Gemini Advice, Please

Hi all.

I have been spending a lot of time talking and texting with a Gemini guy. We have been out on a couple of dates. He has been effusive in his praise, and has even gone as far as to say that he is reeling from the feelings that he has towards me, trying to assemble them into some order.

We had a minor falling out (or I thought it was), and he blew a gasket. Told me that I was pushing too hard, and that he had lost interest. Please, believe me when I tell you that I was NOT chasing. I was responsive, and initiated contact (because he had said that he was tired of women not doing so), but only on occasion, when it made sense. I spent the night at his house once, because it was late and I lived over an hour away and had been drinking -- nothing happened. But he felt that we had moved too fast.

I have reached out to him a few times to try and talk, but he is completely ignoring me. Not responding to texts, not taking my calls, no reply to a VM.

Is he gone, or do you think he will come back? When a Gem says he's done, after being so over the Moon just days before, is he really done, thinking, or playing games?

Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated.

Love, LS67

Thanks so much, Mr. Domino. This fellow has a Gem in Venus and Mars, with a Cancer Moon.

While I do have my Scorpio tendencies, they manifest in my sexuality (more aggressive, less inhibited) and yes, I will seek revenge if you hurt a loved one of mine. Long ago I sought revenge on a former lover ... Let's just say that bit me square in the @ss, made me feel like garbage
and I have not "gone there" since in my personal relationships.

HE was the one who kept bringing up our synergy, his struggle to get his head around it... He wanted to get to know me intellectually (not surprising since Gems are some serious thinkers and students of all around them), but then pulled back when our chance to spend the day together actually was upon us. Maybe he met someone else? I never pushed for exclusivity, in fact I told him I was dating others.

He was all about the importance of communication -- so ignoring me and refusing to have a conversation was such a slap in the face. I simply can't understand how I could go from someone he couldn't stop thinking about to nothing in 2 days time.

Spending the night freaked him out, but we had been drinking, it was late, I live so far away and it was raining. I could sense his hesitation about me staying, but what about my safety?? There was some intimacy (I am on the Scorpio cusp, dammit!!), but nothing over the top, and I slept with my clothes on!!

Anyway ... I'm just so disappointed. I really liked him, but looking back on it all, he is either a very confused individual or a real jerk.

Thanks so much and I'd love to hear your thoughts ...

Love, LS67