Do Gemini men and Gemini women make a good match?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by GeminiMind on Thursday, May 7, 2009 and has 25 replies.

Are Gemini Men and Women a Good Match?

Gemini men and women often share curiosity and communication skills, making them compatible partners. Their mutual understanding and adaptability can foster a lively relationship. However, their similar traits might also lead to challenges like boredom or indecisiveness. Compatibility depends on individual personalities beyond astrology but Gemini pairing can thrive with mutual engagement.

Profile picture of GeminiMind
@GeminiMind
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

I'm with ya EG. I love you anyway though. πŸ™‚ Haven't met a female me though. I think I'm a bit different.

My Chart

Sun Gemini 25.00
Moon Taurus 26.50
Rising Leo 19.28
Mars Gemini 13.11
Jupiter Cancer 8.50
Saturn Pisces 29.10
Uranus Virgo 15.44
Neptune Scorpio 19.55
Pluto Virgo 15.56
Mercury Cancer 15.50
Venus Taurus 18.25
Lilith Pisces 8.27
North node Taurus
South node Scorpio

Profile picture of misslissa
@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by emeraldgem
Me:

sun - gemini
rising - gemini
moon - cancer

I guess that cancer moon makes us a couplea big crybabies, huh misslissaβ€” And I thank the stars for putting me on the cusp of Taurus.....I think that evens things out a great deal.

hahahahaha, i guess so!

i like it tho, it's better than being the opposite. LOL! my leo rising does ground me a bit, also.

Profile picture of makeupfan16
@makeupfan16
17 Years

I haven't, but I'd love to. Just DATE, not commit to one forever I think. Coz another me is probably a bad idea, coz then we'll both compete for attention, and talk over each other, lol.

Profile picture of MariaGem
@MariaGem
17 Years

It is a really good match as long as there is sexual attraction. This is the only problem in this relationship.. that it is really easy to end up friends.

The funniest part when I was with my gem exes was that we were always getting hungry at the same time.. lol NO matter what we were doing and how much appart we were ... we were so much in tune with each other.

We ended up being friends. I got over both of them .. they didnt.

I guess the gem male must be more sensitive inside.

I kissed with my flatmate last august. It has been a year that we argued.. he still hasnt got over me. I am over him 10000% not to say even more!...

But gem males are quite good. The sexual match is the best. Better than what it is with a pisces..

Profile picture of deeZired
@deeZired
17 YearsGemini

One of the strangest relationships Ive been in..being with another gemini is hard. Because we or atleast I tend to analyze me partner..but if we are both doing it..whose being manipulated..n why isnt it working. Too many ideas and mind games and secrets for my taste.

Profile picture of london_libra
@london_libra
17 YearsLibra

my gem sister dated a gem guy and it was all sparks and fireworks and electricity at the beginning. then quickly fizzled, the guy became lazy, arrogant and self-involved and my sis dumped him.

but that's only one example. if you meet a gem girl you like enough then fuck the stars and go for it πŸ™‚

Profile picture of krysrenee7
@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Well, it's simple. They'll either be a GREAT match b/c of all the similarities in character OR they'll be a HORRIBLE match b/c of all the similarities in character.
The good thing about Geminis is that they tend to be attracted to the familiar & similar. Gem. needs a partner that will understand how they tick, & who better to understand than their twin? On the other hand, Gems need variety & don't necessarily want something that is a spitting image of themselves b/c it won't give them the fulfillment of being able to "awe" their partners or stick out as "different."

Profile picture of gembabe
@gembabe
17 Years

Hi Im new just ran across your mesg. My first boyfriend was a gemini like myself, we married and had a great life together,never a dull moment and complimented each other and made up for our differences.It wasn't perfect but it was great. Unfortantly he passed away 4 years ago. Two gems can work

Profile picture of P-Angel
@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Sympathies

Any two people can work, if they mean for it to. Glad you found love. One thing I told myself when someone I loved very much passed away several years ago, maybe it will help you .... instead of resenting the love lost, just think of how special your life was made by having this, if only for a moment .. like Em said, some people never have real love, so you are fortunate, indeed.

Welcome πŸ™‚

Profile picture of backtolife
@backtolife
17 YearsCapricorn

Throughout my life, the real deep understandings have been with Gemini men, but me being me, I've always pushed away this mutual, fiery connection in favour of slightly more superficial affairs. Maybe it's scared me.

But last week I met my Gemini friend after a few months of distance - he studies far away- and I realised I had serious feelings for him. Same craziness, same creativity.. same outlook on life. But not so similiar that I'm going to get bored of him. He's very outgoing, I'm much more introverted.. due to experiences over the past years rather than it being an inherent personality trait.
He used to like me a lot but I always pushed him away, and eventually he found a girlfriend (scorpio).. Yet everytime we meet he stresses that it isn't 'serious' (we talk about relationships a lot), more like something to pass the time.

I understand how this guy can wreck other girls heads, but I completely get him. I just wish I hadn't been so distant & cold, but something else tells me that can easily be amended.

Profile picture of G.L
@G.L
16 Years

i think sometimes we make a good couple.. depending on how much the 2 "or should i say 4 of us" get along..

Sun.Gemini
Moon Libra
Rising.Cancer
Mars.Capricorn
Neptune.Capricorn
Uranus.Sag
Saturn.Sag
Jupiter.Pisces
Venus.Leo
Pluto.Scorpio
N Node . Aries
Lilith Gemini
Chiron Gemini
Midheaven point. Pisces..
what kind of gemini would i sound like to my fellow other gemini's

Profile picture of BaBy-GrL414
@BaBy-GrL414
20 Years1,000+ Posts

"It is a really good match as long as there is sexual attraction. This is the only problem in this relationship.. that it is really easy to end up friends."

I have had just one experience and it wasn't bad, just this was missing and for most gem's i know.. that's a doozie!!! Me and him are still great friends today. He is more a brother than anything else. We were SO intune, that it almost creeped me out. He was head over heels. He was trying to move and everything. Scared the hell outta me. lol Once i calmed him down and made him realize i really would end up hurting him, he accepted it and life becase great with him.

I can't imagine it.. i just really can't. Way too similar when those similarities i don't think are good to have in 2 people. I need someone to counter and balance me.

E-GEM!!! Heyyyyyy chica! Ya i share ya'lls Cancer moon. I hate it. lmao always confuses me. How can one LOVE to be gone and LOVE to be homeβ€” It really drives me crazy. WHen i'm gone i want home, when i'm home i wanna be gone. LMAO

Profile picture of backtolife
@backtolife
17 YearsCapricorn

The most intense, passionate, AMAZING.. yet completely doomed affairs of my life have been with gemini men. Always happens. We're just drawn to each other and there's usually so much chemistry, but it goes downhill from there. That's the problem with going out with someone exactly like you (which i usually find with gems.. they like similarity. searching for that twin?). especially as you know how unbalanced geminis can be. It's always the guy I don't notice first, I'm usually checking out the beaautiful cancers & virgos but the gemini men always find me, and then become beautiful in their own unique way.

A guy I had a massive thing for a few years ago was a Gem. Extreeeeme. We had a communication breakdown though, on account of us both being socially inept. I still think about him though. Matched me in every way.

Most of my friends who I have some vague attraction to are.. Geminis.

My recent lover, a Gemini, who alas dumped me for a more consistent, predictable broad and I had the most insane connection ever. It went around in a whirlwind, we'd break up and then get back together about four times a week.. I used to be so detached. But then one day I changed, realised I loved him.. (serious emotions I had been blocking out for a year or so)
and then HE changed his mind..
and completely fucked me over.
it hurt, terribly.. but I think thats what you get!

Profile picture of backtolife
@backtolife
17 YearsCapricorn

Hehe, I didn't know I replied to this before. Seems my thoughts on the bastards that are Geminis (me included) have changed slightly, with being heartbroken and all 8-)

Profile picture of backtolife
@backtolife
17 YearsCapricorn

Wow, I posted on this about 4 years ago. Had a four year hiatus from crazy Gemini men but about a year & a half ago I met another one who was well & truly the exact same as me. It completely freaked both of us out. Never got past a month but we stayed in touch, despite his fuckeries. Now he's come bouncing back with apologies/wishes to start it again. I might let him, I missed his bouncy fun loving ways. Virgo and Scorpios I dated in the past year couldnt cut it despite the physical attraction.

Him. Gemini sun, Sagittarius moon , Mercury gemini, venus cancer, mars in taurus

And 5 years younger than me . πŸ˜›

Me: Gemini sun/moon/venus, mars in cancer, mercury in taurus. Cancer rising.