gemini man and space

Hey guys I'm capricorn woman (scorpio moon, capricorn mercury, venus and mars) thaf have fallen for gemini man (pisces moon, gemini mercury, cancer venus and leo mars) i've posted here before mentioning how great our first date was and how great chemistry we have and that's truth he's amazing, absolitly charming. I know he needs a lot of space and that gemini usually have a lot of stuff to do. The thing is i asked him if he ever wants to see me again he said yes and we even started to plan our next date but he had to postpone because he's fallen sick... so i told him to let me know when he knows he will wanna see me again. He didn't respond for 1 week (i know gemini needs a lot of space so i let it be) then he came back but all he said was that he hurt his heel and that it's gonna take 3 weeks for him to heal... i'm capricorn woman i'm very patient i don't need him to message me every day saying every little thing he does (actually that would freak me out since i need a lot of space myself) but it seems little flaky to me. I don't wanna accuse him of anything since i don't really know. I guess he needs a lot of time since it's only 2 months he broke up with his gf. He seemed very sorry for not being able to make it work and he even called himself idiot... so i decided to wait it out, be patient, take it easy and see what will he do.. i think he likes me he's just not sure what he wants to "do" with me 😄

Posted by littlemegabyte
Just wait it out. I do stick by my initial assessment when I said 1 month was not nearly enough time to move on from a past relationship for what I imagine to be... Anybody. He might be emotionally unavailable. Just be cautious, and I would keep my options open as well.

Thank you so much! 🙂 i do that when he disappears... eventually he always returns to me so i think that is a good sign 🙂

Caps and gems aren't a good combo.

Just saying.

Posted by truecap
Caps and gems aren't a good combo.

Just saying.

Well that's strange since we get along very well 😄 My best friend is gemini borned on the same date as a guy i like just few years later he has little bit different placements but we've been friends for 14 years now and we always have amazing time together he was my first platonic love as well 😄 but that was a looong time ago 😄 my dad is gemini as well and i've never met more kinder, sincere and loving man before so yeah i don't think everything is about birth charts of course it's fun trying to find out how "compatible" two can be but there is so much more to life. 🙂

Posted by littlemegabyte
Just wait it out. I do stick by my initial assessment when I said 1 month was not nearly enough time to move on from a past relationship for what I imagine to be... Anybody. He might be emotionally unavailable. Just be cautious, and I would keep my options open as well.

The question. If people aren't ready to date why are they starting and hurting those who aren't guilty of their past?

Posted by littlemegabyte

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Posted by littlemegabyte
Just wait it out. I do stick by my initial assessment when I said 1 month was not nearly enough time to move on from a past relationship for what I imagine to be... Anybody. He might be emotionally unavailable. Just be cautious, and I would keep my options open as well.

The question. If people aren't ready to date why are they starting and hurting those who aren't guilty of their past?

I agree with you, but sometimes you are broken hearted for so long that you eventually have to force your self back into the dating game. I had always set expectations that I wasn't necessarily looking for anything really serious at the time, nor a one night stand. Guys still wanted to go on dates. This obviously isn't the case with this guy seeing as how it was only weeks since he had broken up with his girlfriend. But like I said, I don't know the terms of his prior relationship. It took me over a year to get over an aqua.

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I do believe in only new love can cure an old one, however you have to be open to it, not dwell on your past.
It is hard but life is not easy altogether, right?

Posted by Lust
It's no surprise that gems are charming. The question is: did he find you special?
Gem guys love friends. He enjoys attention from women. The more veriety the better. It's like a vitamin for the male, ego booster!

Clearly, you are into him more. I doubt it if he even think about you as more than just a friend. Wrong timing indeed, if you are dreaming about him being your bf. But, for sex then time is not an issue. Gems don't have problem with sex no feeling. If they are horny, nothing matter.

He will not commit to you, it's real deal. Enjoy the charm while it last. Your dad, your friend, are in different type of relationship with you. So your expectation is different toward them. But, With him. You wish him to think of you more, like in a special way. And you are willing to wait for him, to change, to fall in love with you, to commit to you, and da di da di da.

You might find his child like behavior refreshing. But, being responsible is not for Gemini's. This is going to be a problem for you. Read other post, many issues have been posted by Caps in this board regarding gems. All of them, same old same issues. They are trying to understand gems because they are trying to change gems. While the guys are having chicks on the side.

My recomandation to you: just be friend for a long time. In years.... Let him come and tell you that he wants a relationship with you. He needs to take this decision by himself. Try not overthink his behaviors untill then. This safes you from problems.

I don't know if he found me special geez how am i supposed to know after 1 date 😄 however you doubt that he could find me special... wow i wonder how could you know that since you've never seen me or him just saying 😄

Just to let you know i don't try to change him, i don't want to change him and i would never go around asking for his commitment and love. Just one big NO. i know it's far too soon for something like that all i was wondering about is the fact if it's normal for geminis to dissappear from time to time and i've mentioned before i don't mind that either i don't mind waiting for his reply not for him to fall in love with me 😄DDDD by the way i think it's always healthy for a girl to wait till the guy decides wether he wants to commit to you or not. No matter what your zodiac sign is. And yes i know the timing is not the best, so what... idk if you've read my previous post but i just tried it since he gave me the chance so i took it and i don't regret it. We spent 7 amazing hours together, i don't think he takes me as "friend" since he was the one who kissed me and after that i just couldn't resist him. but i know he needs time and space. i believe that if a guy is interested in you in any possible way he will always come back to you. that is the point for me. yeah maybe i won't ever see him

Posted by Lust
It's no surprise that gems are charming. The question is: did he find you special?
Gem guys love friends. He enjoys attention from women. The more veriety the better. It's like a vitamin for the male, ego booster!

Clearly, you are into him more. I doubt it if he even think about you as more than just a friend. Wrong timing indeed, if you are dreaming about him being your bf. But, for sex then time is not an issue. Gems don't have problem with sex no feeling. If they are horny, nothing matter.

He will not commit to you, it's real deal. Enjoy the charm while it last. Your dad, your friend, are in different type of relationship with you. So your expectation is different toward them. But, With him. You wish him to think of you more, like in a special way. And you are willing to wait for him, to change, to fall in love with you, to commit to you, and da di da di da.

You might find his child like behavior refreshing. But, being responsible is not for Gemini's. This is going to be a problem for you. Read other post, many issues have been posted by Caps in this board regarding gems. All of them, same old same issues. They are trying to understand gems because they are trying to change gems. While the guys are having chicks on the side.

My recomandation to you: just be friend for a long time. In years.... Let him come and tell you that he wants a relationship with you. He needs to take this decision by himself. Try not overthink his behaviors untill then. This safes you from problems.

or someone else will come around and will be faster than him yes all of that might happen. i don't mind waiting i'm very patient woman, i don't chase him around and but he knows i'm there. but thank you anyway for your advice! i won't rush him into anything, i like to chat with him and tease him he seems to have fun when chatting with me and we had amazing time from face to face as well. For all the 7 hours i felt like a star since he was looking only at me, intense eye contact and he flashed me with so many beautiful smiles, tight hugs, amazing kisses, so caring and lovely! so yeah i don't regret meeting him, whatever happens next it was worth it!

Posted by littlemegabyte
Baru, I'm trying to write back to you but it's telling me that you disabled private messaging since you've sent me the last PM? Lol not sure what's going on!

oooh no i don't know either since i'm new to this forum i'll try to look into my settings 😄

Posted by littlemegabyte
Baru, I'm trying to write back to you but it's telling me that you disabled private messaging since you've sent me the last PM? Lol not sure what's going on!

it should work right now i've changed my settings 🙂