Gemini male broke up badly with a Leo female

I love this girl with all my heart. Spent a week with my stomach in knots after our fight. She says she's not in love with me but it sure as heck felt like she was. The talks were amazing at first. The sex wasn't bad, not the greatest, but I think it would improve with more trust. But damn now it's all blown to hell and it's because I snapped back when she started bossing me around. Can't believe I'm hung up on a girl. I understand why I'm hung up on her. Oh here's the best part. She was married to another Gemini with the same birthday. Never boring, never.

I don't know if I REALLY want her back or just the upper hand. Any suggestions on comparability?

You want an upper hand— What are you, a child 😄?

Every single Gem I know was married (and divorced) to a Leo. Including my Gem boyfriend. One of them even twice (different Leos)! The attraction is definitely there, but it seems to backfire.

Not a bad combination to beginn with. Their ambition sky-rocketed. BF Gem advanced from accountant to director of a 300+ company, with a fabulous salary. Leo wife went to college, then to University, but never took a job. She was not satisfied with the typical middle class, mortgage-free house they had. She pushed him to buy a millionaires house in a region inhabited mainly by football stars! Also, she wanted a lavish life style with at least two over-expensive holidays a year.

The arguments started when Gem put a cap on their spendings, because he wanted to save money (his Cap rising showed). Having two small children also brought them back to reality. Sex stopped. She even stopped attending his office Christmas parties. One day she filled for divorce, asking for 80% of what they owned. Including of what he had before the marriage (a successful business he sold). Additionally, he was obliged to pay her maintenance and keep the boys at private school. Luckily he is much smarter than her and managed to turn some things around. He paid a high price, though. Not as much as his ex thought she may get, luckily. Today, they almost hate each other.

So....it depends how old and ambitious you are...you may be able to satisfy her...for a while 🙂!

Woke up this morning with a belly full of hate for her. Screw her. She doesn't deserve me.

Wow!! I didn't know Gemini men were capable of falling in love..