Damnata
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Gemini chicks.
Posted by geminicandIe
All geminis give that ditzy vibe, no matter how book smart we may be. That's because we talk, we laugh, we giggle, we act, we perform, we imitate, we crack jokes, we are social butterflies, natural performers, we have sex appeal, that youthful innocence and child like wonder, etc...we attract attention!
Tell her to embrace her charm and not to go for jerks who only see her bangable body. If he is not willing to take her serious, then don't give him time of the day. It should be fairly easy to eliminate those idiots who see her for sex only. I love to surprise guys like that with some smart comment and see their jaw drop, ha!
See this is something I admire..nothing breaks her spirit, she bounces back.
At the same time, knowing what I know now I can see her going in her mind "another one..another one..another one". At some point she will become jaded.
Sun Gemini
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Virgo
Asc node Pisces
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Virgo
Asc node Pisces
I think they just want their minds to roam free and to be understood from an intellectual point of view. That maybe they are not just glam dolls but women of substance.
Am I right ladies? :p
Am I right ladies? :p
Interesting. I wonder what her rising sign is?
I have virgo rising, gives me a bookish look. I have guys be all like 'you look like you must be smart' and then turn the conversation to how they love the whole 'sexy librarian' thing. WTF! LOL!!
My advice. She needs to be more choosy in the guys she mixes with.
Also i think that one-on-one conversation is a real strength of gemini people. She should guide the conversation to her areas of interest. Draw them in with her conversations about her academic passions.
I have virgo rising, gives me a bookish look. I have guys be all like 'you look like you must be smart' and then turn the conversation to how they love the whole 'sexy librarian' thing. WTF! LOL!!
My advice. She needs to be more choosy in the guys she mixes with.
Also i think that one-on-one conversation is a real strength of gemini people. She should guide the conversation to her areas of interest. Draw them in with her conversations about her academic passions.
^^ sorry for the hide above. I wrote it weirdly.
Just noted that your friend's chart really similar to mine. (I have the same chart you listed except the moon)
Just noted that your friend's chart really similar to mine. (I have the same chart you listed except the moon)
"..she has that marilyn monroe vibe". I don't know your friend but Marilyn was a pathetic chubby sl*t
and according to other sl*ts she was a strong woman.
and according to other sl*ts she was a strong woman.
yea..have similar experiences myself too..only those who see past beyond the surface shall get to know the real me and earn lots of respects..and to have exquisite experiences no other can offer..from me..
for the op's friend..just ignore those who can't see past the surface lol..she needs not to waste her precious time and energy on that type of men.. I return the same/what others give me..guys who may view me as an object, he'll be seen by me the same..I would never take them seriously lol..just play along for a while and I'm gone..guess that's why that (sort of negative reputation) of a gem comes in -she's too flighty and superficial, etc.- ..really?? it's more like about those who just can't understand deeper sides of us..🙂 I be your conversational partner and we can joke and have fun..but there is just a very few, special ones who really are allowed to be in.. she needs to learn to separate those..who mean something to her..and those who could never mean anything to her..🙂 then she'll be fine.. and she'll meet those special ones once she does so..🙂
for the op's friend..just ignore those who can't see past the surface lol..she needs not to waste her precious time and energy on that type of men.. I return the same/what others give me..guys who may view me as an object, he'll be seen by me the same..I would never take them seriously lol..just play along for a while and I'm gone..guess that's why that (sort of negative reputation) of a gem comes in -she's too flighty and superficial, etc.- ..really?? it's more like about those who just can't understand deeper sides of us..🙂 I be your conversational partner and we can joke and have fun..but there is just a very few, special ones who really are allowed to be in.. she needs to learn to separate those..who mean something to her..and those who could never mean anything to her..🙂 then she'll be fine.. and she'll meet those special ones once she does so..🙂
Posted by EtienneLantier
"..she has that marilyn monroe vibe". I don't know your friend but Marilyn was a pathetic chubby sl*t
and according to other sl*ts she was a strong woman.
chubby? she fit the standard for women in that age. Surely you must know the ideas on fat versus skinny on female beauty have always changed through the years/centuries.
Posted by Sunshinedaze
Interesting. I wonder what her rising sign is?
I have virgo rising, gives me a bookish look. I have guys be all like 'you look like you must be smart' and then turn the conversation to how they love the whole 'sexy librarian' thing. WTF! LOL!!
My advice. She needs to be more choosy in the guys she mixes with.
Also i think that one-on-one conversation is a real strength of gemini people. She should guide the conversation to her areas of interest. Draw them in with her conversations about her academic passions.
Her rising is Leo or Virgo, her father doesn't remeber the hour well.
Thank you folks for your answer thus far 🙂
With her, she has a lot of interests and she loves talking about them. So she meets a guy and she gets so interested in a different personality..she never even sees him as a crush or a bf...only as a friend. Then the communication deepens and she feels he fell for her based on her personality, since they talk a lot. But with a lot of the guys I think they just get along with the conversation in order to bang her.
I can see why this would get her confused.
With her, she has a lot of interests and she loves talking about them. So she meets a guy and she gets so interested in a different personality..she never even sees him as a crush or a bf...only as a friend. Then the communication deepens and she feels he fell for her based on her personality, since they talk a lot. But with a lot of the guys I think they just get along with the conversation in order to bang her.
I can see why this would get her confused.
Posted by Damnata
Thank you folks for your answer thus far 🙂
With her, she has a lot of interests and she loves talking about them. So she meets a guy and she gets so interested in a different personality..she never even sees him as a crush or a bf...only as a friend. Then the communication deepens and she feels he fell for her based on her personality, since they talk a lot. But with a lot of the guys I think they just get along with the conversation in order to bang her.
I can see why this would get her confused.
I don't know..it's pretty easy for me to tell if a guy talks along to get something..or is genuinely interested in me for who I am.. well, can't really exclude sexual attraction from the beginning because be realistic..because what we see first when we meet someone is the outer appearance..
lol hit the post message button accidentally..ok I'll continue here in the new post..
unless one is blind lol..maybe your friend needs to live more..I used to be quite naive when I was younger..lack of experiences I guess..🙂 but as I become older..more contacts with men in general..now I'm pretty savvy when it comes to those interactions.. she needs to discern..having a good conversation, whilst it is fun, can make us believe into some false intimacy with a partner in the conversation.. needs to discern that false intimacy from the real one..which can be built over time..and along with actions of a guy, not just sharing funny interesting talks on different subjects..
and if she detects that whoever the guy she's talking to has been talking along with her in order to sleep with her only, then she just needs to ditch the guy..does not need to waste her pity, precious emotions on those men..
also another possible way..is just to ask guys damn straight.. it's been quite a good way for me..lots of times men are surprisingly honest..without being really them wanting to.. ask them straight what they want..and most of the time they tell the truth..other few times they try to lie..but then it becomes very palpable..haven't seen guys who really lie so well as in not to reveal his true intentions.. best to ask in person, one on one, fact to face..ask out of no where when they're not prepared and 9 out of 10 they give their honest answers..the rest 1 of 10, there are other hints..bodily language, the tone, eyes.. have never got things wrong with this method..
but I know that not every women want or can do this..:s but just giving me two cents..a direct approach can benefit one a lot sometimes..??
unless one is blind lol..maybe your friend needs to live more..I used to be quite naive when I was younger..lack of experiences I guess..🙂 but as I become older..more contacts with men in general..now I'm pretty savvy when it comes to those interactions.. she needs to discern..having a good conversation, whilst it is fun, can make us believe into some false intimacy with a partner in the conversation.. needs to discern that false intimacy from the real one..which can be built over time..and along with actions of a guy, not just sharing funny interesting talks on different subjects..
and if she detects that whoever the guy she's talking to has been talking along with her in order to sleep with her only, then she just needs to ditch the guy..does not need to waste her pity, precious emotions on those men..
also another possible way..is just to ask guys damn straight.. it's been quite a good way for me..lots of times men are surprisingly honest..without being really them wanting to.. ask them straight what they want..and most of the time they tell the truth..other few times they try to lie..but then it becomes very palpable..haven't seen guys who really lie so well as in not to reveal his true intentions.. best to ask in person, one on one, fact to face..ask out of no where when they're not prepared and 9 out of 10 they give their honest answers..the rest 1 of 10, there are other hints..bodily language, the tone, eyes.. have never got things wrong with this method..
but I know that not every women want or can do this..:s but just giving me two cents..a direct approach can benefit one a lot sometimes..??
I have this problem too. Constantly. Gemini's are normally glam girls, we are. Its a double edged sword. Being a visual masterpiece has it's price.
It just is. Im not sure why either myself. I also have Libra rising/moon. Taurus venus/mars. I dont have a problem with men per se I just attract like questionable types. Like people who arent good for me or compatible. Yes there is a ton of them that come around, but what we are talking about here Carlos is the DECENT ones. Not the amount. Its quality over quantity. We get the quantity believe me. But most of it is crap.
Posted by thebiggcarlos12345678910Posted by Xin
It just is. Im not sure why either myself. I also have Libra rising/moon. Taurus venus/mars. I dont have a problem with men per se I just attract like questionable types. Like people who arent good for me or compatible. Yes there is a ton of them that come around, but what we are talking about here Carlos is the DECENT ones. Not the amount. Its quality over quantity. We get the quantity believe me. But most of it is crap.
wow i bet you are one drop dead gorgeous gemini too 🙂click to expand
Carlos 😄
This is the second time ive heard that on the board because of my placements. I dont want to stomp around here like a Leo and be like omg everyone look at me, but I'm definitely a typical Gemini babe 🙂
Posted by geminicandIe
All geminis give that ditzy vibe, no matter how book smart we may be. That's because we talk, we laugh, we giggle, we act, we perform, we imitate, we crack jokes, we are social butterflies, natural performers, we have sex appeal, that youthful innocence and child like wonder, etc...we attract attention!
While I agree with the second sentence in your paragraph, I don't agree with the first stating all gemini's give that ditzy vibe.....NOT TRUE.
I love to make people laugh and chat with anyone. But I also love to discuss serious topics and prefer mental stimulation over someone who just wants to act like a goofball. I get bored with that very quickly. HOWEVER, I NEVER come across ditzy, period. I wouldn't even know how to act that way nor would
I want to. I want people to get the real dose of me; not a phony.
When I'm at the gym and in the women's locker room, I listen to some of the conversations by the teen agers around me. Most of their verbiage and demeanor is what I refer to as "Ditzy"......they have no clue as to the real world surroundings. It's all about them being in their world of social media.
When I ask them a simple question say about politics or current affairs, I mean something so SIMPLE anyone with half a brain could get the right answer;
they look at me as if I'm making them do a calculus problem.
As a guy, I admit that can be hard for me to look at a Gemini girl and not get swept away in passion for them. But, with a Gemini girl, her mind is as beautiful as her body, and often it is what makes her body so beautiful, for the freedom and cerebral nature of her thoughts light up her face and eyes with that beautifully youthful, cheery and animated expression that is Gemini. I think what your friend needs a guy who is manly and sensitive enough to both keep her warm and give her praise for how smart she is.
Posted by Tornadoday16
As a guy, I admit that can be hard for me to look at a Gemini girl and not get swept away in passion for them. But, with a Gemini girl, her mind is as beautiful as her body, and often it is what makes her body so beautiful, for the freedom and cerebral nature of her thoughts light up her face and eyes with that beautifully youthful, cheery and animated expression that is Gemini. I think what your friend needs a guy who is manly and sensitive enough to both keep her warm and give her praise for how smart she is.
This is beautifully written. Just one thing though its not praise for how smart we are that we gemini women seek. Its actual discussion. Its recognition of our thoughts and opinions but not just that acknowledgement its valuing them as well. We don't really care if you agree or disagree but we want our thoughts to be taken seriously.
@sunshine
Thanks Sunshine I have really been crushing on y'all for the past few months now. But you right, Gemini is not necessarily a big ego sign and does not always want praise. What they want is to explore different ideas and concepts so it does not turn them on for someone to blindly agree with them. I think Gemini's like their opinions to be challenged as long as it is done logically.
Thanks Sunshine I have really been crushing on y'all for the past few months now. But you right, Gemini is not necessarily a big ego sign and does not always want praise. What they want is to explore different ideas and concepts so it does not turn them on for someone to blindly agree with them. I think Gemini's like their opinions to be challenged as long as it is done logically.
@xin
I remember you saying that you were in a long term relationship with a Pisces. Didn't you have some feelings for him?
I remember you saying that you were in a long term relationship with a Pisces. Didn't you have some feelings for him?
Posted by Tornadoday16
@sunshine
Thanks Sunshine I have really been crushing on y'all for the past few months now. But you right, Gemini is not necessarily a big ego sign and does not always want praise. What they want is to explore different ideas and concepts so it does not turn them on for someone to blindly agree with them. I think Gemini's like their opinions to be challenged as long as it is done logically.
YEAH!!
@sunshine
What do you think about Pisces guys with Gemini girls?
What do you think about Pisces guys with Gemini girls?
Posted by Tornadoday16
@sunshine
What do you think about Pisces guys with Gemini girls?
I like pisces guys. I have one friend in particular. He is a lot of fun, we can talk about all sorts of weird stuff, dance, play music together just generally have fun.
Always feel that i am a little too in awe of pisces though. (this goes for the women as well) I feel like i never truly connect with them. Kind of feel like a kid trying to play with her older sister's friends. Hahaha.
The thing about Pisces guys is that our girls have to keep their eyes out for other girls who are trying to seduce us because we love girls so much and can fall for them really fast. Unfortunately our love is kind of cheep but thankfully it is deep. Girls who date Pisces guys should not hesitate to call us out when we look at other girls because it reminds us that you love us and we don't want to hurt you. The worst thing a girl can do is let her Pisces guy have too much space because then he probably will grab fall for some other chicks hook and be unfaithful with her. Point is, don't be afraid to get jealous, even those of us who are manly men like psychotically possessive girlfriends.
Im sorry to hear that. It sounds like you were so hurt that you didnt want to get possessive because you didnt want him to get the satisfaction of knowing that you liked him. Do you mind telling what happened?
Posted by Tornadoday16
@sunshine
Thanks Sunshine I have really been crushing on y'all for the past few months now. But you right, Gemini is not necessarily a big ego sign and does not always want praise. What they want is to explore different ideas and concepts so it does not turn them on for someone to blindly agree with them. I think Gemini's like their opinions to be challenged as long as it is done logically.
This is SO VERY true..
@xxixxi
Yes, Gemini's see more than one side of an argument. But I think that their short falling can be if they rely to much on logic to make their decisions because, seeing the logic in multiple paths, they will oh be able to find direction by relying on an emotional sense of what is right for them.
Yes, Gemini's see more than one side of an argument. But I think that their short falling can be if they rely to much on logic to make their decisions because, seeing the logic in multiple paths, they will oh be able to find direction by relying on an emotional sense of what is right for them.
Not all Gem females are deemed ditzy. We're sexy and charming yes, but it doesn't always equate to being ditzy in order to be those things.
I'm a gemini female and I relate to this so
much.
much.
Posted by Tornadoday16
@xin
I remember you saying that you were in a long term relationship with a Pisces. Didn't you have some feelings for him?
No. Ive never been in a long term with a Pisces. Don't make it that far with them ever due to their addiction issues amongst other things. I get annoyed with your sign a lot. Dreamers. As much as I value your idealist type nature it's just not where Gemini's live. We live in the mind, the realist, and if you don't appeal to this we won't have much to talk about. And if we don't have much to talk about you can be sure I'm not going to be attracted to you.
What I was talking about was a Pisces that I work with. Hes too immature, naive, not experienced enough with females to deal with me.
About Pisces/Gemini matches: I did meet a Pisces once and I really liked him. The problem was he was super super charming so much he had a bevy of females orbiting him and that wasn't my style . Just like Tornado said they like women and you have to remind them. I don't feel it's our job to remind you that hey it's us or no one. The positives that I liked about him was that he was so romantic, charming, ladies man. But...he lived a little too deep in that world. When reality came around (me of course) I challenged his ideals and he ran off. Im like ok why this, why that, but if you do x, why do you get this outcome? And WTF with all these women if you like me so much? ...... (silence) exactly.
It's a curse ^^
For me it is. It's like putting on a show where you're the writer, director, and actor at the same time. Then this stupid man comes along and he ends up being one of the extra characters who gets killed off in the beginning.
The thing about this crazy trait is that Gemini's like to have a good time and are very good at first impressions, but you have to check out your ASC and moon signs and other important parts of your birth chart if you want a bit of control over your destiny and fate. It's like a cheat sheet for life from the gods ^^
As for your friend, She's young and inexperienced even if she may have been through a string of heavy or light relationships. There are reasons why one must suffer in the night before the day of liberation comes. ^^
Just a food for thought! I think all Gemini's are gifted with this free - will and intellectual capacity to do whatever it is they've always want to do. They're achievers and most gemini's I know of are very smart and extremely good at having a fun time. I'm studying communications and am a Gemini sun and almost all of my classmates are air signs! Most of them are gemini's but the other fun signs are there as well I think that you're friend had this Alpha Male Vibe which attracts the lower males to her since most men crave power they would want to be with a strong woman.
But since their weak men don't expect them to do anything drastic. Weak men go for strong will women, weak women just take what they can get, and strong willed women won't settle for less.
See? Tell your friend she needs to be comfortable in her own skin. Tell her to be realistic. Think things through. And always be strong.
Gemini's can be trickster at heart but that is just the first layer. 🙂
For me it is. It's like putting on a show where you're the writer, director, and actor at the same time. Then this stupid man comes along and he ends up being one of the extra characters who gets killed off in the beginning.
The thing about this crazy trait is that Gemini's like to have a good time and are very good at first impressions, but you have to check out your ASC and moon signs and other important parts of your birth chart if you want a bit of control over your destiny and fate. It's like a cheat sheet for life from the gods ^^
As for your friend, She's young and inexperienced even if she may have been through a string of heavy or light relationships. There are reasons why one must suffer in the night before the day of liberation comes. ^^
Just a food for thought! I think all Gemini's are gifted with this free - will and intellectual capacity to do whatever it is they've always want to do. They're achievers and most gemini's I know of are very smart and extremely good at having a fun time. I'm studying communications and am a Gemini sun and almost all of my classmates are air signs! Most of them are gemini's but the other fun signs are there as well I think that you're friend had this Alpha Male Vibe which attracts the lower males to her since most men crave power they would want to be with a strong woman.
But since their weak men don't expect them to do anything drastic. Weak men go for strong will women, weak women just take what they can get, and strong willed women won't settle for less.
See? Tell your friend she needs to be comfortable in her own skin. Tell her to be realistic. Think things through. And always be strong.
Gemini's can be trickster at heart but that is just the first layer. 🙂
Posted by Damnata
I have one Gem gf..she has that marilyn monroe vibe. Incredibly sexy but she's exactly like marilyn monroe...sexy as hell but struggles with people considering her smart, even though she is. It's like they cannot get past the sexy aura to connect with her deeply. I had no idea how much grief this made her feel until one night.
We were both at a party..she was working the crowd all happy and something like a butterfly. Then she vanished.
I went on the balcony, she was smoking a cig facing away from me. I turn her around and I see tears flowing out of her eyes.
I ask "Honey what's up?"
"I just can't get anywhere with men"
"What do you mean? All the guys here want to bang you lol"
"Yes I can see that. It's just..they never look beyond that. I see couples on the street laughing together, sharing opinions..and whenever I do that I always have the feeling the guy is going like - yeah honey *pats on the head*..can we get to sex already? I want to have a family one day and I have no idea how to switch from this vibe"
Granted, we are both young so we have the time for this. It just amazed me because I believed women like her, knowing their value, knowing they can attract men like crazy...would never run into an issue like this.
It got me thinking.
What say you Gem chicks..do you agree/disagree? Any advice?
I do relate at times. It's really sad. Some people can't look past what a person chooses to show. Some people don't want to.
Posted by SunshinedazePosted by Tornadoday16
As a guy, I admit that can be hard for me to look at a Gemini girl and not get swept away in passion for them. But, with a Gemini girl, her mind is as beautiful as her body, and often it is what makes her body so beautiful, for the freedom and cerebral nature of her thoughts light up her face and eyes with that beautifully youthful, cheery and animated expression that is Gemini. I think what your friend needs a guy who is manly and sensitive enough to both keep her warm and give her praise for how smart she is.
This is beautifully written. Just one thing though its not praise for how smart we are that we gemini women seek. Its actual discussion. Its recognition of our thoughts and opinions but not just that acknowledgement its valuing them as well. We don't really care if you agree or disagree but we want our thoughts to be taken seriously.click to expand
Exactly. We value our thoughts and minds the most. I usually don't care about what is said about me, i do however get hurt when people approach with insults regarding my way of thinking. "You're too gullible" "You don't understand anything" "What you think is wrong." "Gemini?Mental Stimulation? hah!"
Exactly. We value our thoughts and minds the most. Geminisces
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THIS. Having an intellect and capacity to think for yourself while yearning for my information/details is raw Gemini at its best. When I'm around people
who don't stimulate my mind, I get bored and lose interest immediately. When someone can peak my interest by intelligently discussing a number of
legit topics and keep the conversation going, I'm hooked. Add some subtle sarcasm or irony, and I'm loving it.
I have strong opinions. They have been developed over time through research, reading, and my life experiences. The people who I'm most close to value my strong stance and willingness to defend my beliefs etc. My biggest annoyance are people who are spineless, don't have a formed opinion on real issues, and are apathetic. When I meet these type of individuals who are basically one big walking, talking vacuum, it makes me want to puke.
Looks are great, but if the person behind the looks is an air bubble, no thanks. I'm lucky. I married a man who can think for himself, has strong convictions, and isn't afraid to stand up for himself. He's already good looking imho. Adding the brainpower makes him sizzle.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
THIS. Having an intellect and capacity to think for yourself while yearning for my information/details is raw Gemini at its best. When I'm around people
who don't stimulate my mind, I get bored and lose interest immediately. When someone can peak my interest by intelligently discussing a number of
legit topics and keep the conversation going, I'm hooked. Add some subtle sarcasm or irony, and I'm loving it.
I have strong opinions. They have been developed over time through research, reading, and my life experiences. The people who I'm most close to value my strong stance and willingness to defend my beliefs etc. My biggest annoyance are people who are spineless, don't have a formed opinion on real issues, and are apathetic. When I meet these type of individuals who are basically one big walking, talking vacuum, it makes me want to puke.
Looks are great, but if the person behind the looks is an air bubble, no thanks. I'm lucky. I married a man who can think for himself, has strong convictions, and isn't afraid to stand up for himself. He's already good looking imho. Adding the brainpower makes him sizzle.
Posted by gemini64
Exactly. We value our thoughts and minds the most. Geminisces
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
THIS. Having an intellect and capacity to think for yourself while yearning for my information/details is raw Gemini at its best. When I'm around people
who don't stimulate my mind, I get bored and lose interest immediately. When someone can peak my interest by intelligently discussing a number of
legit topics and keep the conversation going, I'm hooked. Add some subtle sarcasm or irony, and I'm loving it.
I have strong opinions. They have been developed over time through research, reading, and my life experiences. The people who I'm most close to value my strong stance and willingness to defend my beliefs etc. My biggest annoyance are people who are spineless, don't have a formed opinion on real issues, and are apathetic. When I meet these type of individuals who are basically one big walking, talking vacuum, it makes me want to puke.
Looks are great, but if the person behind the looks is an air bubble, no thanks. I'm lucky. I married a man who can think for himself, has strong convictions, and isn't afraid to stand up for himself. He's already good looking imho. Adding the brainpower makes him sizzle.
You said it! Glad to hear you're happy!
This is absolutely something I can related to. I have a few thing I use as "douche detectors" that weeds out the judgmental men from the ones who are sincere about getting to know you.
They are beautiful But they enjoy using their brain Hahaha!!!
then you don't need a handsome man just a smart guy ?
then you don't need a handsome man just a smart guy ?
Posted by kashieka
It's a curse ^^
For me it is. It's like putting on a show where you're the writer, director, and actor at the same time. Then this stupid man comes along and he ends up being one of the extra characters who gets killed off in the beginning.
The thing about this crazy trait is that Gemini's like to have a good time and are very good at first impressions, but you have to check out your ASC and moon signs and other important parts of your birth chart if you want a bit of control over your destiny and fate. It's like a cheat sheet for life from the gods ^^
As for your friend, She's young and inexperienced even if she may have been through a string of heavy or light relationships. There are reasons why one must suffer in the night before the day of liberation comes. ^^
Just a food for thought! I think all Gemini's are gifted with this free - will and intellectual capacity to do whatever it is they've always want to do. They're achievers and most gemini's I know of are very smart and extremely good at having a fun time. I'm studying communications and am a Gemini sun and almost all of my classmates are air signs! Most of them are gemini's but the other fun signs are there as well I think that you're friend had this Alpha Male Vibe which attracts the lower males to her since most men crave power they would want to be with a strong woman.
But since their weak men don't expect them to do anything drastic. Weak men go for strong will women, weak women just take what they can get, and strong willed women won't settle for less.
See? Tell your friend she needs to be comfortable in her own skin. Tell her to be realistic. Think things through. And always be strong.
Gemini's can be trickster at heart but that is just the first layer. 🙂
i love this!!!
Well, this sounds crazy, but I think Gemini's are the loners of the zodiac.
I mean, there's always a subtle sadness inside, even in the brightest moment of their lives.
I have two brilliant Gemini ladies as friends (yes, I'm lucky) and both of them are actually pretty tired of been the showgirl.
One of them is a complete emotional mess, masked by a beautiful yet vacant permanent smile and sarcastic comments.
The other one is real powder, but tell her someone's gotta go out of her life, after she really get to know her or him, and she collapses.
They both recover in a sec... and they are never alone, but, Who knows them, really?
I need to read between lines to know what's really going on inside.
It's like "I won't show you who I'm, what I'm feeling or what I REALLY think about things right from the start. You'll have to earn that.
When I think it's save to show you my world, I'll do it in my way under my conditions, and never, ever, ever try to force me to expose
my true self, cause I'll send you right to hell"
And I always respond something like "You can't let your fears take over your live, you know?
We all are vulnerable, but you won't take the price if you don't play risky sometimes. Don't hide.
Follow your intuition. And please, remember you're flawless the way you are, for God's sake!" =)
I mean, there's always a subtle sadness inside, even in the brightest moment of their lives.
I have two brilliant Gemini ladies as friends (yes, I'm lucky) and both of them are actually pretty tired of been the showgirl.
One of them is a complete emotional mess, masked by a beautiful yet vacant permanent smile and sarcastic comments.
The other one is real powder, but tell her someone's gotta go out of her life, after she really get to know her or him, and she collapses.
They both recover in a sec... and they are never alone, but, Who knows them, really?
I need to read between lines to know what's really going on inside.
It's like "I won't show you who I'm, what I'm feeling or what I REALLY think about things right from the start. You'll have to earn that.
When I think it's save to show you my world, I'll do it in my way under my conditions, and never, ever, ever try to force me to expose
my true self, cause I'll send you right to hell"
And I always respond something like "You can't let your fears take over your live, you know?
We all are vulnerable, but you won't take the price if you don't play risky sometimes. Don't hide.
Follow your intuition. And please, remember you're flawless the way you are, for God's sake!" =)
Posted by DeltaCephei
Well, this sounds crazy, but I think Gemini's are the loners of the zodiac.
I mean, there's always a subtle sadness inside, even in the brightest moment of their lives.
I have two brilliant Gemini ladies as friends (yes, I'm lucky) and both of them are actually pretty tired of been the showgirl.
One of them is a complete emotional mess, masked by a beautiful yet vacant permanent smile and sarcastic comments.
The other one is real powder, but tell her someone's gotta go out of her life, after she really get to know her or him, and she collapses.
They both recover in a sec... and they are never alone, but, Who knows them, really?
I need to read between lines to know what's really going on inside.
It's like "I won't show you who I'm, what I'm feeling or what I REALLY think about things right from the start. You'll have to earn that.
When I think it's save to show you my world, I'll do it in my way under my conditions, and never, ever, ever try to force me to expose
my true self, cause I'll send you right to hell"
And I always respond something like "You can't let your fears take over your live, you know?
We all are vulnerable, but you won't take the price if you don't play risky sometimes. Don't hide.
Follow your intuition. And please, remember you're flawless the way you are, for God's sake!" =)
That's a very insightful comment coming from another sign even if you are a fellow air sign.
We are after all the pariahs according to many...... especially here.
Posted by Damnata
I have one Gem gf..she has that marilyn monroe vibe. Incredibly sexy but she's exactly like marilyn monroe...sexy as hell but struggles with people considering her smart, even though she is. It's like they cannot get past the sexy aura to connect with her deeply. I had no idea how much grief this made her feel until one night.
We were both at a party..she was working the crowd all happy and something like a butterfly. Then she vanished.
I went on the balcony, she was smoking a cig facing away from me. I turn her around and I see tears flowing out of her eyes.
I ask "Honey what's up?"
"I just can't get anywhere with men"
"What do you mean? All the guys here want to bang you lol"
"Yes I can see that. It's just..they never look beyond that. I see couples on the street laughing together, sharing opinions..and whenever I do that I always have the feeling the guy is going like - yeah honey *pats on the head*..can we get to sex already? I want to have a family one day and I have no idea how to switch from this vibe"
Granted, we are both young so we have the time for this. It just amazed me because I believed women like her, knowing their value, knowing they can attract men like crazy...would never run into an issue like this.
It got me thinking.
What say you Gem chicks..do you agree/disagree? Any advice?
She get a lots of attention :O
I've had a lot of people admit to being surprised by my intelligence. All men. I'm guarded at first (so I don't say a lot to new people), but easy on the eyes. I guess "quiet" + "pretty" = "dumb", somehow.
Pisses me off.
Pisses me off.
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