Gemini Man and Libra woman

Is Gemini man and Libra woman really meant for one eachother? I'm a libra born september 28th and my ex-boyfriend is a Gemini born June 16th. We was talking for a good 5 months we started off friends with benefits and later on he started saying one moment im just his friend then the next im his girl. Couples months later we was together and he was the one who made us official in front of my family since i was confused on us.I really care about him alot. I was always loyal to only him and showed him that. Right now we are no longer together because I finally told him verbally but drunk that I love him so much and want to have his kids (because he used say he wants me to be his baby mom now im confused). And he told me 2 days afterwards that he doesn't feel the same way I do about him and only wants sex. But before I ever told him face to face he let me know like in may that he knows I have feelings for him. He used to call and text me like everyday and I would do the same. When I was sick he would go to the gas station and help me get better even when I was sad he would make me happy. He used to make me go to school when I didn't want to. And I miss all of it. In the end of July we got into an argument that broke us up. That had ne apologizing a lot and praying he would come back. And he did but he wasn't the same he just wanted sex like he told me in the beginning of us. How do I get him interested in me and go back to the way it was? I'm a shy Libra but was always willing to do what he wanted. Do I wait for him to come back on his own or leave him alone because I understand he wants to have fun and all but I'm not trying to hold him down just be his girlfriend he can always come to. I'm always loyal honest caring and very loving towards him. What do I do—? Especially with the fact that now he's distant from me and will barely text or call me.

Yeah it can get a bit tricky with gemini..i have a gemini moon and it drives me insane. Dated a gemini and it was quite similar.

Here is the thing...he doesnt know this, but he subconsciously feels suffocated and seemingly pressured when he is with you. All the intensity is too much. He prefers to be committed and dedicated when its light hearted. The thing with gemini's they can't know you want more from them. sorta gotta guide him there through other indirect ways. Yep...not for the faint hearted.

eg: Having your own life, own friends, own interest, passions, and sharing those with him, including him in it. Let him see you in the limelight. General Rule of thumb is unless he brings up the "you are the one" conversation avoid being the first to bring it up. 2. Though gemini's understand their are arguments in relationships...they really hate it. when the FUN /playful/adventure is lessen arguments increase they will change their view on their partner. Because Gemini's never truly know what they want..well its not that they dont...it changes a lot..to be in in a relationship with them is to only expect what they said, felt may no longer hold true next week! Even if they said "i wanna break up" next week it may be a different story and he actually wants to stay.

As for your situation, be grateful that your gemini isnt hiding the fact he just want sex from you. At least he is mature enough to be honest...

If you really want him back then you gotta play the game..FOREVER.
1. Living your life to help forget him momentarily will create actions that he would see as desirable.
2. If you are fb friends...then i suggest uping your game and putting a sexy, bubbly, seductive photo as your profile picture. May trigger him to reminisce.
3. Load a shit ton of photos of how your life seems way better and HE just misjudged the relationship. it still can be fun is the motto he has to get from it.
4. Think of places he goes to regularly and "bump" into him there. YES this is crazy. but it wont look like it. Your shy? well the love of your life is leaving all or nothing. Bring some friends and have a good time. say your greetings and walk away HAPPILY like nothing affected you.
5. Post interesting statuses and interests. Have a lot of people comment on them it shows popularity and he wishes he can always remain popular and awesome. SO be that.
6. If he has been stalking your facebook
7. He'll send you messages varying from your look pretty, i miss you, ho

7. He'll send you messages varying from your look pretty, i miss you, how are you, yeah..and right when you respond you have to predict that he'll disappear again..then come back. The 2nd time around you ignore.
8. Do this till he actually makes contact with you.
9. Sadly, its all up in the air..till then thse are the steps you can do.

NO facebook connection?
i say you're in a bad spot. YOu'll have to wait for him to contact you and that is a whole different set of steps...and even then how would you know what he is intending? to persuade...for what? to convince? to console for whom? (himself and his guild)

man im aqua and i dont think i will want a long term relationship with a gemini again.too much unecessary work for the inadequacy. yeah its fun for the moment but you wont ever really feel stable. If you want long term...give yourself a chance and find someone worthy of your time :-)

Thanks a lot for the advice and help. I never cared so much for one guy no matter how bad they were in their past

i know what you mean, i get like that too.