love to have it work between us, but I feel we need this time to work on ourselves and really figure out what we want. I guess I'm kinda hoping he will still consider me in his future as I have for him :/
Moonbutter, I've been going through your posts & I really wish for you to get back together with your Gemini, since clearly you still have feelings for him.
Is it not possible for you to let him know? I think if you want a relationship with him, then you should take the risk & express your feelings to him directly. Otherwise you could just let it continue as a friendship, leaving everything to fate.
BTW, there is something different about Gems with Aqua moon. It makes them so much more interesting. 🙂click to expand
Posted by LittleStarYes, and I love it. I am his dirty little slut bitch. lol j/k Anyways, he is not one to hook-up. He has only had 2 LTR so he is not a man-whore, but with his natural skills you would think otherwise 😉 I have deep respect for any guy nowadays who can count on one hand his sexual partners by the ago of 30, just say'n.
Most Scorpio Mars just want slutty sex all the time.
True facts.
Posted by Moonbutter*Correction, apparently I can't say the word man wh*re..hahaPosted by LittleStarYes, and I love it. I am his dirty little slut bitch. lol j/k Anyways, he is not one to hook-up. He has only had 2 LTR so he is not a man-whore, but with his natural skills you would think otherwise 😉 I have deep respect for any guy nowadays who can count on one hand his sexual partners by the ago of 30, just say'n.
Most Scorpio Mars just want slutty sex all the time.
True facts.click to expand
Posted by LittleStarWTF is your problem? bitter much?
You should like him your like 20 threads about his sign. Then he will know how obsessed you are with him and then the ball will be in his court.
Posted by LittleStarPersonally, I think you are a vapid bitch who likes to tear others down to make your self feel good. You should take medication instead, or up your doses. I have enjoyed my time being single for once, and no I am not desperate...you must be speaking from personal experience. If anyone was taken "advantage" of it would be him since it cost him $ 200 to help me out when he had no obligation to, he made dinner and fussed over my comfort the whole time. Next time you need to comprehend what you are reading instead of writing whatever crap poops into your head, and yes poops.
Personally, I think he knows you can't be alone and he's taking advantage of it.
Posted by capriaquagirlThat's interesting...I was crushing hard on a Gem w/Sag Moon for awhile...so yes, I enjoy both moons 🙂 You think he doesn't know? I told him I missed him too during the hug and reciprocated with the flirting. I'mPosted by MoonbutterThere is a possibility of that happening, but I also wish that you would express your feelings for him gradually. At least, that's the way I go about in my relationships. I always know what I want from the other person & am able to express the same. Maybe my Venus conjunct Mars is responsible for that. I'm not sure.Posted by capriaquagirlYes, even though we have been broken up a year, we have maintained contact. This time maybe he will feel an actual sense of loss with me so far away and hopefully conjure up some decisive feelings and actions from him...but who knows. I love his Aqua Moon, which I think complements my Sag Moon.. 😄Posted by MoonbutterA year is a long time, but the distance should help you both realise your true feelings for each other. I will say though, that his actions indicate that he still cares for you. It could be friendship or more than that, only he can tell for sure.Posted by capriaquagirlHI, thanks for taking the time to look into my situation 🙂 My ex and I just started being in a better place with each other in the last couple months, so if I were to stay then maybe I would try getting back together, but I'm moving at least for a year. I would love to have it work between us, but I feel we need this time to work on ourselves and really figure out what we want. I guess I'm kinda hoping he will still consider me in his future as I have for him :/
Moonbutter, I've been going through your posts & I really wish for you to get back together with your Gemini, since clearly you still have feelings for him.
Is it not possible for you to let him know? I think if you want a relationship with him, then you should take the risk & express your feelings to him directly. Otherwise you could just let it continue as a friendship, leaving everything to fate.
BTW, there is something different about Gems with Aqua moon. It makes them so much more interesting. 🙂
I just wish he knew that you still care for him deeply. 🙂
Yes, Sag moons do go along well with Aqua moons. I'm a Sag moon myself & the guys who actively pursued me have either been Sag or Aqua moons. Also the guy I'm currently interested in is a Gem with Aqua moon.click to expand
Posted by blackphaseHmm I see what you mean about the "feelers" part..His life did seem to go to shit after I left, but he was already in a rut and refused my help. I think now that he is at the bottom he can start fresh and pick himself back up, because I was only hindering that process. I do believe this is what I had to do and I think he thinks that too. Maybe a part of him appreciates the fact I have given him time to be alone since he has never been single since High school. I think that is important for anyone to experience, especially him.Posted by MoonbutterPosted by blackphaseI appreciate your advice and insight, so thank you 🙂 I love all Gems, especially watered. I think maybe the Scorpio Mars has a lot to do with his "staying" power, so I believe that is similar. I really do want him to be happy, I just wanted that to be with me, but he needs to find that on his own :/
But to respond to your question.. it does seem like he is looking for an opening with you or at least putting the vibes out there that he is open to seeing you again. I am a bad Gem to give advice about other Gems as I am very watered down and handle most situations very differently than a typical Gem would. But he does seem to want to keep in contact with you and see you again.. Which is good news 🙂 ... Or maybe not, if you are moving.. that may only cause you difficulty.
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I completely understand what you mean. It's hard to let someone go.. although it is always nice to see them growing as a person. But sometimes it can be hurtful as well. You have to wonder if we stood in the way or stunted their growth or happiness (speaking personally about myself here, that may not apply to you) But the fact of the matter is that he is putting his feelers out there to see your reaction. He wants to know what you think about seeing him again. He is not saying that he is ready to dive back into it, but he is open to having you be a part of his life again, even if it is only a small part for the time being. I think you'll get a better glimpse of what he really is wanting just through conversation with him.click to expand
Posted by blackphasePosted by MoonbutterYou are right. I just went through the same sort of thing. We were just smothering each others fire. Killing one anothers growth. Sometimes you need to step away and asses yourself. Sometimes that is all that was needed and things can be mended after time, and sometimes you realize that you just were not cut out for one another and can simply move in aPosted by blackphaseHmm I see what you mean about the "feelers" part..His life did seem to go to shit after I left, but he was already in a rut and refused my help. I think now that he is at the bottom he can start fresh and pick himself back up, because I was only hindering that process. I do believe this is what I had to do and I think he thinks that too. Maybe a part of him appreciates the fact I have given him time to be alone since he has never been single since High school. I think that is important for anyone to experience, especially him.Posted by MoonbutterPosted by blackphaseI appreciate your advice and insight, so thank you 🙂 I love all Gems, especially watered. I think maybe the Scorpio Mars has a lot to do with his "staying" power, so I believe that is similar. I really do want him to be happy, I just wanted that to be with me, but he needs to find that on his own :/
But to respond to your question.. it does seem like he is looking for an opening with you or at least putting the vibes out there that he is open to seeing you again. I am a bad Gem to give advice about other Gems as I am very watered down and handle most situations very differently than a typical Gem would. But he does seem to want to keep in contact with you and see you again.. Which is good news 🙂 ... Or maybe not, if you are moving.. that may only cause you difficulty.
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I completely understand what you mean. It's hard to let someone go.. although it is always nice to see them growing as a person. But sometimes it can be hurtful as well. You have to wonder if we stood in the way or stunted their growth or happiness (speaking personally about myself here, that may not apply to you) But the fact of the matter is that he is putting his feelers out there to see your reaction. He wants to know what you think about seeing him again. He is not saying that he is ready to dive back into it, but he is open to having you be a part of his life again, even if it is only a small part for the time being. I think you'll get a better glimpse of what he really is wanting just through conversation with him.click to expand
Posted by capriaquagirlAww... That's really cute! You seem like a really affectionate person. 🙂
That's interesting...I was crushing hard on a Gem w/Sag Moon for awhile...so yes, I enjoy both moons 🙂 You think he doesn't know? I told him I missed him too during the hug and reciprocated with the flirting. I'm
Well, I wish you all the best & pray you guys get back together.
Thanks 🙂
Gem w Aqua Moon....I would say those are just words. I am sure he still cares about you and is obviously attracted to you, but I wouldn't take it as anything more than a short, enjoyable, but fleeting reunion.
I'm sorry 😢
The thing with Geminis is that it is easy for us to say what we feel at any given moment, and we mean it, it's just that we might not feel that same way the next day let alone for any extended period of time.
I'm sorry 😢
The thing with Geminis is that it is easy for us to say what we feel at any given moment, and we mean it, it's just that we might not feel that same way the next day let alone for any extended period of time.
Posted by LittleStarWell it's really none of your business anyway, but You are confused between two Gems.Posted by MoonbutterYou have been pining over this guy since you broke up. I don't call that "enjoying" being single.Posted by LittleStarPersonally, I think you are a vapid bitch who likes to tear others down to make your self feel good. You should take medication instead, or up your doses. I have enjoyed my time being single for once, and no I am not desperate...you must be speaking from personal experience. If anyone was taken "advantage" of it would be him since it cost him $ 200 to help me out when he had no obligation to, he made dinner and fussed over my comfort the whole time. Next time you need to comprehend what you are reading instead of writing whatever crap poops into your head, and yes poops.
Personally, I think he knows you can't be alone and he's taking advantage of it.
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Posted by LittleStarYou just find the negativity in every situation, don't you? I feel sorry for those in your life that you have to crap in their cheerios.
I know you dislike criticism and are looking for validation and a cute story. I'm not bitter, I just don't see how this is a good thing since you obviously are not a self aware person.
Posted by ashley1734I know what I felt, and that is probably one of the few times I ever saw/felt real deep emotion like that. It was wonderful, and a great way to say good-bye. Yes, I know you guys are fickle, but he never waivered like that with me so doesn't apply 🙂
Gem w Aqua Moon....I would say those are just words. I am sure he still cares about you and is obviously attracted to you, but I wouldn't take it as anything more than a short, enjoyable, but fleeting reunion.
I'm sorry 😢
The thing with Geminis is that it is easy for us to say what we feel at any given moment, and we mean it, it's just that we might not feel that same way the next day let alone for any extended period of time.
Posted by LittleStarWho says that's what he's thinking? He never left me...clearly if he's willing to sacrifice $ 200 for me when he is unemployed I mean more to him then just a romantasized flirt. I know my man, and our relationship and what he is going through right now even if I were to stay we would not get back together until he has his shit together. I would do that for him and myself as he needs to be in a better place before we can try again...or not, whatever I just know "we" are in a good place right now and things are as they are meant to be.Posted by ashley1734Plus once we know things won't work, we never really put our everything. We may flirt and romanticize getting back together, but we don't ever truly go back.
Gem w Aqua Moon....I would say those are just words. I am sure he still cares about you and is obviously attracted to you, but I wouldn't take it as anything more than a short, enjoyable, but fleeting reunion.
I'm sorry 😢
The thing with Geminis is that it is easy for us to say what we feel at any given moment, and we mean it, it's just that we might not feel that same way the next day let alone for any extended period of time.click to expand
Oh, I see, and read some of your history .... so, I'll recant my words, and say instead ....
desperate is as desperate does
Posted by P-AngelYou really are pathetic with no life, well in your case Old is as old does...desperate lol nooo honey, I just like to gather opinions from different sources and analyze everything. I am as done with him as he is with me, so if you think I'm not, then you know the answer.
Oh, I see, and read some of your history .... so, I'll recant my words, and say instead ....
desperate is as desperate does
Posted by moondustNope, his words just backed up his actions 😛Posted by ashley1734Unfortunately, this is true to an extent
Gem w Aqua Moon....I would say those are just words. I am sure he still cares about you and is obviously attracted to you, but I wouldn't take it as anything more than a short, enjoyable, but fleeting reunion.
I'm sorry 😢
The thing with Geminis is that it is easy for us to say what we feel at any given moment, and we mean it, it's just that we might not feel that same way the next day let alone for any extended period of time.click to expand
Posted by moondustThanks Moondust...I believe his ascendent is Libra, mine is Aries...so yeah, patience is a challenge for me but I am getting a lot better at it. Funny things is when we were together he kept asking mePosted by MoonbutterWith all due respect, his placements are pretty screwed up...just like mine lol, but I'm the opposite: Aqua Sun/Gem Moon. Do you know his ascendant?Posted by MoonbutterForgot to mention..He is; Sun Gem, Moon Aqua, Venus Gem, Mars Scorpio, Merc Gem
Ok, so I had to meet up with my ex of almost 5 years to take care of an old car stuck at his place. I broke things off a year ago due to communication/stubbornss, etc..however we have been texting occasionally since(with some flirting). So I ended up doing something stupid(not illegal) that he insisted paying for $ 200 cash. Then he invited me back to his place to hang out. I obliged, as I still needed to pick up something from his place anyways. So when I got there he gave me quite the looong bear hug said he missed me and "you smell good" while breathing me in lol. Then he made us dinner(mentioned it's his goal for 2016 to get healthy) and we just hung out like old times. He was a bit playfully frisky with me but not beyond that. So anyways he walked me to my car the next day, another hug and said "I'm sure we'll see each other again." Which kinda surprised me because we would never run into each other. I text him hours later saying thanks again for helping and the cash, and I would send a check. He replied with "There's no need to be sorry. It was good to see you/hang out with you. If you send a check I won't cash it "
Thing is he knows I'm leaving town (moving) to go far away in like a week. His actions and words kinda confused me, lol. Gems, can you tell me what he was/is feeling? Do you think he is hoping we get back together in the future?
I am; Sun Cancer, Moon Sag, Venus Leo, Mars Gem, Merc Cancer
I dated a Gemini for 6 years. The best advice I could give to anyone who's interested in a Gemini is: be patient and open. They hate pressure. After we broke up he went back and forth for months. Sometimes he'd call me and say he missed me, but when we talked again it was just casual. Like nothing happened before...one of those times he even apologized for what he said hours before and asked me to forget about it. After that he avoided me for months, until he came back again. It's almost a natural cycle lol. I didn't mind because I don't have feelings for him anymore (totally friendzoned him after I met the Scorpio) but it's not impossible to get him back as long as you're patientclick to expand
@moonbutter please read this thread again and again and again. I miss @littlemegabyte because she used to say people come to the Gem board to ask advice about Gems and then dismiss what the Gems tell you because you know this person better right?
Everyone whether they tell you in the nicest way possible or they are straight to the point about it or whether they negative they ALL told you the same thing. He was just being nice. Gems we give their LAST to someone they care about or to a homeless person just because at that time it felt right for them.
so I wouldn't read too much into this the whole money thing. literally if this guy had $ 20k he will blow it if it feels right. That's how they are. Most of them.
He still cares about you but technically he acted on his emotions at that time. him saying I know we will see each other sometime, he's not saying I'm going to see you now.
When my Gem ex moved countries I was saddened he looked at me and said don't be. with flights I am around the corner. I will come to you or I will pay your flight ticket for you to come through. If I based my emotions on his feelings at that time plus he gave me things worth $ 5k all digital and ish I will still moping after him.
gems base things on actions not what they say. And actions I mean the little things they do when you are not around them those count 10 times more because if you are around they genuinely just nice people so that don't count...
I hope the next year you do you without the Gem or pining after him or what not. Enjoy the journey of your own life and see the surprises it has in store for you. You are a beautiful lady and might miss love focused on what was once was.
Everyone whether they tell you in the nicest way possible or they are straight to the point about it or whether they negative they ALL told you the same thing. He was just being nice. Gems we give their LAST to someone they care about or to a homeless person just because at that time it felt right for them.
so I wouldn't read too much into this the whole money thing. literally if this guy had $ 20k he will blow it if it feels right. That's how they are. Most of them.
He still cares about you but technically he acted on his emotions at that time. him saying I know we will see each other sometime, he's not saying I'm going to see you now.
When my Gem ex moved countries I was saddened he looked at me and said don't be. with flights I am around the corner. I will come to you or I will pay your flight ticket for you to come through. If I based my emotions on his feelings at that time plus he gave me things worth $ 5k all digital and ish I will still moping after him.
gems base things on actions not what they say. And actions I mean the little things they do when you are not around them those count 10 times more because if you are around they genuinely just nice people so that don't count...
I hope the next year you do you without the Gem or pining after him or what not. Enjoy the journey of your own life and see the surprises it has in store for you. You are a beautiful lady and might miss love focused on what was once was.
Posted by MissGemmiNo, i haven't dated anyone else...I dunno what to say about him doing things for me right now as I don't see him, much but when we text he always says he's been thinking about me. I know right now he's not in a good place to date and I'm ok with that as I am moving on for the time being. Š We could never be friends as there is just way too much sexual chemistry lol
@SmartOnTheRocks
What you said is very true. It's the little things Gemini do when you are not around them, that count most! We are very scattered, so if we do things for you when you are not around us, that is when we want you to know that we are into you.
I worked on a paper of my interest without her knowing and just send it hours later. Or I would pick up at work without her knowing before we would meet some place else. I've stopped doing that, but I'm still nice and would still say I love you, because at that point I truly mean it. I know now that what we had will never be the same again. I'm over the inflicted hurt that's been caused, but there's no need for me to hate on this person.
If you've been dating others in the meantime and he hasn't, while he was available for you (I thought I read it somewhere) it might make him think you don't see him that way anymore and you've put him in the friend zone. We cannot make that switch. You're either a lover or a friend (I'm speaking as a Watery Gem). Geminis are really really generous. We can give you the shirt of our backs, even to a stranger on the street. He likes you a lot, of course, but if you want it to lead somewhere you really need to be more clear and say what you want. In that aspect, Gems and Cancers are very much alike. If not, Gems will proceed on being nice and charming, without any particular future goal for a relationship other than a friend or acquaintance, but you will be one out of many....
Posted by LittleStarWell I guess u didn't get the memo cuz I'm moving 900 miles away... You think he should give 100% to someone only to be inundated with a LDR? I don't hate the poor guy lol...anyway, it was a great to part know we still care for each other, but even if I wasn't moving I wouldn't be interested in reconciliation until he gets his life on track and then it's a maybe... But thank you for your advice, even if it doesn't apply ŠPosted by SmartOnTheRocksThis is very true. We are in the lives of those we care about. Every day. I would be clingy to the point of obnoxious if I wanted someone in my life. I make shit happen and will move mountains for them. Similarly when I was with my Aqua ex who moved back to his foreign country, I worked full time while a full time student just to buy a ticket to see him.
@moonbutter please read this thread again and again and again. I miss @littlemegabyte because she used to say people come to the Gem board to ask advice about Gems and then dismiss what the Gems tell you because you know this person better right?
Everyone whether they tell you in the nicest way possible or they are straight to the point about it or whether they negative they ALL told you the same thing. He was just being nice. Gems we give their LAST to someone they care about or to a homeless person just because at that time it felt right for them.
so I wouldn't read too much into this the whole money thing. literally if this guy had $ 20k he will blow it if it feels right. That's how they are. Most of them.
He still cares about you but technically he acted on his emotions at that time. him saying I know we will see each other sometime, he's not saying I'm going to see you now.
When my Gem ex moved countries I was saddened he looked at me and said don't be. with flights I am around the corner. I will come to you or I will pay your flight ticket for you to come through. If I based my emotions on his feelings at that time plus he gave me things worth $ 5k all digital and ish I will still moping after him.
gems base things on actions not what they say. And actions I mean the little things they do when you are not around them those count 10 times more because if you are around they genuinely just nice people so that don't count...
I hope the next year you do you without the Gem or pining after him or what not. Enjoy the journey of your own life and see the surprises it has in store for you. You are a beautiful lady and might miss love focused on what was once was.
If it's just half hearted texting and barely showing up, that's how I am when I'm being polite and/or bored.click to expand
I got that memo.. What you just said is contradictory to what you initially asked in the thread.
All I can say is DeNial isn't only a river in Egypt.
Really wish that this 900 miles brings us someone new to obsess about like I said you beautiful and sound like fun.
All I can say is DeNial isn't only a river in Egypt.
Really wish that this 900 miles brings us someone new to obsess about like I said you beautiful and sound like fun.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksThank you, I appreciate 🙂 I know his actions didn't seem like much, but then again why would they when I am moving away? I know what I felt, we had a real tender moment, and perhaps that was needed for both. I like to review and analyze what everyone says, but I gotta go with my gut on this one 😉 Anyways, I have moved on literally and interested in another Gem who is kinda the opposite from ex(in a good way) soo we'll see!
I got that memo.. What you just said is contradictory to what you initially asked in the thread.
All I can say is DeNial isn't only a river in Egypt.
Really wish that this 900 miles brings us someone new to obsess about like I said you beautiful and sound like fun.
Everything she has ever said in the Gemini forum about this guy has been a contradiction .... because that's how hypocrites roll.
Posted by P-AngelNot tha I need to answer to you, but yes, I will admit to being human and having mood swings, contradictions, insecurities, etc... Just like everyone else ‰ When I first posted I was emotional since the feelings were raw, but logic and sunshine has crept in and taken over so I'm happy with the way I left things and I'm looking forward to my future˜
Everything she has ever said in the Gemini forum about this guy has been a contradiction .... because that's how hypocrites roll.
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