Gemini Girls luck with Cancer Men

So, everywhere I've read it says that Gemini and Cancer are a bad match; unless it's a Gemini girl and Cancer guy and that the girl needs to be ready to commit and have slightly submissive tendencies.... I'm totally in love with a cute señor crab; but he's so slow. Everytime I about quit he dies something cute to reel me in again... I need some Gemini and Cancer advice as to whether this love match works or if it is always destined for disaster?!? (Stupid autocorrect - I meant "he does something cute to reel me in)

Any advice?

I'm with a second decan cancer man and I am a first decan Gemini. It is magic. The love is all-encompassing and the sex is amazing! I have found my soul mate.

hey bitchez

Posted by GemiGirl78
So, everywhere I've read it says that Gemini and Cancer are a bad match; unless it's a Gemini girl and Cancer guy and that the girl needs to be ready to commit and have slightly submissive tendencies.... I'm totally in love with a cute señor crab; but he's so slow. Everytime I about quit he dies something cute to reel me in again... I need some Gemini and Cancer advice as to whether this love match works or if it is always destined for disaster?!? (Stupid autocorrect - I meant "he does something cute to reel me in)

It was all peachy in the beginning but in the end my Cancer guy turned out to be too immature, insecure and manipulative. I think it should be the other way around, it would need to be a mature CANCER in order for this to work.

I'm not even remotely submissive so I'm not sure about that. All I know is for me, I had one long term Cancer and a couple shorter ones and I would never again bother with them. And honestly, I was no cake walk for him either I'm sure.

As I said though, it was a beautiful thing in the beginning...romantic, loving, almost too good to be true with all the sparks there. To this day, Cancer men remain the best sex I have ever had.

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Posted by GemiGirl78
So, everywhere I've read it says that Gemini and Cancer are a bad match; unless it's a Gemini girl and Cancer guy and that the girl needs to be ready to commit and have slightly submissive tendencies.... I'm totally in love with a cute señor crab; but he's so slow. Everytime I about quit he dies something cute to reel me in again... I need some Gemini and Cancer advice as to whether this love match works or if it is always destined for disaster?!? (Stupid autocorrect - I meant "he does something cute to reel me in)

It was all peachy in the beginning but in the end my Cancer guy turned out to be too immature, insecure and manipulative. I think it should be the other way around, it would need to be a mature CANCER in order for this to work.

I'm not even remotely submissive so I'm not sure about that. All I know is for me, I had one long term Cancer and a couple shorter ones and I would never again bother with them. And honestly, I was no cake walk for him either I'm sure.

As I said though, it was a beautiful thing in the beginning...romantic, loving, almost too good to be true with all the sparks there. To this day, Cancer men remain the best sex I have ever had.

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I'm so hooked right now... We are at the cute squishie part... I don't want it to ever end. We haven't so much as kissed but he is so polite and romantic, I'm head over heals

Posted by heybitchez
hey bitchez

What is a cookiemonsterez?

Posted by Lizuz
I'm with a second decan cancer man and I am a first decan Gemini. It is magic. The love is all-encompassing and the sex is amazing! I have found my soul mate.

I feel the exact same way!!! I've never been this much in love with anyone in all of my life. The connection is like other-worldly!!!

Posted by cuteboy
as much as i would love to help you with this, unfortunately i can't 😢. yes it's been said that cancer and gemini aren't a good pair. i'm a gemini dude and have been with 2 cancer females and needless to say it was a very emotional one on their behalf. i'm water dominant and even i get emotional myself but i see no need to be with an emotional partner if both of us are emotional and we're both scared to make a move. maybe, just maybe gemini women and cancer men might be better off than gemini men and cancer women. just my opinion.

Geminis are as scared of disappointment as much as the next sign, I just think we are more brave than our cancer neighbor; but we are both very moody. My cancer is super sensitive but he gets in check when he sees that my feelings are hurt or that I get more sensitive. He takes very good care of me in a loving and almost fatherly way... It's super. I love being the little girl Gemini around him... It's precious.

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Posted by heybitchez
hey bitchez

What is a cookiemonsterez?

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My Gem friend is in love with Cancer man. They have their differences, but she loves him, and they are two years together. Probably she has water placements, so that is why she thinks about him a lot, and often go to his place. But he is a typical family man, and she isn't, she doesn't want to get married, because for her paper means nothing.

So, this is where they can get it tough sometimes, and cancers are easily offended. He calls her often, but I find that behavior needy, and acting like a woman. So yeah, it can work, if both sides adjust sometimes... 🙂

Posted by ozzzy
My Gem friend is in love with Cancer man. They have their differences, but she loves him, and they are two years together. Probably she has water placements, so that is why she thinks about him a lot, and often go to his place. But he is a typical family man, and she isn't, she doesn't want to get married, because for her paper means nothing.

So, this is where they can get it tough sometimes, and cancers are easily offended. He calls her often, but I find that behavior needy, and acting like a woman. So yeah, it can work, if both sides adjust sometimes... 🙂

I think if paper means nothing to her, but something to him - then you just do it for the sake of the relationship. Compromise is always best!

I know one couple that is a cancer man/gemini woman. They've been married a long time and really seem to love each other. Of course, they've had their issues, but no more than any other married couple. But, I'm on the outside looking in, so I don't know the details of their marriage.

Well, I think that she won't, and I think that she explained it to him. He probably accepted, but was not so happy about it. And I think that she don't want to have kids...as I understood she doesn't feel anything special when near children, and she said that they would just bother her, because they are irritating and demanding. And knowing that cancers are family oriented, and would probably want that, maybe she will compromise on that, but I don't think that she will sign the paper. But then, who knows... 🙂