Gemini Male/ Leo Female....?

I am posting out of concern for a friend...

He is a Gemini male who has been 'online dating' a female Leo for the last four months, give or take. They met for the first time recently for a week on his way home from a job.

I have talked with him about this matching and he states that there are kinks that need to be ironed out for them to move forward, but I have found that she is starting to micromanage his social media page.

If she doesn't approve of a post, she makes it known and is very rude about it.
This morning she got into it with a good friend of ours because of a foolish post and was very rude and demeaning and tried to use his 'love' for her as a fighting tool.

As his friends, we are very put off by this and I was just curious if this is usual behavior for a Gemini/Leo relationship.

He has stayed relatively quiet and tends to delete posts that cause some drama...

We have not approached him about our concerns, but will soon if things don't change.

More information came out about the incident. She went off accusing him of 'e-fucking' this friend of ours (never in a million years would he lol) and she called him after sending him several messages and then he told her he had to go and she flipped out and said she wasn't done talking and he said he was and hung up on her.

She has since given him a lot of crap, but all he seems to do is make excuses for her and says that she has 'reasons' for acting the way she does, but then says absolutely nothing to me about it... Just the mutual friend...

I'll add at this point that he and I have a history of an 8 year on and off relationship and a 4 year old child together...

We are good friends though and I understand why he doesn't tell me this stuff, also, she went ahead and blocked me even though I had nothing to do with the situation...

He sure knows how to keep life interesting! 🙂


And yes, this all concerns me because he is my best friend and I worry about who our child will be around in the future... IF things pan out...

Female Saggy here by the way!

I agree, which is why we aren't together. We had a lot of issues with online women. However, he has told me that he is TRYING to be a good boyfriend and good person, which honestly, he isn't a horrible person. He is very dedicated and I see him trying very hard with her.

I know for a FACT that they weren't. We are all very good friends and said friend isn't one to do that at ALL.. They are like brother and sister. LOL

I try to keep a distance, but as I said, we are really close still.

Leo M and Gem F is pretty much a common pairing rather than the opposite.

I am dating a Gem now, and so far, there has been no problem (yet), except that she attracts other men that just keep me on my toes.

But this Leo woman, has some really insecurities. Leo women are not provoked easily with simple posts like that, unless her self esteem is very low or the guy she is with has some issues.

*really has some. LOL

Gahh... yeah. This situation is painful to watch. We had a heart to heart and he's trying his damnedest to be a 'good' boyfriend and make up for the sins of our relationship. It is frustrating to watch because he deserves so much better than this. I'm not saying she's a bad person, she just isn't being very understanding of the stressful changes he has in his life right now and is essentially demanding more time and attention than he has to give right now. She is also not very accepting of his female friends and is "trying" to be understand of our co-parenting relationship, but I don't think it is sitting as well with her as she is trying to portray.

They just facetimed for an hour and a half and then he came inside and was visibly stressed and I was playfully giving him a hard time but then he said he was going to bed. I knew something wasn't right so I went in and talked to him and sure enough, he told me that she was upset because apparently she was just getting started on the conversation they 'needed' to have about HIS communication and yadda yadda and he told he was going to go to bed because he was exhausted... which he should be seeing as how he's been running around with our child for the last two days which isn't usual for him.

It isn't my place and I don't voice my opinion and I'm doing my best at being respectful, it is just so hard to watch him try so HARD and her just treat it like it isn't enough.