I am heart broken, I am a gemini woman and I met this gemini man 6 mons ago in a small island in the indian ocean, he was working there and I went for a visit. on first day I met him, i find him really friendly and somehow felt that he has some interest in me as he asked for my number and asked to have a drink that night. We met and had really interesting talk, we have been to the same places and liked the same places lived or travel, he was curious about me, ask me questions and just happy to hear all my stories.. he messaged him saying "WOW I know we have just met but I really find you very interesting" which I felt he was sincere. He had also added me on Facebook that night.
We saw each other two more days and spent the last night together, no sex just kissing??_ he told me he doesn't go to "places" where he is not invited??_and that why did I waited 3 days just to kiss him.. i told him, he had to be the one making the move not me.. he said, he thought that I just wanted someone to accompany me as I was visiting alone in the resort etc..so we both have mutual feelings for each other. A week after, we met in the mainland city and spen 3 wonderful nights together. I felt like we were honeymooners. He is the sweetest guy I have been with.. although during all this time, I never really opened up to him what our status is.. like if we are boyfriend or girlfriend??_ but for me, as I don't just sleep with anyone without expecting a relationship.. so i felt that we are some item.
Unfortunately, he resigned so that 3 days we met, he left back home to Canada and I live in Asia. we have been in communication throughout on Facebook messenger and he said that so far he really liked me, he like that I am easy going no drama, and many times he felt surprise that we both like the same food, idea, places, etc. He even mentioned me to his brother and friends and he wished I am with him.
I felt really comfortable with the set up, he meant to come to move with me in Thailand as I am based here but unfortunately he couldn't find a job even though he applied. Among all of guys Ive been with, I never felt that gut feeling that he cheats even though we are apart. And sometimes if 2 days we didn't communicate when we do, it felt like always reassured that he is not seeing someone else and that he still has affection towards me, still sweet and genuine. We do Skype regularly.
As he was stressed not having a job and living back with his parents in Canada he is 42, he
As he was stressed not having a job and living back with his parents in Canada he is 42, he accepted this job in Bahamas. He is a diver. and he said that he really wanted to come to Thaialnd or to asia to be close to me but it seems fate is not cooperating 😢 When he moved to Bahamas the communication became more seldom.. he said that the internet sucks there which is true coz I usually look at his Facebook and noticed his friends mentioning that no internet for few days etc.. so i understand that he cannot come online most of the time??_ that took a toil as I love communication. I felt i was ready to give up but i fell for him a lot. Then i noticed the past days that he is being tagged by his colleagues with a girl also from Canada and working there as receptionist.. they speak french so i translate it.. apparently it was her bday on 5th December and he arranged the party for her 😢 I felt like i was melting, with cold sweat.. felt the same as when I found out my other exs was cheating 😢 but i tried to keep calm, i didn't confront it.. i just messaged him that day saying if he still remember me as he hasn't communicated for 3 weeks!, i told him i miss him. he even said that there was a party of the receptionist and the scuba team got invited and that he miss me more etc..
so i let that pass keeping fingers crossed that its just friends but that he still wants me. i always tell him whenever i travel and he tells that if I'm coming to visit him.
yesterday, their colleague tag a photo of him and the girl that had the bday party.. and they look like they are an item. the girl commented, The Man and me. and this guy liked the photo. I felt puking and cold sweat when i saw it. Im so hurt 😢(( so much. They look happy. But he never bothered telling me something and i think it is so inconsiderate of him to just let that photos be tagged knowing that I could see it. 😢
I am sad to accept that it probably wouldn't work between us anyway but i fell for this guy. I wished we ended it sooner that no more expectations etc.
Will they last? deep inside me, i hope he comes back to me. he has only 3 mons contract there and the plan is he comes over here after. Now i am not sure anymore.
Should i confront it?
Need your advises. Thank you very much.
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Unfortunately, he resigned so that 3 days we met, he left back home to Canada and I live in Asia. we have been in communication throughout on Facebook messenger and he said that so far he really liked me, he like that I am easy going no drama, and many times he felt surprise that we both like the same food, idea, places, etc. He even mentioned me to his brother and friends and he wished I am with him.
I felt really comfortable with the set up, he meant to come to move with me in Thailand as I am based here but unfortunately he couldn't find a job even though he applied. Among all of guys Ive been with, I never felt that gut feeling that he cheats even though we are apart. And sometimes if 2 days we didn't communicate when we do, it felt like always reassured that he is not seeing someone else and that he still has affection towards me, still sweet and genuine. We do Skype regularly.
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