Gemini ascendant/gemini sun/gemini mercury

Are there any other gemini ascendant/ gemini suns out there?

My general question is -- Who do you find you attract?



I feel like I attract nobody hahah. Im not horrible looking, not super hot either, but acceptable. I feel like my public behavior really turns off people that I would otherwise get along really well with in an everyday situation. People say that I am blunt and I have a hard time understanding when some things would be offensive to other people (cause in my head I think they are really funny jokes). It's so difficult for me to discern when something will be offensive so much that I almost think I may have Asperger's syndrome! People think I am a bitch, when I really just like to observe and note random thigns I see about people. I definitely don't actually judge people (the only things that really disgusts me about people is if they cheat in relationships), but I guess it sounds like I am judging to other people. All the long term friends I've had, I worked with or lived with where we were forced to be around each other for enough time that they realized I wasn't crazy and could actually be calm.

My other signs are more mellow. moon in virgo, venus in cancer, mars in pisces. So in the big picture, I say weird things, but in action, I am a pretty tame person.

My other question would be to ask if anyone has issues like me? Issues being 'word vomit' and not having a filter over my mouth.

I'm a Gemini sun and rising. What up! I'm not much of a chatterbox though. I'm more careful with my words (learned with age, perhaps). Not into hypocrisy, which is a trait that I find in people that talk A LOT. Cuz then it doesn't make sense and then they don't make sense. You feel me? Mercury is in none other than Cancer, of course. I'm calm and more steady than the stereotypically signified Gem. 😛 And for the record! Don't mean to toot my own horn or anything, but I have no problem attracting people...especially the opposite sex, but I'm picky.

I think there are people that like me but I feel like the Gemini rising kooky way I present myself attracts the kind of people that might entertain me when I am out for the night but not anyone I would want to date. Long term, I would love a stable steady guy who isn't that exciting, but those guys probably get scared off by how I act when I first meet people.

I know I should just learn to shut my mouth, but usually if I am out in a social setting, I might be drinking and want to entertain people and I cant shut up!

What kind of signs might be the mellow guys who would be entertained by this type of behavior?

I feel like Libras like me, but they usually look funny, are not funny, and just don't impress me... they have all gotten left in my friendzone haha. I don't mind Aquarius, but I don't think they would stick around and give the type of commitment I'd like, so I never bother to even try with them, though I would if it seemed like they wanted to keep hanging out with me.

I like Aries guys, they get along with me very well as friends after I've known them for a long time. In a romantic experience, I think when I encounter them I like them, but they are so good at meeting people that I get forgotten and they go after something else. The one guy I managed to get in a relationship with was super very aggressive in bed and about all of his opinions that it got hard for me to keep my self esteem up and the relationship withered into a disaster.

I find that I attract various men...I'm a chatterbox! I love conversation...I find conversation stimulating no matter who are what the topic is about..just keep talking!!! lol

Gemini (sun)
gem (mercury)