Gemini man interested or not?!?!

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by J_suzanne14 on Tuesday, January 12, 2016 and has 4 replies.

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Hi I'm a libra woman (Gemini rising, Capricorn moon) and I've been seeing this guy who is a Gemini ( Aquarius rising, Leo moon). I would really appreciate it if someone could give me insight on what is going on. First of all, im 8 years younger than him and I have a daughter. He's going through a divorce and has two kids.
We met online about 3 months ago and hit it off immidiately. It wa amazing and had a great connection. He asked for my number and and we texted constantly. He was definitely pursing me hard core and I was seeing another guy at the time so I wasn't sure about the Gemini. I ended up leaving the other guy to be with the gem. We aren't dating and I talked to him about a month into seeing/ talking to him all the time. I said I wanted to know how he felt and to make sure I wasn't a rebound. He wa surprised I even felt that way and said he really liked me and wanted to be around me all the time. After that, things were better than ever and we saw eachother usually 2 to 3 times a week. He wanted me to meet his kids right away but I decided it was too early for that and he ended up agreeing with me. He has told all of his friends about me, I have already met 2 of them. He would text me every morning with "I miss you beautiful" and stuff like that the rest of the day. Well I started overthinking things and ended up asking him if he saw me in his future at all. That was last week and now he has gotten way more distant and doesn't text me all day anymore. He says he's too tired to hang out. I think I made a huge mistake and I really like him. How do I fix this or is it even something to worry about?
Ps sorry this is so long

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@J_suzanne14
10 Years

@exxtasyx ok thank you I agree I can on to strong and I wish I didn't.. I don't know if I completely blew it. But I will give him space and let him text me if he really wants to.

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@donnaelvira77 I agree that divorce is hard and I knew that going into it. I was ok with it if he was. I told him last week that if he needs a healing period I was willing to wait it out. But all he said was that I make him happy and that's all he wants right now, is to be happy. I know I'm not a sexual rebound, because he has brought that up himself, saying I'm not. But I am worried I may be an emotional rebound.

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Posted by J_suzanne14
@donnaelvira77 I agree that divorce is hard and I knew that going into it. I was ok with it if he was. I told him last week that if he needs a healing period I was willing to wait it out. But all he said was that I make him happy and that's all he wants right now, is to be happy. I know I'm not a sexual rebound, because he has brought that up himself, saying I'm not. But I am worried I may be an emotional rebound.

Wow, yeah his emotions are going to be seriously heightened right now, with EVERYTHING. I would take everything he says with a grain of salt(just words) actions(just actions) Don't put anything together right now as it doesn't mean anything. It's like when you get on a roller coaster and experience a high afterwords. It's temporary, and artificial. I'm not saying he doesn't feel anything for you or has been lying, I'm just saying enjoy the moment but guard your heart. DO NOT get wrapped up in the heat of the moment and start thinking future. This is the only way you will be able to continue seeing him if that is your decision.

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10 Years

@lust yea I agree I messed up. I shouldn't have talked to him about it. But I would rather have him tell me straight to my face that he doesn't want to see me anymore, or he needs time to heal, instead of ignoring me. Maybe I was stupid for getting involved with him and catching feelings, but he also being immature by not telling me the truth.