Gemini Jealous? lie? is she inlove with me?

Now, I've been posting about this Gemini and I finally got to hug her and kiss her on the forehead and near her lips and she also did kiss me.. she also hugged my tight while we kiss but still off limits with the lips.. then when I told others before in this forum that her family doesn't know where dating.. now they call me her boyfriend... and she never resists...

Then! there was a time when my ex was commenting on my photos and asked me if we're talking? she looks chill and all then she confronted me if I still like my ex-girlfriend and would I want to go back to her and all and she said she just wanted to ask me about it... and sometimes when I unconsciously look at other girl I can feel her eyes on me and one time I got this eye contact with a girl in the mall and she walked right at me and said she's mad of the people hanging around like idiots... she was mad... are those good signs that she's jealous? is she inlove with me now? though she told me she is falling inlove with me but she still can't say I love you to me...

and someone is flirting with her I don't know if she's flirting back? I asked her about it and she got awkward but told me that the guy has a girlfriend and joked about courting her if the guy doesn't have a gf... and when the guy asked if she find him attractive she said no... sometimes I get paranoid about these things and I still don't know if I got her now 🙂

I really am inlove with her...

Posted by unknownlegend
Now, I've been posting about this Gemini and I finally got to hug her and kiss her on the forehead and near her lips and she also did kiss me.. she also hugged my tight while we kiss but still off limits with the lips.. then when I told others before in this forum that her family doesn't know where dating.. now they call me her boyfriend... and she never resists...

Then! there was a time when my ex was commenting on my photos and asked me if we're talking? she looks chill and all then she confronted me if I still like my ex-girlfriend and would I want to go back to her and all and she said she just wanted to ask me about it... and sometimes when I unconsciously look at other girl I can feel her eyes on me and one time I got this eye contact with a girl in the mall and she walked right at me and said she's mad of the people hanging around like idiots... she was mad... are those good signs that she's jealous? is she inlove with me now? though she told me she is falling inlove with me but she still can't say I love you to me...

and someone is flirting with her I don't know if she's flirting back? I asked her about it and she got awkward but told me that the guy has a girlfriend and joked about courting her if the guy doesn't have a gf... and when the guy asked if she find him attractive she said no... sometimes I get paranoid about these things and I still don't know if I got her now 🙂

I really am inlove with her...

You need to stop having your ex come around. It takes a lot of trust for us to give ourselves to you. She is being this way for a reason; So she doesn't end up getting hurt. If you like her she needs to be the only one in your life.

Yes if I get jealous I am definitely feeling some deeper feelings I'm probably not entirely comfortable with. If I liked a guy and he had a wandering eye or a lingering ex girlfriend I would be out of there FAST though.

Posted by ashley1734
Yes if I get jealous I am definitely feeling some deeper feelings I'm probably not entirely comfortable with. If I liked a guy and he had a wandering eye or a lingering ex girlfriend I would be out of there FAST though.

I think Gemini is sometimes scared to show jealousy right? are you scared to show you are jealous? how do you do it?

Posted by unknownlegend

Posted by ashley1734
Yes if I get jealous I am definitely feeling some deeper feelings I'm probably not entirely comfortable with. If I liked a guy and he had a wandering eye or a lingering ex girlfriend I would be out of there FAST though.

I think Gemini is sometimes scared to show jealousy right? are you scared to show you are jealous? how do you do it?

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Most of the time I will try to reason with myself and not say anything, but that doesn't usually work so I will just flat out say "ew I think I'm jealous" in a cute way that doesn't sound too serous OR I will make a joke about it like if there's a girl I know my guy hangs out with or a girl likes him or whatever else I will just say "well if you're not hanging with your OTHER girlfriend tomorrow we should hang out"...just playfully bitchy.

When I have been in a relationship and felt deeply jealous, I usually take that as a red flag, let me instinct guide me and bail out. Feeling protective of someone and not wanting them to flirt with anyone else is one thing, but if I'm feeling ACTUAL jealousy, that isn't healthy and normally for mean that means it isn't a good match and we are vibrating on different frequencies.